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    Jeannette McGill: Everest at 52, Leadership at Altitude & The Truth Above 8,000m

    09/06/2026 | 46 mins.
    Jeannette McGill is a seasoned mountaineer and executive leader who, at 52, became the oldest South African woman to summit Everest in May 2025. With more than 30 years of global climbing experience—including leading expeditions across four continents—she knows deeply that the summit is never just about standing on top. 
    Jeannette's journey is a testament to patience, resilience, and the quiet power of backing yourself, no matter how many setbacks you face. Beyond her personal achievements, she is passionate about demystifying the modern-day myths of Everest and advocates instead for the very real challenges mountain terrains face through climate change globally. Having been there herself, she brings an informed, honest perspective on what is truly happening above 8,000m. 
    Today, Jeannette combines her love for high-altitude adventure with leadership on Boards and helping others explore their own limits. She also supports future generations through leading snow camps in the Victorian Alps and mountaineering scholarships, believing that mountains are powerful teachers of courage and humility. Her story is not just about conquering peaks but about becoming the kind of person who dares to try.
    We first spoke with Jeannette on 7th January 2021 - Jeannette McGill - 1st South African woman to summit Manaslu, the 8th highest mountain in the world
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    Show notes
    Who is Jeanette
    Corporate executive, board director and most importantly a mountaineer
    South African by origin,  located in Melbourne and spending up to 5 months in Nepal
    TGP Episode - January 7th 2021 - - 1st South African woman to summit Manaslu, the 8th highest mountain in the world
    Her Mt. Everest dream 
    A one day - someday project…
    How climbing Mt. Everest came to the forefront of her mind
    To be a real mountaineer you needed to tick Mt. Everest off the list
    Deciding to go in a different direction in 1995 
    The pivotal moment - university and having a career or entering the climbing competition 
    Pursuing her career 
    Was Mt. Everest a realistic goal?
    Growing into the project
    Adding Mt. Everest to the bucket list after covid
    Going through a back surgery and perimenopause and deciding that 2023 would be her Mt. Everest year
    Using Mera Peak as an acclimatisation strategy 
    Getting sick and not recovering well, getting to camp 2 and not being able to continue.
    Heading back to Australia and deciding to go back in 2024
    Deciding to gift herself the power of a mid-life sabbatical 
    Exciting her role in December 2023 and starting to train properly for Mt. Everest in 2024
    Joining a small team
    Mechanical failure on the mountain - her jumar not working and getting word that her house in Australia had burnt down. 
    Getting to the South Col and not being in the right head space. 
    Knowing she was making the right decision to turn around and head back down the mountain 
    Dealing with the frustration and disappointment and why it was difficult 
    Not being in a good head space. Needing to pivot and become nomadic during the winter 
    Floundering and not knowing what was next
    Deciding that she would regret it if she didn't back herself one final time. 
    Pivoting and making the best of the situation 
    Having flexibility and deciding to do Mt. Everest one last time 
    Figuring out where to do the winter work - in either Scotland or New Zealand 
    Packing up and heading over to New Zealand to do training 
    Doing more mountain work, on the NZ Alps in the South Island 
    How it became a more personal/internal  objective/goal 
    What training looked like 
    Working with a mental and physical coach
    Using Training Peaks 
    Evoke Endurance Coach 
    Returning to Manaslu in the fall of 2024
    Muscle endurance - steep hills in NZ out of Queenstown carrying 20kgs 
    Following a structured gym program 
    Her 'A' Team 
    Figuring out through processes and what could derail her
    Having cheat sheets e.g. a mopey list to keep her focused on her goal and what she needed to do
    Heading back to Mt Everest in 2025 and wanting to do the Everest - Lhotse Double (having 2 permits) 
    Acclimatising on Mt. Mera Peak 
    Being an older climber and the changes she made
    Sleeping at camp 3 on her rotation 
    Heading up to the balcony 
    The challenge of the 2025 season 
    Dealing with extreme winds and not being able to stand up
    Having to turn around - returning to her tent on the South Col and being hit with disappointment. 
