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• #441 Swipe Right: The Real College Sex Scene

  Welcome to a no-filter tour of Gen Z hookup culture with Sienna Alexandra—rising sophomore at San Diego State, soulful singer-songwriter, and daughter of legendary sexologist Dr. Sadie Allison. Part “mini Dr. Sadie,” part dorm-room oracle, Sienna pulls back the covers on what sex, dating, and everything-in-between look like for today’s college crowd. What you’ll learn in this episode:   The real story behind Gen Z buzzwords—translated, Shameless-style   How hookups actually happen (spoiler: Hinge still has a hinge in the game) and the surprising script Gen Z follows once the bedroom door closes   What it means to be in a situationship, sneaky-linking your way through campus life because you’re not clapped, you’re fine shYt! Sienna’s top 3 tips for navigating college sex with confidence, consent, and zero cringe   Why casual doesn’t have to mean careless—and how to keep pleasure, safety, and self-respect at the center of every swipe   The musical side of sexual expression (peep her upcoming single “Back to the Beginning”) and why creativity is a secret weapon in dating Audience perks: Walk away fluent in Gen Z lingo, armed with fresh strategies for healthier hookups, and ready to mentor (or mingle with) the next wave of sex-positive humans. Follow Sienna on TikTok and Instagram @siennaalexandra_   Stream her music on Spotify and all major streaming platforms and check out her next single, “Back to the Beginning” that just dropped! Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in the Coachella Valley, CA September 11th-14th: ⁠⁠⁠https://tinyurl.com/49b9fx8b⁠⁠⁠ Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠our book⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ now! Go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠shamelesssex.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon Wish List⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Other links: Get 10% off your load boost and wetter bits with code SHAMELESS at https://vb.health/ Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://uberlube.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://OMGyes.com/shameless⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://purepleasureshop.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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• #440 Riding Dirty: Sex Positions by the “Penis Genius”

  In this episode, we dive deep with repeat guest Dr. Sadie Allison, pioneering sexologist and bestselling author of Ride ’Em Cowgirl, who’s been helping people tap into their sexuality for 25 years. She has been featured on The Howard Stern Show, Discovery Health, Playboy Radio, and in Cosmopolitan and has been a guest on over 1,000 radio shows and podcasts.  In this episode, you’ll learn: `How Dr. Sadie became the “penis genius” and a pioneer in sex education (and what inspired her iconic books) The most common fears and challenges people face when it comes to “getting on top”—and how to overcome them without breaking a sweat (or a hip) The crucial but often-overlooked role of foreplay, arousal, lubrication, and entry—why the beginning can make or break the ride Underrated sex positions that can totally transform your pleasure (plus, Dr. Sadie’s personal favorites!) The one riding technique everyone should know for mind-blowing penetration Dr. Sadie’s compassionate advice for women who experience pain, dryness, or discomfort—plus body-safe ways to keep intimacy hot and satisfying How to take control of your own orgasm while on top—and exactly what to do to make it happen The best sex toys to add a little extra bounce to your ride Why tune in? Whether you’re a riding rookie or looking to level up your “bucking” (aka fucking) game, this episode is packed with practical tips, playful wisdom, and zero shame. You’ll walk away with more confidence, more creativity, and the know-how to make your ride a wild one—for both you and your partner. Find her at https://www.ticklekitty.com and https://golovecbd.com and follow @drsadieallison, @ticklekitty, and @golovecbd on Instagram and Facebook Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in the Coachella Valley, CA September 11th-14th: ⁠⁠https://tinyurl.com/49b9fx8b⁠⁠ Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠our book⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ now! Go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠shamelesssex.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon Wish List⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Other links: Get 45% off our favorite (super hot) ethical porn with code COUPLES45 at ⁠https://erikalust.com⁠ Listen to Sex Ed With DB here: https://www.sexedwithdb.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://uberlube.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://OMGyes.com/shameless⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://purepleasureshop.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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• #439 Sexual Mastery for Penis Owners with Sex Reimagined

