SeedTime with Bob and Linda Lotich

• Should Christians Give When Their Spouse Disagrees? (what to do when your spouse says 'no')

  Today, Bob & Linda open up about one of the hardest seasons of their marriage — a months-long battle over a life-altering decision that left them in tears, confusion, and deep disunity. What they learned in that painful stretch has become the backbone of how they help couples navigate money disagreements today… especially when one spouse feels called by God to give and the other isn't on board. If you've ever wrestled with:"What do I do when I feel God nudging me to give — but my spouse isn't there?"…this episode will minister to you deeply. Together, they unpack four biblical principles for staying unified, honoring God, and discerning His timing — without forcing agreement or abandoning conviction.   KEY TOPICS COVERED ✔️ The Lowe's Parking Lot BreakdownBob shares the raw story of the only moment he thought their marriage might not make it — and how God used that season to refine both of their hearts. ✔️ Why the enemy always pushes "either/or" thinkingAnd how God always has a third option you haven't seen yet. ✔️ What to do when you feel called to give… and your spouse doesn't.A practical, grace-filled approach that protects unity and honors conviction. ✔️ The timing principle: when a word from God is real, but not for right now. A simple budgeting tool that can reduce giving conflicts instantly:Using individual "spending money" accounts without hiding money. ✔️ How to pray when you're frustrated, angry, or absolutely sure you're right.(With two real prayers Bob & Linda actually use.)   SCRIPTURES MENTIONED (NLT) James 1:2–5 — Endurance, wisdom, and the refinement of trials. Romans 8:28 — God working all things for good. Ephesians 5 — Mutual love and honor in marriage. 1 Peter 5:7 — Cast your cares on Him. THIS WEEK'S ACTION STEP Set aside one night to pray. Don't solve the issue. Don't debate it. Simply pray for unity, wisdom, and softened hearts — together if possible. If your spouse is not a believer or unwilling: Pray alone and gently reaffirm to them, "I'm not going to move forward without your blessing." Then… go on a date. Restore friendship first.     ABOUT SEEDTIME MONEY Bob & Linda Lotich help Christians transform their finances through biblical wisdom, simple systems, and a heart for generosity. Follow for practical steps, honest stories, and hope-filled conversations about money & purpose. BONUS: Ever dreamt of hanging out with us for 6 weeks in your small group or church? Head to https://seedtime.com/true for details or shoot us a DM on Instagram (http://instagram.com/seedtime).   If you haven't checked out our best-selling book Simple Money, Rich Life (https://seedtime.com/smrl/), we think you'll love it. It was named the 2022 Book of the Year by ICFH and has over 1,000 5-star reviews on Amazon, and is best described as "a money book for people who don't read money books."  You can take it for a test drive for FREE at https://SeedTime.com/sample where you can download chapter 1 of the audiobook, grab the 1st 2 chapters of the ebook version, and even get the 5-week book study companion guide.

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• The Hidden Costs of Entrepreneurship No One Talks About

  Everyone online makes entrepreneurship look like the ultimate path to freedom—but the truth is far more complicated. After 18 years of building SeedTime, Bob & Linda open up about what most people never say out loud: the failures, the mental load, the pivots, the spiritual battle, and why starting a business isn't automatically God's will for everyone. If you're dreaming of quitting your job… or you already have a business and feel the weight of it… this honest, hope-filled conversation will help you discern your next step with wisdom, peace, and biblical grounding. What We Cover Why 95% of their entrepreneurial attempts failed (and why that's normal) The truth behind "being your own boss" (spoiler: you still have bosses) The 87% mental-health struggle rate among founders How social media romanticizes entrepreneurship—and how Christians should see it differently When hating your job doesn't mean God is calling you to start a business What Scripture actually teaches about work, calling, and servanthood How prayer sustained SeedTime (including years of praying daily over the book) Why purpose—not profit—is the only sustainable fuel for entrepreneurs The friend who lost everything building a business… only to discover God's better plan in a "regular job" The role of humility, long checklists, and constant pivots in real-life entrepreneurship   Scripture Mentioned (NLT) Colossians 3:23 — Work willingly as though working for the Lord. Mark 10:44 — "Whoever wants to be first must be the servant of all."   Who This Episode Is For ✓ The employee dreaming of quitting a job they hate ✓ The entrepreneur who feels tired, discouraged, or unseen ✓ The Christian wrestling with calling, purpose, or career direction ✓ Anyone wondering, "Is entrepreneurship really for me?"     Share This Episode Know someone wrestling with career decisions or dreaming about starting a business? Send this their way—they'll thank you later. BONUS: Ever dreamt of hanging out with us for 6 weeks in your small group or church? Head to https://seedtime.com/true for details or shoot us a DM on Instagram (http://instagram.com/seedtime).   If you haven't checked out our best-selling book Simple Money, Rich Life (https://seedtime.com/smrl/), we think you'll love it. It was named the 2022 Book of the Year by ICFH and has over 1,000 5-star reviews on Amazon, and is best described as "a money book for people who don't read money books."  You can take it for a test drive for FREE at https://SeedTime.com/sample where you can download chapter 1 of the audiobook, grab the 1st 2 chapters of the ebook version, and even get the 5-week book study companion guide. 