    Maybe climbing Mt. Everest just isn't going to happen again - shedding a tear 
    Having her main sherpa needing to head back down to camp 2
    Having the opportunity to go for the summit of Mt. Everest the following night 
    Now or never!!!!!
    Starting to prepare, getting herself together and heading back to the balcony before reaching the summit
    Reaching the summit - A surreal, glorious moment. 
    Crying on the summit and why she will never forget it
    The descent back to base camp - dealing with fatigue 
    Being able to look after herself on the descent 
    The afterwards - Relief? Adventure blues?
    The pressure on herself to achieve the goal
    Being at peace with herself 
    Needing to rest this calendar year and savour her summit
    Wallowing in the peace and knowledge of achievement 
    How to connect with Jeannette 
    Final words of advice for other women who want to take on their own mountains and challenges
    Keep stretching your fear muscle 
     
    Social Media
    Website: www.mcgillsmountains.com
    Instagram: @mcgills_mountains
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    Lauren Burnison – Pioneering the Sober Travel Movement and Adventures of a Single Mum

    02/06/2026 | 44 mins.
    Lauren Burnison is the founder of We Love Lucid, the UK's first alcohol-free travel company, and a trailblazer in the sober travel movement. From couch-surfing with nomads on the Mongolian steppe to snorkelling with sharks in Oman, Lauren has spent her life seeking off-the-beaten-path adventures—and this year, she took a two-month road trip through Spain and Portugal in a micro camper with her four-year-old daughter to celebrate ten years of sobriety.
    In this candid conversation, Lauren shares her journey from self-destructive habits to sobriety, how travel became her school of life, and the joys and challenges of being a single parent exploring the world. She talks about starting We Love Lucid, the lessons learned while traveling solo and with her daughter, and how adventure can transform the way we see ourselves.
    Explicit content: We touch on drugs, drinking, and addiction.
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    Show notes
    Who is Lauren
    Coming from Northern Ireland Originally
    41 years old
    Founder of We Love Lucid - The UK's First Alcohol-free Travel Company
    Being a single mum to a very energetic 4 year old girl 
    Being an aspiring writer
    Reflecting back on her early years 
    Being very creative, loving animals, and growing up in the countryside 
    Where her love of travel came from 
    Starting to learn Spanish in school and how her teacher inspired her
    Having a knack for learning languages 
    Finding a diary entry from when she was 15 years old
    Having an ambition to learn Spanish and French and wanting to live in Spain 
    Getting to visit Spain at 16 on a sports camp 
    Having her eyes opened and feeling invigorated while travelling on the road 
    Why A'Levels were such a slog and hated being told what to do 
    Being confident about travelling 
    Deciding to travel around South America 
    Getting into drugs and going down a self destructive path 
    Heading back home to go to university 
    Spending 6 months in Barcelona - working in a pizza restaurant and living in a tent
    Getting her degree
    Being taken further down the path and still being self destructive 
    Making changes at 32 
    Wanting to explore and see more of the world - spending time in South Africa
    Getting in more and more trouble 
    Turning 30 and heading to South Korea to work as an English Teacher 
    Having the best and worst moments of her life
    Hitting rock bottom and deciding not to drink ever since
    Getting in trouble, and having the fear of losing her life
    Partying with Chinese Dwarfs 
    Seeing how bad her behaviour had gotten
    Feeling and being alone on this part of the journey 
    Drinking 4 nights a week
    The hardest part - being faced with this situation of not knowing who she was 
    Who is Lauren? Having to deal with difficult emotions.
    Feeing so vulnerable 
    The night she decided to quit drinking 
    Creating 'We Love Lucid' and how it helped her stay connected with the sober community 
    Visiting the vast empty spaces in Mongolia 
    Growing up with horses and riding horses 
    Wanting to ride horses in Mongolia and how it turned in to a trip of self discovery 
    Trying to figure out the next steps
    Why life is not just good or bad - it's a mixture of everything 
    Heading to the South of Spain and doing a workaday experience over there
    How the idea for - We Love Lucid came about 
    Not having a positive view of sobriety 
    Thinking about her experiences as a sober person travelling 
    Starting to run the trips 
    Why the trips are all about connecting with sober people 
    Cycling from Beer to Soberton….
