Shameless Sex

• #450 The Art of Lasting Passion - Your Mashup with Dr. Aly

  In this special mashup episode, we dive deep into what it really takes to keep passion alive over the long haul with one of our favorite returning guests: Dr. Alison Ash, aka Dr. Aly. As a trauma-informed intimacy coach, Stanford University lecturer, and founder of TurnON.love, Dr. Aly brings a unique blend of academic insight and real-world tools for sustaining emotional and sexual intimacy. We explore: #83 How to Be an Intuitive Lover #311 How to Take the Pressure Off of Sex  #348 How to Keep the Flame Blazing in Longterm Relationships Dr. Aly also shares details about her upcoming courses and retreats, including her popular Sustainable Intimacy: Refuel Passion for Lasting Love couples retreat and her Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills online course. Whether you're partnered or solo, this episode is full of actionable insights that can help you connect more deeply, communicate more clearly, and bring more pleasure into your life and relationships. Sustainable Intimacy: Refuel Passion for Lasting Love retreat for couples in Sonoma Oct 10-13th (also available as an on-demand course rental) Whether your goal is to rekindle passion or simply carve out meaningful time together, this 3-night, 4-day retreat offers a supportive space to slow down and savor each other. You’ll uncover what’s blocking intimacy and gain customized tools to support your unique dynamic. Use discount code shameless for $100 off! Can't make the retreat? Rent this course on-demand and watch from home! Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills online course on Wednesdays, Jan 27th-Mar 17th This course features 8 live, virtual classes with a woven balance of science-based data, embodied exploration, and skills development designed to support you in creating, deepening, and sustaining sexual and emotional intimacy in your relationship(s). All classes feature a combo of lecture with optional breakout room discussions and experiential exercises plus extra time for questions and individualized support after. Recordings available for those who can't attend live or want extra review. Super early bird tickets are available now for $200-$400 off Last but not least, reach out to Dr. Aly for 1:1 and couples coaching support!  To learn more go to http://www.TurnON.love ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in the Coachella Valley, CA September 11th-14th: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://tinyurl.com/49b9fx8b⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠our book⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ now! Go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠shamelesssex.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon Wish List⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Other links: Get 45% off our favorite (super hot) ethical porn with code SEX45 at ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://erikalust.com⁠⁠⁠ Get 10% off happy, healthy, soaking wet bits with code SHAMELESS at ⁠⁠⁠⁠vb.health⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get 30% off your new dream mattress with code Shameless at https://brooklynbedding.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://uberlube.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://OMGyes.com/shameless⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://purepleasureshop.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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• #449 Buzzing with Pleasure: What the Research Says

  The Ultimate Pleasure Experiment: Can a Magic Wand Really Change Your Sex Life? Get ready for a fascinating conversation with Danielle Bezalel, MPH, aka DB, the Creator and Host of Sex Ed with DB, and a special anonymous guest who participated in the Magic Wand study.  Here's what you can expect to learn from this episode: • The surprising story of how our anonymous guest became part of the Magic Wand study and what they learned about themselves in the process • Why Danielle felt compelled to study pleasure and how it led to the creation of the Magic Wand study • The gap in sex education that the Magic Wand study aimed to fill and how it's changing the conversation around pleasure • The most striking results of the study and what Danielle found most surprising • How the study's findings can be applied to real-life sex and relationships • What still needs to be studied in the world of sex and pleasure, including representation and inclusivity As a listener, you'll benefit from: • A deeper understanding of the importance of pleasure in sex education • Insights into the latest research on sex and pleasure • Practical advice for improving your own sex life and relationships • A more nuanced understanding of the complexities of sex research and representation Danielle Bezalel, MPH, is a renowned expert in sex education and research, with a Master of Public Health from Columbia University. She's the Creator and Host of Sex Ed with DB, a podcast that delivers trusted insights from top experts on sex, sexuality, and pleasure. So, what are you waiting for? Tune in to this episode to learn more about the Magic Wand study and how it can impact your own sex life. And, as a special treat, we'll share details on how you can get your own Magic Wand and support further research in the field of sex and pleasure. Will this study revolutionize the way we think about sex and pleasure? Listen to find out, and get ready to upgrade your sex life! Learn more about the study here: https://magicwandoriginal.com/study/ Learn more about Sex Ed with DB here: https://www.sexedwithdb.com/ Follow DB on Instagram @sexedwithdbpodcast Get your own Magic Wand at https://purepleasureshop.com/ Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in the Coachella Valley, CA September 11th-14th: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://tinyurl.com/49b9fx8b⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠our book⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ now! Go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠shamelesssex.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon Wish List⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Other links: Get 45% off our favorite (super hot) ethical porn with code SEX45 at ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://erikalust.com⁠⁠⁠ Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://uberlube.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://OMGyes.com/shameless⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://purepleasureshop.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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• #448 Bottoms Up: Exploring Anal Play, Training, and Fisting