  In this episode, Amy and April sit down with Leah Piper and Dr. Willow Brown—founders of the Sex Reimagined Podcast and holders of 40 years of combined tantric-taoist wizardry—to demystify Sexual Mastery for penis AND pussy owners alike. From ancient bedroom secrets to modern day, melt-your-mind techniques, these ambassadors of love drop the mic (and maybe your jaw) on what it really takes to become the most attuned, electrifying lover in the room. What you’ll learn (and be dying to try):   What sexual mastery truly entails for men/penis owners and how it goes beyond just being a "great lover." The top roadblocks keeping men from full-on bedroom freedom (and how to smash them).   Ancient beliefs about men's sexuality and their relevance today. Practical steps for advancing sexual mastery that anyone can embrace. The transformative results these practices can bring to your sexual experiences. Communication tips for partners seeking more in their sexual relationships. Why sexual evolution is a two-way street—and the juicy roadmap for vulva owners to master their own pleasure.   Real-world success stories from Leah & Willow’s clients that will make you say, “I want THAT.”   Next steps to work with Leah and Willow if you’re ready to graduate from good to god/goddess status. Why press play: Listen in and you’ll walk away with practical tools, expert-backed wisdom, and the playful permission slip to explore deeper connection—whether you’re solo, coupled, or somewhere delightfully in-between. Join Leah and Willow in Greece and shameless listeners get a deal! Visit sexreimagined.com and use code 10SHAMELESS to get 10% off the AWAKENING THE GODDESS RETREAT IN CRETE, GREECE, October 2025. Check out Sex Reimagined: WEBSITE | https://www.sexreimagined.com/ FREE GIFT | https://www.sexreimagined.com/adventure ON-DEMAND COURSES | https://www.sexreimagined.com/courses YOUTUBE | https://www.youtube.com/c/SexReimagined INSTAGRAM | https://www.instagram.com/sexreimaginedpodcast/ TIKTOK | https://www.tiktok.com/@sxreimagined Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in the Coachella Valley, CA September 11th-14th: ⁠https://tinyurl.com/49b9fx8b⁠ Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm⁠⁠⁠⁠ Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order ⁠⁠⁠⁠our book⁠⁠⁠⁠ now! Go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠shamelesssex.com⁠⁠⁠⁠ to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our ⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon Wish List⁠⁠⁠⁠ Other links: Get 45% off our favorite (super hot) ethical porn with code COUPLES45 at https://erikalust.com Get an additional 15% off of MasterClass at ⁠⁠⁠⁠http://masterclass.com/shameless⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at ⁠⁠⁠⁠http://uberlube.com⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at ⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://OMGyes.com/shameless⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at ⁠⁠⁠⁠http://purepleasureshop.com⁠⁠⁠⁠

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• #438 Daddy Mashup: Dominance, Desire, and Daddy Vibes