    Why not all projects turn out how you want them to 
    Not wanting to be a quitter
    Getting to 70 miles…..
    Why it was a bit of a failure, but also a valuable lesson at the same time 
    Riding up the East Coast of Korea on a bike to North Korea
    The goodness of people 
    How travel and adventure changed after having her daughter
    Feeling as though her world has been shrinking
    How it affected her mentally - with not being able to travel 
    The realities of being a single mum in Scotland
    How her life seems so normal
    Starting to go away with her daughter 
    Being on a road trip in Portugal for 1/2 months 
    Trying to escape the winter in the UK
    Needing to stay in the UK and going with that 
    Starting to accept the reality 
    Wanting to start her blog - "Adventures of a single, sober mum" 
    Being able to afford a micro camper 
    Why trips are a condensed school of life 
    The beauty and joy of the quiet moments
    Walking with 12 women on the Santiago de Compostela 
    Mandy Manners - Sober Coach 
    She Recovers Foundation 
    How to connect with Lauren
    The stigma around being a single parent 
    Wanting to feel more empowered
    Final words of advice for other women
    Change is possible 
    Being inspired by Terence McKenna 
    Try something hard, push yourself out of your comfort zone. 
     
    Social Media
    Website: www.welovelucid.com - The UK's First Alcohol-free Travel Company 
    Instagram: @welovelucid 
    Substack: adventuresofasobersinglemum.substack.com
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    Helen Dainty – First Woman to Cycle Across Libya & 9 Years Living on £50 a Week by Bike

    26/05/2026 | 38 mins.
    In this Tough Girl Podcast EXTRA episode, we catch up with Helen Dainty — solo female cyclist, self-described "full-time global hobo," and one of the most committed long-distance bike travellers you'll ever meet.
    For the past decade, Helen has spent nine years on the road, travelling exclusively by bicycle and living on around £50 a week. She's cycled across Australia, ridden from London to Nordkapp and back, travelled extensively through the Middle East and North Africa — and in 2025 became the first woman to cycle across Libya.
    When war in Sudan forced her to abandon an overland route into East Africa, Helen adapted and rerouted — because that's what life on the road demands: flexibility, resilience, and the ability to trust the process.
    In this episode, we dive into what's happened since we last spoke in January 2022. From navigating complex visa systems (including Algeria and Libya), to travelling with police security details, being detained in Libya, and accepting incredible hospitality through the Warm Showers community — Helen shares the raw, practical realities of long-term cycle touring.
    We also talk about:
    The logistics of visas with a British passport
    Working with visa agents and last-minute plan changes
    Cycling in Algeria and Libya
    Budget travel (sticking to AUD $100 per week)
    Her bike setup — switching from chain to belt drive
    Schwalbe Marathon Plus tyres and long-distance reliability
    Not collecting souvenirs and living with less
    Documenting her journey on YouTube (and the time spent editing!)
    Saying yes to unexpected opportunities
    Helen also opens up about going through perimenopause and menopause while cycling through deserts — dealing with extreme sadness, brain fog, hot sweats in the middle of the night, and coming out the other side feeling stronger and more balanced. At 47, she believes she has another strong decade of adventure ahead — and she's not slowing down.
    Looking forward, Helen plans to spend the next two years cycling down the west coast of Africa in an attempt to circle the continent, before eventually heading back towards Australia through Asia.
    Her advice for women wanting to do something different?
    Say yes to the opportunity — you can work out the details on the way.
    Accept without hesitation.
    Raw, honest, practical and deeply inspiring — this is a powerful catch-up with a woman who has built her entire life around two wheels.
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     Do you want to support the Tough Girl Mission to increase the amount of female role models in the media in the world of adventure and physical challenges? Support via Patreon! Join me in making a difference by signing up here: www.patreon.com/toughgirlpodcast.
     Your support makes a difference.  Thank you x
    ***
    Show notes
    Who is Helen
    Catching up since we last spoke
    Cycling through the Middle East and Africa 
    TGP Episode - January 2022 - 
    TGP Extra Episode - 
    What's changed?!
