S9 E3 | The Decision No One Talks About
In this deeply moving and eye-opening episode of The Worst Girl Gang Ever, we’re joined by the incredible Emma Belle, founder of TFMR Mamas, for an unfiltered conversation about navigating pregnancy loss, making an impossible decision, and building a safe space for others after a termination for medical reasons (TFMR).
Emma shares her personal story of fertility treatments, genetic screening heartbreak, receiving a diagnosis of Edwards syndrome, and ultimately saying goodbye to her baby, Willow.
With raw honesty, she walks us through the emotional and practical chaos that follows TFMR, including how medical systems often dehumanise grief, and what it means to choose advocacy in a world that still judges pregnancy loss.
Together with hosts Bex Gunn and Laura Buckingham, this episode covers the real, unspoken truths behind TFMR and baby loss, while offering insights, validation, and education for anyone who has faced reproductive trauma or wants to support those who have.
🎯 What You’ll Hear in This Episode:
Emma’s IVF journey, pregnancy joy, and shock diagnosis of Edwards Syndrome
The harsh reality of missed miscarriage and navigating fetal anomaly scans
What TFMR (termination for medical reasons) really means and why people choose it
The psychological trauma of leaving hospital without your baby
Dehumanising medical language: from “mum” to “pregnancy,” “baby” to “foetus”
Why many can’t speak out about their experience—and why some choose to
Building TFMR Mamas: peer support, grief resources, and global community
TFMR Awareness Day (May 4th) and why advocacy matters
The power of peer support, safe spaces, and bearing witness to someone else’s pain
👩👩👧👧 Who This Episode Is For:
Anyone who has experienced TFMR, baby loss, miscarriage, or stillbirth
Parents navigating infertility, genetic diagnosis, or difficult pregnancy decisions
People searching for TFMR support groups, termination for medical reasons resources, or compassionate grief support
Those curious about advocacy in reproductive rights, grief healing, and mental health after baby loss
About The Worst Girl Gang Ever
The Worst Girl Gang Ever is a real, honest, and emotive podcast that covers the heartbreaking subject of miscarriage, infertility, and baby loss. Expect raw conversations about unspoken experiences, hosted by TWGGE founders Bex Gunn and Laura Buckingham. This show aims to break the silence and open dialogue around miscarriage and pregnancy loss. No more shame, no more taboo—let’s change the narrative for future generations.
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