The Worst Girl Gang Ever

Ooof, this is an emotional one people. 
This week we chat to Sian Gardner https://www.instagram.com/flicks_and_red_lips/ We last had her on the podcast back in season 8 (no one can remember the episode number, but it was forty something) 

In our previous episode, Sian talked about the loss of her baby boy, Chase to a TFMR (termination for medical reasons) 
Since we recorded, Sian has gone on to experience another TFMR with her daughter Aubrey. 

In this epsiode, we talk about the strength of the TFMR community, the help that Sian has sought out and received and the pain of losing a second child in this way, alongside the joy she was able to find during her pregnancy and birth with Aubrey. 

This is a hugely personal and emotional episode, but one that is full of inspiration and beauty. 

There’s support for TFMR out there - here are the resources we cover in this podcast episode.

Ellie’s Gift - https://www.ellies.gift/
ARC - https://www.arc-uk.org/
Mental health Midwfie - https://www.instagram.com/mentalhealth_midwife/

We are The Worst Girl Gang Ever Foundation. We’re all about bringing people together who are going through the tough stuff — baby loss, infertility, and everything in between — and making sure no one has to face it alone. Our community is full of honesty, compassion, and real talk, offering support, understanding, and hope when it’s needed most. You can find out more and connect with us over at www.theworstgirlgangever.co.uk

Do your boobs hang low, can you tie them in a bow? 
This is basically the energy levels we’re bringing to you this week. 
Bex is fresh off her UK photography tour for our upcoming exhibition (although is far from being actually fresh) and the girls chat about the tour itself, the exhibition in October at the vagina museum & how you can get involved. 

It’s a very lighthearted one, with LOTS of singing, bickering and LOL’s. 
You can find details on our campaign and exhibition here: 
https://www.justgiving.com/campaign/justbecause
If you would like to find out more about how you can get involved, please email [email protected] with Exhibition in the subject line. 

We are also looking for sponsors & Partnerships xxx

We are The Worst Girl Gang Ever Foundation. We’re all about bringing people together who are going through the tough stuff — baby loss, infertility, and everything in between — and making sure no one has to face it alone. Our community is full of honesty, compassion, and real talk, offering support, understanding, and hope when it’s needed most. You can find out more and connect with us over at www.theworstgirlgangever.co.uk

This week we chat to Amy & Nat from Riot about the dark comedy they have written ‘A thirty something’s guide to your first miscarriage’ The girls are currently fundraising to make this film a reality and Bex & Laura are getting involved to help bang that drum even louder (they have also been promised cameo roles) 
We ask that if you’ve ever felt your experience has been minimised, if you’ve ever been the victim of a sentence starting with ‘at least’ donate a pound to help bring this film into existence, not just for now, but so it can be found by women in the future, searching for something that makes them feel less alone. 
You can donate here: 
https://greenlit.com/project/thirty-somethings-guide-your-first-miscarriage

We are The Worst Girl Gang Ever Foundation. We’re all about bringing people together who are going through the tough stuff — baby loss, infertility, and everything in between — and making sure no one has to face it alone. Our community is full of honesty, compassion, and real talk, offering support, understanding, and hope when it’s needed most. You can find out more and connect with us over at www.theworstgirlgangever.co.uk

💔 Episode Summary
In this episode, Serena shares her story of pregnancy, loss, and everything that came after.
She talks about the early excitement of becoming a mum, and how quickly things changed as she was faced with difficult decisions no one ever expects to make. Serena opens up about the emotional weight of that time, navigating medical conversations, uncertainty, and the kind of grief that’s hard to put into words.
We talk about the role of healthcare and how support, or lack of it, can shape your experience during pregnancy and loss. Serena reflects on how grief showed up for her in ways she didn’t expect, and how returning to everyday life, including work, felt far from simple.
This episode is about the complexity of loss, the courage it takes to keep going, and the importance of giving yourself the space and care you need along the way.
💬 Key Takeaways
 Pregnancy can begin with hope and excitement, before everything shifts unexpectedly. 
 Experiences within the healthcare system can deeply affect how loss is processed. 
 Being faced with difficult decisions during pregnancy can feel overwhelming and isolating. 
 Grief after loss is complex and can show up in unexpected ways. 
 Support from healthcare professionals can make a meaningful difference. 
 Returning to work after loss isn’t always straightforward and may take time. 
 Resilience often grows quietly through lived experience. 
 Self-care is not a luxury, it’s a necessity after emotional trauma.
We are The Worst Girl Gang Ever Foundation. We’re all about bringing people together who are going through the tough stuff — baby loss, infertility, and everything in between — and making sure no one has to face it alone. Our community is full of honesty, compassion, and real talk, offering support, understanding, and hope when it’s needed most. You can find out more and connect with us over at www.theworstgirlgangever.co.uk

Today Bex & Laura get to grips with hard hitting questions such as 
“Who leaves long voice notes when a text would do fine…” 
It’s a lighthearted one this week, keep those questions coming, none too silly or too adventurous. We’ll answer anything (as you will hear) email in [email protected]

Sending so much love. 
Bex & Laura xx

We are The Worst Girl Gang Ever Foundation. We’re all about bringing people together who are going through the tough stuff — baby loss, infertility, and everything in between — and making sure no one has to face it alone. Our community is full of honesty, compassion, and real talk, offering support, understanding, and hope when it’s needed most. You can find out more and connect with us over at www.theworstgirlgangever.co.uk