    Going back to the start of 2022 
    Taking the ferry from Turkey to Lebanon 
    Flying home to surprise her family for Christmas 
    Setting off toward Iran in 2022 
    The practical side of travel - visa's, entering and leaving countries (with a British Passport)
    Saudi Arabia and Oman using a E-visa system 
    Getting a visa for Algeria - paperwork, needing to be in your home country while applying for the visa, face to face visit to the Embassy in London 
    Visa's for Libya - not being issues and needing to work with a contact to get a visa 
    Using a visa agent - Tap Persia 
    Last minute change of plans and trying to extend a 2 week visa while in the country - which proved impossible 
    Booking accommodation to get the visa 
    Cycle touring being a little stressful at times
    Cycling in Algeria for a few days and what the experience was like
    Warmshowers hosts 
    Accepting hospitality 
    Having an Algerian security detail (police) and what that entails 
    Needing to trust the process 
    Having her passport taken off her…
    Arrested/detained in Libya by the police 
    Finding affordable accommodation 
    Tourist sites in Algeria and Libya 
    Not meeting other bike packers in Libya 
    How it all happened….
    Saying yes to opportunities as they present themselves 
    Libyan Cycling Centre 
    Starting to share videos on Youtube and documenting her trips 
    Working on improving the sound quality 
    Aiming for 8 min vlogs
    The time spend editing….
    Sticking to her budget of AUD $100 a week
    The bike, the bike set up and new gear
    Changing from a chain to a belt drive 
    Getting a new saddle - Repente 
    What is a belt drive and needing a specific frame for it and how it works 
    Why it's popular with long distance tourers 
    Schwalbe Marathon Plus tires 
    Not collecting souvenirs 
    Day to day emotions and loving life on the road
    Not having any plans to stop cycling 
    Heading into Western Africa - and taking 2 years to cycle down the coast 
    Planning to cycle back to Australia through Asia
    47 years old - another good decade ahead of her
    Going through menopause 3/4 years ago
    Not knowing what was happening in 2021/2022 and not undertaking that she was going through perimenopause 
    Experiencing extreme sadness and brain fog 
    Feeling more balanced and having less brain fog, and less depression bouts
    Having hot sweats in the desert, in the middle of the night 
    Feeling glad to be on the other side of it
    Starting to think about bone density 
    Cycling down the West Coast of Africa 
    Using this downtime over winter to plan out her route and sort out visa's.
    Taking her dad to Ethiopia 
    How to connect with Helen on social media and follow along with her journey 
    9,570 subscribers on YouTube - wanting to reach 10k! 
    Final words of advice for women who want to do something different and take on new challenges 
    Say yes to an opportunity -you can work out the details on the way
    Accept without hesitation! 
     
    Social Media
    All links: helsonwheels.bio.link  
    Instagram: @hels.on.wheels 
    Facebook:  @Helsonwheelswithmlt 
    Youtube: @helsonwheels
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    Chloe Stead – From Navy Life to Nomadic Living, Caminos, Grief & Choosing a Simpler Way

    21/05/2026 | 59 mins.
    In this episode of the Tough Girl Podcast, we meet Chloe Stead — 42 years old and currently living in a rustic tiny shack in the bush in Tasmania with her husband — but her journey to this simple life has been anything but ordinary.
    Since 2008, Chloe has been living a travelling, nomadic lifestyle. After leaving school at 18 to join the Navy and later working in health and safety in Perth, Australia, she reached a quiet breaking point while staying at the Whim Creek Hotel in 2006. A simple but powerful thought surfaced: There has to be more to life than this.
    Within a week, she sold her house, packed up a shipping container, took her dog, and began driving solo around Australia with just $500 AUD — despite being petrified of sleeping in a tent. That leap of faith set the course for the next chapter of her life.
    But Chloe's story is not just about adventure — it's about grief, reinvention, and learning to live on her own terms.
    After the sudden death of her partner Willy in 2013, everything stopped. In the depths of grief, Chloe stepped away from social media, let go of her old life, and slowly began again. Meditation, yoga retreats, and eventually walking the Camino de Santiago in 2014 became turning points. Carrying everything on her back, she discovered a deep love for minimalism, simplicity, and self-reliance.