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• Why you can't actually "get rich quick" (with Mark Batterson)

  Pastor and bestselling author Mark Batterson joins Bob to unpack one of the most misunderstood principles of growth: the way breakthroughs actually happen—gradually, then suddenly. From Warren Buffett's compounding to Jim Carrey's famed $10M check, to the long arc of ministry, writing, generosity, and family life, this conversation is a hopeful reset for anyone who feels "behind."   In This Episode Why most "overnight success" stories take decades What 95-year-olds say they would do differently (and how it should change our lives today) The "25-year time machine" mindset that makes ordinary moments priceless Why young adults often underestimate what God can do in 10–20 years How Mark pastors a church with seven properties and zero debt — and the long-term mindset behind it Turning your church "inside out": how NCC generates $2M/year through marketplace engagement The hidden power of giving goals (and the difference between getting vs. giving goals) The surprising truth about Buffett's wealth: it's not returns… it's time Mark's take on grand gestures, faith steps, and why God honors long obedience Bob's story of writing a 5-year giving goal that seemed impossible—and what God did What to do when your dream is taking way longer than you thought   Key Quotes "You'll overestimate what you can do in two years and underestimate what God can do in ten." —Mark Batterson "Faith is taking the first step before God reveals the second." —Mark Batterson "The greatest risk is taking no risks." —Mark Batterson "We decided to do a ten-year book launch. Let's give it a decade and see if it's any good." —Bob Lotich Timestamps 00:00 — Why get-rich-quick thinking never works 01:00 — Introducing Mark Batterson & the story behind Gradually, Then Suddenly 02:00 — What 95-year-olds regret most 04:00 — The "25-year time machine" for parenting and life 05:00 — Why we plan vacations better than our futures 07:00 — The power of long-range thinking (and why it's so rare) 08:00 — Why most people quit right before the breakthrough 10:00 — Bob's 10-year book launch strategy 12:00 — Early results vs. long obedience 14:00 — The myth of the fast start: Circle Maker sales + slow beginnings 16:00 — Teaching a generation to love "gradually" 19:00 — Mark's 29-year pastoral journey and miraculous property story 21:00 — Why NCC's venue generates $2M/year 24:00 — What church leaders can learn from marketplace strategy 28:00 — Jim Carrey's $10M check and the power of a grand gesture 29:00 — Bob's five-year giving goal that changed everything 32:00 — How giving goals open doors for God to move 34:00 — What to do with dreams that are taking too long 35:00 — Closing encouragement + where to get the book   Resources & Links Mark Batterson's new book: Gradually, Then Suddenly The Circle Maker by Mark Batterson Psychology of Money by Morgan Housel Perennial Seller by Ryan Holiday   If You Enjoyed This Episode Please leave a rating & review — it helps more people discover the show and live with biblical wisdom about money, purpose, and calling. BONUS: Ever dreamt of hanging out with us for 6 weeks in your small group or church? Head to https://seedtime.com/true for details or shoot us a DM on Instagram (http://instagram.com/seedtime).   If you haven't checked out our best-selling book Simple Money, Rich Life (https://seedtime.com/smrl/), we think you'll love it. It was named the 2022 Book of the Year by ICFH and has over 1,000 5-star reviews on Amazon, and is best described as "a money book for people who don't read money books."  You can take it for a test drive for FREE at https://SeedTime.com/sample where you can download chapter 1 of the audiobook, grab the 1st 2 chapters of the ebook version, and even get the 5-week book study companion guide.