  Let's Get Real About Anal: Breaking Down Fears and Unlocking Pleasure Are you ready to talk about the butt? Like, really talk about it? Join us on this episode of Shameless Sex as we dive into the world of anal sex with Jamie Joy, a certified sex educator and self-proclaimed "hungry slut for freaky fantasies". With over a decade of experience in spreading joy, consent, and pleasure, Jamie is here to dispel the myths and misconceptions surrounding anal sex and give you the lowdown on how to make it a pleasurable experience for all involved. Here's what you can expect to learn from this episode: • How Jamie's journey in the field of sexuality led them to become a leading expert in anal play • The most common fears and concerns people have about anal sex (yes, poop is on the list!), and how to overcome them • The benefits of anal plug training and how it can help first-timers ease into anal play • Tips and techniques for smooth insertion, whether you're using a plug, dildo, or something a little more... natural • Jamie's favorite anal toys and why they're obsessed with them (hint: it's not just about the butt) • An introduction to anal fisting, including tips and techniques for those curious about trying it (because, why not?) By listening to this episode, you'll gain a deeper understanding of the complexities and joys of anal sex, and how to approach it with confidence and curiosity. Whether you're a seasoned pro or just starting to explore, Jamie's expertise and enthusiasm will leave you feeling empowered and excited to take your pleasure to the next level. So, are you ready to unlock the secrets of anal sex and discover a world of unbridled pleasure? Join us on this episode of Shameless Sex and get ready to have your mind blown (and your ass explored)! Find Jamie Joy on Instagram @thebadjewboy or their website http://www.jamiejoy.com to learn more about their work and how to connect with them. ⁠⁠⁠Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in the Coachella Valley, CA September 11th-14th: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://tinyurl.com/49b9fx8b⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠our book⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ now! Go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠shamelesssex.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon Wish List⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Other links: Get 45% off our favorite (super hot) ethical porn with code SEX45 at ⁠⁠⁠https://erikalust.com⁠⁠ Get 10% off happy, healthy, soaking wet bits with code SHAMELESS at ⁠⁠⁠vb.health⁠⁠⁠ Get 15% off any annual membership at ⁠http://Masterclass.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://uberlube.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://OMGyes.com/shameless⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://purepleasureshop.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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• #447 The UTI, BV, and Vaginal Health Survival Guide

  UTIs: the ultimate party crasher in the world of sex and relationships. But what's the real deal behind these pesky infections? Join us on this episode of Shameless Sex as we dive into the wild world of urinary tract infections with Megan Henken, Co-Founder and Chief Marketing Officer of MyUTI. With over two decades of experience in diagnostics and biotech, Megan's on a mission to transform women's health through innovation, education, and empathy. Here's what you'll learn from this episode: • The lowdown on UTIs: what they are, how they're caused, and why they're not just a vulva-owner problem • UTI myths busted: separating fact from fiction and tackling the shame and stigma surrounding vaginal health • How to ID UTI symptoms and what might feel like a UTI but isn't (psst... it's not just about the burning sensation) • The scoop on Micro Plasma, BV, and other mysterious conditions that might feel like a UTI • Home remedies to keep UTIs at bay and promote vaginal wellness • How hormones and aging affect UTI risk - and what you can do about it Megan shares her personal journey of struggling with recurrent UTIs and how it sparked her passion for improving care for women. As a healthcare marketing executive and entrepreneur, she's led the commercial launch of over 20 products, generating $93M+ in revenue. Tune in to learn more about MyUTI, a game-changing digital health platform offering advanced at-home testing and personalized guidance for UTIs, STIs, and BV. And as a special treat, use the code SHAMELESS10 at checkout on http://Myuti.com for 10% off And to learn even more go to: Instagram: @_myuti_ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@myuti Ready to kick UTIs to the curb and take control of your vaginal health? Listen to this episode and join the conversation. ⁠Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in the Coachella Valley, CA September 11th-14th: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://tinyurl.com/49b9fx8b⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠our book⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ now! Go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠shamelesssex.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon Wish List⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://uberlube.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://OMGyes.com/shameless⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://purepleasureshop.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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• #446 Beyond the (Religious) Shame and How to Recreate Your Sex Life

  Can you really overcome the shame and guilt tied to your religious upbringing and find your authentic, sexy self? Join us on this episode of Shameless Sex as we dive into the complex world of sex, shame, and spirituality with certified sex and relationship coach, Erica Lemke. With a background in community counseling, kinesiology, and dance instruction, Erica brings a unique, holistic approach to helping midlife women and couples reclaim their sensuality and confidence. Here's what you can expect to learn from this powerful conversation: • How Erica's own journey led her to become a sex coach and her experiences working with clients who've been impacted by purity culture • The challenges of overcoming sexual shame related to religion and Erica's expert tips for navigating this complex issue • The good, the bad, and the ugly of purity culture: can it ever be a positive force in someone's life? • The transformative power of saying yes to your desires and how it can help you break free from shame • How Erica's coaching practice can help you overcome shame and find your authentic, sexy self Erica's mission is to empower clients to explore their desires, deepen intimacy, and experience sexuality as a healing, joyful, and transformative force. With her radically affirming and grounded presence, she's the perfect guide to help you come home to yourself - sensual, sovereign, and shamelessly alive. So, if you're ready to break free from the shame and guilt holding you back, tune in to this episode and discover how you can start living your most authentic, sexy life. And as Erica says, "The power is in the yes"... but what does that really mean? Listen to find out, and be sure to check out her work at https://sexcoachslc.com, as well as her latest book Join us for our next Shameless Sex retreat in the Coachella Valley, CA September 11th-14th: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://tinyurl.com/49b9fx8b⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get premium access to our behind the scenes episodes here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://shamelesssex.supportingcast.fm⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠our book⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ now! Go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠shamelesssex.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to snag your copy Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon Wish List⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Other links: Get 10% off happy, healthy, soaking wet bits with code SHAMELESS at ⁠⁠vb.health⁠⁠ Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://uberlube.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get 10% off while learning the art of pleasure at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://OMGyes.com/shameless⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://purepleasureshop.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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