    Over the years, Chloe has:
    Walked multiple Caminos including the Camino del Norte, Camino Primitivo and Via de la Plata
    Hitchhiked and walked along the beaches of Uruguay
    Taken a 10,000km road trip with her dog Dexter
    Lived off less than $100 AUD per week
    Worked seasonally to fund months of adventure
    Cycled from Alaska to San Francisco (86 nights in a tent!)
    Walked the Wales Coast Path and the Portuguese Camino
    Chosen to stay off social media to be fully present on trail
    Now married, Chloe continues to design a life built around freedom, movement, and intentional simplicity. With big adventures planned for 2026 — including walking the South West Coast Path and the GR10 — she shares honestly about navigating partnership on trail, managing knee issues, strength training gains, and why getting to the start line is often the hardest part.
    This conversation is about:
    Letting go of possessions and expectations
    Living with uncertainty
    Processing grief through movement
    Creating "trail life" off-trail
    Why you don't need technology to experience adventure
    Trusting that the universe conspires to keep you going
    And why you should "give it a crack and get to the start line."
    Chloe's message is simple but powerful:
    Life is uncertain. Don't put things off. If there's something you want to do — take the plunge.
    ***
     New episodes of the Tough Girl Podcast drop every Tuesday at 7 AM (UK time)! Make sure to subscribe so you never miss the inspiring journeys and incredible stories of tough women pushing boundaries.
     Do you want to support the Tough Girl Mission to increase the amount of female role models in the media in the world of adventure and physical challenges? Support via Patreon! Join me in making a difference by signing up here: www.patreon.com/toughgirlpodcast.
     Your support makes a difference.  Thank you x
    ***
    Show notes
    Who is Chloe
    42 years old, currently living in Tasmania in a rustic tiny shack in the bush with her husband 
    Living a travelling lifestyle since 2008
    What was the lead up to making changes in her life
    Leaving school at 18 and joining the Navy
    2006 living in Perth, Australia  and having a job in health and safety
    Starting to feel different when staying at the Whim Creek Hotel
    Thinking that there has to be more to life
    100 things to see and do in Australia before you die 
    Selling her house within a week, filling up a shipping container
    Taking her dog and starting to drive solo around Australia 
    Being encouraged by a friend - to just do it! 
    Not being in tune with herself 
    Highlights from spending time on the road, driving around Australia 
    Starting off with $500 AUD and getting a job 
    Spending the trip just driving around 
    Being petrified of staying in a tent
    Pitching her tent and staying in it for the first time
    Meeting a boy, Willy (which wasn't part of the plan!) 
    Deciding to move to New Zealand (2009 - 2010)
    Backpacking around Europe for 3 months
    Planning every day and having a very tight schedule 
    Feeling disheartened with her experience 
    Needing to do something spontaneous 
    Backpacking around Cambodia for 3 weeks with no plan 
    Seeing a flyer about yoga and meditation
    Struggling with mental health and things in life 
    Doing a yoga retreat in Australia and doing a deep dive into meditation 
    Starting to work in farming around Australia 
    2013 and the year of her 30th birthday
    Deciding to go to South America to visit Machu Picchu 
    Willys death and how it stopped everything 
    Not knowing how to cope
    The funeral and not wanting to live where she was living or work where she was working 
    Getting rid of her phone and getting off social media
    Starting again and wanting to forget 
    Needing to deal with the grief 
    Going back to mediation and doing a workshop which helped 
    Learning about the Caminos in Spain 
    Walking the camino in April 2014 (The way of st James)
    Not knowing what she was doing and carrying far too much stuff
    Learning a lot on the way 
    Not being very open on the French Camino 
    Learning a lot from Willys death and making a promise to him 
    Doing what she wanted to do with her life - no excuses 
    Falling in love with a minimalistic, simple way of life
    Waling with everything on her back and how it agreed with her
    Finding her passion and purpose 
    Living this simple life
    Needing to create trail life, while off trail 
    2016 - waling the Camino del Norte and the Camino Primitivo
    2017 - hitchhiked and walked along the beaches in Uruguay
    Feeling safe and not feeling alone 
    2018 - ten years since starting her nomadic journey and taking a 10,000km road trip with her dog - Dexter
    Needing to sort out her stuff in the shipping container 
    Feeling so much lighter without all of her possessions 
    Losing Dexter in 2019 
    Doing a silent retreat in Bali 
    Wanting to do a 5 year walk around the world
    Not having any more responsibility and having ultimate freedom 
    Working in Tasmania in 2020 and dealing with Covid and why it was so difficult 
    Buying a block of land and a 1976 Volkswagen Kombi Van
    Self reliance and simplicity 
    2022 and the world starting to open up again 
    Starting to work again to make money and giving up on the idea of the 5 yr walk around the world
    Her 40th birthday and wanting to walk 2,000km to celebrate it 
    Meeting Will 
    2023 - Walking the Wales Coast Path and the Portuguese Camino
    Discovery the Tough Girl Youtube Channel! 