  Are you curious about the irresistible allure of daddies, dominance, and the playful power dynamics that spice up your sex life? Dive into our latest mashup episode of Shameless Sex, where we celebrate everything about the daddy universe — from nurturing to naughty, tender to commanding. This isn’t just about taboo; it’s about embracing desire in all its forms and exploring what makes your fantasies come alive. What you’ll discover in this special episode:   The different facets of “daddy” — from caring protector to dominant force — and what they reveal about desire.   Insightful clips with top educators and authors, including Watts the Safeword, Zachary Zane, Mischa Byruck, and King Daddy Heff, sharing their expertise on kink, bisexuality, daddy dynamics, and domination.   How to navigate power dynamics safely and consensually, enhancing trust and intimacy.   The role of dirty talk and verbal dominance in turning up the heat.   The playful and empowering side of kink and BDSM, including puppy play and other fetishes. Why listen?  This episode is designed for those curious about exploring their fantasies, whether you’re a seasoned kinkster or just beginning to tiptoe into new territory. It’s sexy, fun, and full of insights that will help you understand your desires better — all delivered with the wit and authenticity you love about *Shameless Sex*.   Get ready to unlock new levels of pleasure and confidence, and discover how embracing your sexuality can be both empowering and exhilarating. Plus, don’t miss the chance to revisit the full episodes on these topics by clicking the links below:   #176: Daddies, Puppy Play, and Kink with Watts the Safeword #352: Bisexuality with Boyslut Zachary Zane #315: Daddy Dynamics and Dirty Talk with Mischa Byruck  #371: Domination with King Daddy Heff Stay tuned — with clips from some of the most inspiring voices in the scene, this mashup will leave you craving more and eager to explore your own daddy universe. Also, Happy Pride everyone!!!  Join us for our next sexy desert retreat: https://www.shamelesssex.com/retreat Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠our book⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ now! Go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠shamelesssex.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon Wish List⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Other links: Get 15% off The Perineum Massager with code SHAMELESS at ⁠⁠⁠⁠http://butterwellness.com⁠⁠⁠ Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://uberlube.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://OMGyes.com/shameless⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://purepleasureshop.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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• #437 O to Oh Ohh Ohhhh! Unlock Multiple Orgasms

  Ready to demystify multiple orgasms and discover how to tap into full-body pleasure? We’re joined by one of our favorite sex educators, Sarah Tomchesson—a Certified Sex Educator, Intimacy Coach, Magic Wand’s Marketing Director, Vice Chair of SIECUS, and co-host of the queer feminist podcast Fuck Yeah—to unpack everything you need to know about expanding your orgasmic potential. In this episode, you’ll learn: What exactly are multiple orgasms, and can everyone experience them?   The common roadblocks that make multiple orgasms tricky to achieve (and how to overcome them)   Essential mindset and environmental tips to set the stage for mind-blowing pleasure   What to avoid—because sometimes the biggest pleasure killers are the things you don’t realize   The concept of “full body arousal” and practical ways to cultivate it   Why breath-work is a game-changer—and beginner-friendly breathing techniques tailored for all bodies   The ins and outs of edging: what it is, why it helps, and how to do it without frustration   Sarah’s top 3 orgasm-enhancing tips to take your pleasure next-level   If you’ve been curious about unlocking new layers of sexual empowerment or just want to upgrade your orgasmic toolkit, this episode is pure gold. Plus, Sarah shares how you can work with her to deepen your embodied sexual growth. Don’t miss this juicy conversation that’ll make you rethink everything you thought you knew about orgasms. Learn more about Sarah Tomchesson: https://sarahtomchesson.com To listen to the Fuck Yeah podcast: https://fuckyeahpod.com Follow her on IG at @sarahtomtom Bonus: Audience member at our last live show put these sex question in our box - we ran out of time to answer theCheck out these episodes for answers to commonly asked sex questions that we couldn’t answer at our last live show:   How to make anal pleasurable (#108 & #418)   Meds for mental health and lower libido (#113 & #154)   Queer sex (#20 & #424)  Erectile Dysfunction when meds aren’t an option (#184, #281, & #403) Edging and orgasm tips (#80, #249, & #253)    Group play/sex (#256 & #326) & check out July episode with sex party do’s and don’ts  Squirting: try getting a Magic Wand (#80 & #249) Fantasizing about something/someone else during sex (#98 & #253) Wanting partner to be more vocal during sex: buy our book Is it common to need hours of sex to be satisfied: listen to this episode with Sarah! Take the Magic Wand challenge AND see why new research shows how using Magic Wand improves more than just your sexual wellness!!! magicwandstudy.com  Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠our book⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ now! Go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠shamelesssex.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon Wish List⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Other links: Get 15% off The Perineum Massager with code SHAMELESS at ⁠⁠⁠http://butterwellness.com⁠⁠ Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://uberlube.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://OMGyes.com/shameless⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://purepleasureshop.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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