BETTER! with Dr. Stephanie Estima | Strength, Body Composition & Perimenopause

If you've tried therapy, medication, journaling, and every mindset tool available — and you're still anxious — this episode is for you. Dr. Russell Kennedy, physician, neuroscientist, and certified trauma therapist, makes the case that anxiety doesn't start in your mind. It starts in your body, as a physiological alarm that's likely been there since childhood. And until you address the alarm directly, you're only ever managing symptoms.

Dr. Kennedy explores why perimenopause turns up the volume on anxiety that felt manageable before, why overachievement is just another way of outrunning the alarm, and what you can actually do — today — to start healing from the body up. Fair warning: Dr. Kennedy takes Dr. Stephanie through a live exercise to find her body alarm. There were tears in the production room.

🎤 Episode Overview

(0:00) Intro/Teaser

(1:30) Stand-Up Comedy, Mother's Death, and What Anxiety Is

(08:28) Why We're So Anxious in a World That's Never Been Safer

(12:51) Alarm vs. Anxiety: The Distinction That Finally Makes Sense of It All

(26:00) JABS, the Default Mode Network, and Overachievement

(46:00) Perimenopause and SSRIs

(53:00) Live Exercise: Finding the Alarm in Your Body (Baby Steffi)

(01:06:00) How to Start Feeling Your Feelings Without Blowing the Lid Off Pandora's Box

(01:11:39) Three Beach Balls and No Progesterone

(01:17:00) The After-Party with Dr. Stephanie

📎 Resources mentioned in this episode: https://drstephanieestima.com/podcasts/ep474

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P.S. When you're ready, here are two ways Dr. Stephanie can help you:
Subscribe: The Mini Pause — My weekly newsletter packed with the most actionable, evidence-based tools for women 40+ to thrive in midlife.
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If you’ve been eating less, exercising more, and still experiencing unwanted body changes, this episode is for you. Natalie Jill, a Licensed Master Sports Nutritionist and functional fitness trainer, joins Dr. Stephanie for a peer-to-peer conversation between two women in the fitness industry who have seen the same broken patterns and concluded that the plan most women follow is not suitable for them.

Natalie’s journey from rock bottom to 13 magazine covers in her 40s and 50s was not due to a better diet plan, but rather a complete overhaul of her False Assumed Truths (F.A.T.). She discusses the mechanics behind why chronic cardio is counterproductive in midlife, the accelerating bone loss caused by ellipticals, the falsehood of three sets of twelve, and the necessity of changing beliefs before any protocol can work.

This rare episode features two practitioners in the same space, with the same audience, comparing notes honestly.

Episode Overview:

(0:00) Intro/Teaser

(1:21) Two Midlife Women, One Honest Conversation — with Natalie Jill

(4:22) The Best Thing That Happened to My Body After 40: Natalie's Explant Story

(8:25) Toxic Load, the "Bucket" Theory & What We Blame on Menopause

(10:13) From Rock Bottom to 13 Magazine Covers: Natalie Jill's Origin Story

(19:24) Why Your Desire to Change Makes Other People Uncomfortable

(25:00) Did the Fitness Industry Do Midlife Women Dirty? Ignorance vs. Negligence

(29:36) Why Cardio Stops Working After 40 — and What's Actually Happening in Your Body

(32:32) The Real Problem with Cardio Machines, Calorie Counting & the Elliptical

(35:54) Where Cardio Actually Helps: Polarising Your Training & the Norwegian 4x4 Protocol

(38:54) Low Impact Is Killing Your Bones: Heels, Hip Pain & Babying Ourselves to Death

(42:34) Why Glutes Are the Central Problem — and Why Nobody Is Checking Them

(45:54) False Assumed Truths: The Belief System Running in the Background of Every Midlife Woman

(50:45) Is Menopause Weight Gain Inevitable? Becoming Your Own Health Detective

(52:42) GLP-1s, Muscle Loss & Why "Just Get Enough Protein" Isn't Enough

(1:03:48) This Is Why I Lift: Strength Training as Resilience for Whatever Life Throws at You

(1:07:05) What a Real Training Week Looks Like: Progressive Load, Planks & Pull-Ups

(1:10:37) After Party: Stephanie's Highlights 

Resources mentioned in this episode: https://drstephanieestima.com/podcasts/ep473

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P.S. When you're ready, here are two ways Dr. Stephanie can help you:
Subscribe: The Mini Pause — My weekly newsletter packed with the most actionable, evidence-based tools for women 40+ to thrive in midlife.
Build Muscle: LIFT — My progressive strength training program designed for women in midlife. Form-focused, joint-friendly, and built for real results.

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Esther Blum, integrative dietitian and menopause expert, unpacks the estrogen supply chain crisis, leaving women without basic hormone care, while there are 25 erectile dysfunction medications on the market with zero shortages.

But the conversation goes deeper: if your gut and liver detox pathways aren't functioning first, HRT may not work the way you're hoping. Esther breaks down the gut-liver-hormone axis, explains why 70% of women aren't detoxing their hormones properly, and makes the case for eating more — not less — in midlife.