    Buying the Cicerone - Wales Coast Path Guidebook
    Trying to plan the first few days
    Wild camping on her first night 
    How things just kept working out 
    Heading to Bali in 2024
    Doing some backpacking in 2025, throughout Vietnam, Laos and Thailand
    Needing to thru hike these caminos by herself 
    Finishing the Camino Via de la Plata.
    Getting married! 
    Being the planner in the relationship 
    Deciding to do a bike trip in America - cycling from Alaska to San Fransisco (86 nights in the tent)
    The challenges of adventures with a partner and navigating them together 
    Needing to focus more on recovery and needing to put more effort into training before adventures 
    Adventures booked for 2026 - Walking the SWCP and the GR10! Starting 1st June!
    Thinking this is crazy and how am I going to do this! 
    Why you just need to start and the rest will unfold 
    Why getting to the start line is always tricky - mentally 
    Noticing her improvements in running at park run after strength training
    Having some knee problems 
    Starting on the creatine and having more energy during the summer
    The South West Coast Path 
    Not being on social media and being in the moment.
    Final words of advice for other women who want to live life differently and live life on their own terms 
    Life is pretty uncertain, and definitely our time here is uncertain. 
    Don't put things off to the future. If there's something that you want to do, take the plunge.
    The universe conspires to keep you going 
    Learning to live with less over the years and how money has become more abundant 
    Working for 6/7 months of the year, and 1 month of earnings goes towards her future 
    Living off less than $100 AUD a week 
    Stopping working after earning $20,000 dollars and coming back to a $3,000 dollar tax cheque
    Give it a crack - get to the start line.
    Keep that dream at the front of your mind 
    Don't be afraid NOT to use technology on trails - walking the trails with just a guidebook or map 
     
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    Aisyah Rafaee - 2x Olympic Rower on Comebacks, Mental Strength & Redefining High Performance in Your 30s

    19/05/2026 | 46 mins.
    In this episode of the Tough Girl Podcast, we're joined by Aisyah Rafaee – a two-time Olympic rower from Singapore who competed at the Rio 2016 and Paris 2024 Olympic Games in the single scull.
    After taking an eight-year break from the sport, Aisyah made the bold decision to return—qualifying for Paris 2024 as one of the oldest athletes in the field and redefining what it means to be a high-performing athlete in your 30s.
    Originally from Singapore and now based in Boston, USA, Aisyah grew up with four brothers and discovered rowing after being scouted during an indoor competition at school. With limited rowing culture and opportunities in Singapore, she carved her own path—training overseas in Sydney, qualifying through a fiercely competitive Asian selection process, and representing Singapore on the world stage.
    But her journey hasn't been linear.
    From struggling with pressure at her first Olympics to working with mental skills coach Hansen Bay, from stepping away from elite sport to rediscovering her love for movement, from fracturing her ribs a month before Paris to qualifying with just six months to go—this is a powerful conversation about identity, resilience, vulnerability, and growth.
    Now working as a HYDROW Athlete and Mental Performance Coach with 3HP Athlete Coaching, Aisyah shares insights on:
    Building confidence and resilience
    Letting go of expectations
    Separating identity from performance
    The realities of returning to elite sport after time away
    Training and mindset during pregnancy
    Why rowing is a lifelong sport
    Her philosophy of the 3Hs: Happy, Healthy & High Performing
    This episode is about trusting your timing, embracing new chapters, and asking yourself: Is this smart for me?
