Ep 433 - Sex, Sexiness and Libido As A Parent
Free Transformation Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/bbafree Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jasestuartBBC Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jasestuart_fit _ Let's be honest — most parents stop talking about sex long before they stop missing it. Somewhere between kids, careers, exhaustion, and survival mode, desire fades into the background. The spark that once felt effortless now feels like work. You love your partner, but you don't feel sexy. You're tired, self-conscious, maybe even resentful. The body you once felt proud of doesn't feel like yours anymore… and when you don't feel desirable, it's hard to want to be desired. In this episode, I'm pulling the curtain back on a conversation most people avoid — how transforming your health reignites confidence, connection, and sexual energy. We'll talk about: 🔥 Why stress, exhaustion, and poor body image kill libido long before hormones do 🔥 How losing body fat and building muscle literally changes your chemistry — from blood flow to hormone sensitivity to nervous system control 🔥 The difference between spontaneous and responsive desire (and why you're not broken if you never "feel in the mood" anymore) 🔥 The unique challenges for both men and women — from low testosterone to estrogen chaos, and how fixing your health often fixes your intimacy 🔥 The real reason couples drift apart — and how taking care of your body can help you fall back in love, with yourself and each other This episode isn't about being a "sex god" or chasing some ideal body image. It's about reclaiming the part of you that feels alive. Because when you're strong, healthy, and confident again — you don't just look different. You move different. You show up differently. You flirt again. You feel magnetic. You can't feel sexy in a body you neglect — and when you start to take care of yourself again, that energy radiates into every part of your life. Your marriage. Your mood. Your motivation. This is an honest, sometimes uncomfortable conversation — but it might be the most important one you've heard in a while. Because sex isn't just physical. It's emotional. It's energetic. And when you start feeling good in your own skin again… everything changes.
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