Plus: testosterone as the missing menopause hormone, why carbs at dinner might be the key to sleeping through the night, and why the zero F's era is the best-kept secret of menopause.

🎤 Episode Overview:

(00:00) Introduction

(01:31) The Estrogen Shortage Nobody Is Talking About

(06:54) The Case for Starting HRT in Perimenopause

(11:19) HRT and Connective Tissue — What Estrogen Can't Do Alone

(14:15) Testosterone: The Missing Menopause Hormone

(22:00) The Gut-Liver Axis and Why HRT Fails Without It

(29:20) What Happens When You Skip the Detox Step

(34:31) Ventilator Calories and Eating More in Midlife

(41:00) Carbohydrates, Cortisol, and Sleep

(01:00:32) The Lab Tests to Ask For

(01:03:13) One Thing to Do This Week

(01:04:27) The Zero F's Era

(01:11:00) After Party - Final Thoughts with Dr. Stephanie

📎 Resources mentioned in this episode: https://drstephanieestima.com/podcasts/ep472

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P.S. When you're ready, here are two ways Dr. Stephanie can help you:
Subscribe: The Mini Pause — My weekly newsletter packed with the most actionable, evidence-based tools for women 40+ to thrive in midlife.
Build Muscle: LIFT — My progressive strength training program designed for women in midlife. Form-focused, joint-friendly, and built for real results.

Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Dr. Rachel Zoffness is a pain psychologist, neuroscientist, and author of Tell Me Where It Hurts -- and she's here to dismantle the biggest lie medicine has sold us: that pain is a purely biomedical problem requiring a purely biomedical solution.

Dr. Rachel unpacks how trauma turns the nervous system into a pain megaphone, why the brain literally gets better at producing pain the longer it practices it, and why loneliness is as dangerous to your physical health as poor sleep or a bad diet.

This one is for every woman who did the surgery, took the pills, and still woke up hurting. The roadmap exists. You just haven't been given it yet.

Episode Overview:

(0:00) Intro/Teaser

(4:55) Why "Psychosomatic" Is a Dirty Word That Needs Retiring

(8:48) The Big Fat Lie: Pain Is Not Just Biology

(10:46) Biopsychosocial 101: The Three Ingredients of Every Pain Recipe

(13:48) Big Pharma, Back Surgery, and the $54 Billion Reckoning

(28:12) How Trauma Turns Your Brain Into a Pain Megaphone

(30:44) Central Sensitization: Why Your Brain Keeps Practicing Pain

(36:57) The Pain Recipe: How to Map Your Triggers and Take Back Control

(45:58) Loneliness Is a Pain Amplifier (Here's the Neuroscience)

(54:16) The Healing Science of Touch

(57:33) Emotions Need to Move: Swearing, Rage Rooms, and Trauma That Gets Stuck

(1:04:26) After Party: What Landed and Why I'm Getting Her Back

Resources mentioned in this episode: https://drstephanieestima.com/podcasts/ep471

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P.S. When you're ready, here are two ways Dr. Stephanie can help you:
Subscribe: The Mini Pause — My weekly newsletter packed with the most actionable, evidence-based tools for women 40+ to thrive in midlife.
Build Muscle: LIFT — My progressive strength training program designed for women in midlife. Form-focused, joint-friendly, and built for real results.

Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

If you have been getting your skincare advice from 60-second reels and 18-year-old influencers, this episode is your reset.

Dr. Mamina Turegano is not your average dermatologist. Triple board-certified in dermatology, internal medicine, and dermatopathology, she has spent 16 years in practice connecting what shows up on the surface to what is happening inside the body. Today, she is here to de-influence your skincare routine and give you the science-backed truth about what perimenopausal skin actually needs.

This is the episode to send to every Betty who has ever felt overwhelmed in the skincare aisle. The answer is simpler -- and more internal -- than the industry wants you to believe.

Episode Overview:
0:00 Intro/Teaser
5:03 How to actually wear sunscreen
8:05 What estrogen loss does to skin in perimenopause
16:40 Estrogen cream on the face
20:55 Melasma and hyperpigmentation
30:00 Retinol vs tretinoin, how to onboard, and the skin-thinning myth busted
49:00 Eczema, psoriasis, gut health, fiber, and stress-triggered skin conditions in midlife
1:09:33 Collagen peptides, niacinamide, polypodium leucotomos, urolithin A
1:25:32 Home device ratings: red light therapy, microneedling, microcurrent
1:36:13 Why strength training and glutes improve your skin
1:41:08 After-party with Dr. Stephanie

Resources mentioned: https://drstephanieestima.com/podcasts/ep470

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P.S. When you're ready, here are two ways Dr. Stephanie can help you:
Subscribe: The Mini Pause — My weekly newsletter packed with the most actionable, evidence-based tools for women 40+ to thrive in midlife.
Build Muscle: LIFT — My progressive strength training program designed for women in midlife. Form-focused, joint-friendly, and built for real results.

Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.