    Aisyah's story is proof that it's never "too late" to chase a dream — and that high performance can evolve with you.
    ***
     New episodes of the Tough Girl Podcast drop every Tuesday at 7 AM (UK time)! Make sure to subscribe so you never miss the inspiring journeys and incredible stories of tough women pushing boundaries.
     Do you want to support the Tough Girl Mission to increase the amount of female role models in the media in the world of adventure and physical challenges? Support via Patreon! Join me in making a difference by signing up here: www.patreon.com/toughgirlpodcast.
     Your support makes a difference.  Thank you x
    ***
    Show notes
    Who is Aisyah
    Being based in Boston, USA
    Originally from Singapore 
    Working as a HYDROW Athlete 
    Working as a Mental Performance Coach
    3HP Athlete Coaching 
    2x Olympic rower in the single sculll
    Competing at the 2016 and 2024 Olympics 
    Learning to live a normal life outside of sports 
    Growing up in Singapore with 4 brothers
    3 older brothers and 1 younger brother
    Being sporty and learning to be competitive 
    Living a simple life and being raised by her mum after her parents got divorced
    Not knowing where her mindset comes from
    Wanting to be the best version of herself 
    Not being surrounded by high performance individuals 
    Starting rowing, Singapore not having much of a rowing culture 
    Getting scouted at her secondary school during an indoor rowing competition 
    Singapore Rowing Association
    The importance of hight in rowing 
    5'8 (173cm)and being tall for an Asian Woman 
    Learning how to row on land with the ergo 
    The challenges and continuing to show u to training 
    Not enjoying it at first
    Getting out on the water and spending more time in the water than on the water
    The lack of opportunities in Singapore
    Why the Olympics was not on her radar 
    Wanting to be the best at it and wanting to represent Singapore 
    Team sport  (Netball) V individual endeavours (Rower)
    The South East Asia Games
    Rowing in a single scull
    Winning gold in 2013 and beating a 2x Olympian 
    Quitting her job and training full time in Australian 
    When the seed got planted about going to the Olympics
    Deciding to go and train over in Sydney, Australia 
    Building confidence and winning competitions 
    Qualifying for the 2016 Olympics - the Asian Qualification Criteria for that cycle 
    16 countries competing for 7 spots
    Dealing with the pressure of going to the Olympics and being able to perform at the highest level 
    The weight of expectation and not being able to perform 
    Working with the mental skills coach Hansen Bay
    The power of letting go of expectations, facing the fear, how losing can tie into identity, building confidence and resilience
    The practical side of mental preparation 
    Communication and trust 
    Learning how to be vulnerable 
    Why it took more than 1 session 
    Taking an 8 year gap and what happened 
    Trying to retire from sports and wanting to focus on her career
    2018 and deciding to do some soul searching and heading to the USA to work as a rowing coach in Boston
    Meeting her current husband
    Getting into marathon running and thinking about trying out for the Paris Olympics
    2023 - visiting Paris
    Thinking she was too old to row in the Olympics in her 30s
    Having 6 months to qualify for the Paris Olympics 
    Qualifying in April 2024 and getting the last spot available 
    The Paris Olympics and what it was like
    Fracturing her ribs a month before the games
    Having her family there to support her 
    Handing the pressure the 2nd time around
    Motivation during training
    Keeping her eye on the prize
    Moving her body
    Being in a different chapter in her life
    Being a HYROW Athlete and how it works
    Advice for women who want to get into rowing
    Why it's a lifelong sport
    How to connect and follow along with Ariesyah
    3Hs - Happy, Healthy and High Performing 
    Training for a marathon in 2026 and finding out she's pregnant!
    Fitness and health during pregnancy
    Top tips and advice to listen to your body
    Is this smart for me?
    Think of the bigger picture 
     
    Social Media
    Website: 3hpathlete.com 
    Instagram: 
    @ariesyah
    @3hpathlete
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