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• What EVERY Christian Parent Wishes They Could Do One More Time

  In this tender, emotional episode, Bob and Linda open up about a simple idea that completely reframed how they parent: the "$50,000 Moment." It started with a story Bob read — one so moving he couldn't finish it without crying — about a dad who imagined paying $50,000 to relive a single bedtime with his 10-year-old. That thought experiment changed him, and now it's changing the Lotich household too. If you're a parent (or even if you aren't), this episode will recalibrate how you see the people in your life and remind you of the beauty tucked into ordinary days.   In This Episode: The story that made Bob stop checking the clock at bedtime Why we forget the voices of our kids at different ages The biblical wisdom behind remembering the brevity of life How to recognize "$50,000 moments" in real time Why presence is a discipleship practice—not a personality trait What Jesus and Mr. Rogers both modeled about "holy slowness" How this principle applies to more than kids A tender story about Bob's uncle and what it taught him about presence Scripture Mentioned (NLT): Psalm 90:12 — "Teach us to realize the brevity of life, so that we may grow in wisdom." Key Takeaways: You won't realize the value of a moment until it's gone. Bob shares how he can no longer remember what his now-11-year-old sounded like as a six-year-old—and how that realization hit him like a ton of bricks. Future you would pay anything to get today back. The "time-machine thought experiment" reframes bedtime, routines, and interruptions as priceless opportunities. Presence is a form of love—and discipleship. Looking at the way Jesus interacted with people, we see an invitation to slow down and be with those around us. This isn't just about kids. Parents, friends, coworkers, church community members—none of us are guaranteed another moment together. You don't have to create regrets. You can create reminders. Bob calls them $50,000 moments—a cue to pause, breathe, and fully engage.   Practical Ways to Apply This: Ask yourself during ordinary moments: "If I had to pay to relive this, how much would I spend?" During bedtime or stressful transitions, picture your 80-year-old self watching. Treat others—kids, friends, the barista, the bus driver—as people God placed in your path today. Practice the "Fred Rogers pause": give full attention to whoever is in front of you.   Links & Mentions: Gradually, Then Suddenly by Mark Batterson Let's Retire Retirement by Derek Coburn   Share This Episode If you know a parent in the thick of it, or someone who needs a reminder to slow down and savor what matters—send this to them.     BONUS: Ever dreamt of hanging out with us for 6 weeks in your small group or church? Head to https://seedtime.com/true for details or shoot us a DM on Instagram (http://instagram.com/seedtime).   If you haven't checked out our best-selling book Simple Money, Rich Life (https://seedtime.com/smrl/), we think you'll love it. It was named the 2022 Book of the Year by ICFH and has over 1,000 5-star reviews on Amazon, and is best described as "a money book for people who don't read money books."  You can take it for a test drive for FREE at https://SeedTime.com/sample where you can download chapter 1 of the audiobook, grab the 1st 2 chapters of the ebook version, and even get the 5-week book study companion guide.

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• The 29-word sentence in the Bible that literally puts God's name on you

  Just a 4-minute little reminder today! What if one short, 29-word sentence from the Bible could shift the atmosphere in your home, change how you see your finances, and remind you that God Himself has placed His name on you? In this episode, Bob & Linda dive into the Aaronic blessing from Numbers 6 — a prayer that God commanded to be spoken over His people. You've probably heard it before, maybe even sung it in church, but chances are you've never fully realized its power in your daily life 📖 Scripture highlight: "May the Lord bless you and protect you. May the Lord smile on you and be gracious to you. May the Lord show you His favor and give you His peace." (Numbers 6:24–26, NLT) 💡 This week's action step: Speak the Aaronic blessing out loud once a day—over yourself, your family, or your finances. Notice how it shifts your mindset and brings peace.   BONUS: Ever dreamt of hanging out with us for 6 weeks in your small group or church? Head to https://seedtime.com/true for details or shoot us a DM on Instagram (http://instagram.com/seedtime). If you haven't checked out our best-selling book Simple Money, Rich Life (https://seedtime.com/smrl/), we think you'll love it. It was named the 2022 Book of the Year by ICFH and has over 1,000 5-star reviews on Amazon, and is best described as "a money book for people who don't read money books."     

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