Tough Girl Podcast

Joy Haizelden is an inspiring British wheelchair basketball player who has made significant strides in the world of adaptive sports. Born on December 1, 1998, in China, Joy was abandoned outside an orphanage and later adopted by a loving British couple, Jim and Margaret Haizelden, in 2005. Growing up in Southampton, Hampshire, Joy discovered her love for wheelchair basketball when her father sought ways to keep her active and engaged in sports. At just 15 years old, Joy made history as the youngest player to represent Great Britain at the 2014 Women’s World Wheelchair Basketball Championship, where the team achieved its best-ever finish. Her dedication and talent quickly set her apart, earning her accolades like the Peter Jackson Young Female Player of the Year and helping Team GB secure numerous medals, including gold at the Women’s U25 Wheelchair Basketball World Championship. As a classified 2.5 point player, Joy has continued to excel on the international stage, recently competing in the 2024 Paralympics in Paris, all while pursuing her PhD. Her journey is one of resilience, determination, and empowerment, serving as a source of inspiration for aspiring athletes everywhere. In this episode of the Tough Girl Podcast, listeners will gain insight into Joy’s remarkable journey, discovering how she overcame adversity and used her experiences to fuel her passion for sport and academic excellence. Joy's story is not only about athletic achievement; it’s a testament to the power of resilience and the importance of following one’s dreams.  Tune in to be inspired by her message of empowerment and to learn how she continues to break barriers in wheelchair basketball and beyond! Don't miss out on the latest episodes of the Tough Girl Podcast, released every Tuesday at 7am UK time! Be sure to hit the subscribe button to stay updated on the incredible journeys and stories of strong women.  By supporting the Tough Girl Podcast on Patreon, you can make a difference in increasing the representation of female role models in the media, particularly in the world of adventure and physical challenges. Your contribution helps empower and inspire others. Visit www.patreon.com/toughgirlpodcast to be a part of this important movement.  Thank you for your invaluable support! Show notes Being born in China and growing up in an orphanage Being adopted by a British family Moving to the UK at age 6 Learning English within 6 months Transitioning to a new language and culture Facing challenges in physical education at her school Discovering wheelchair basketball with encouragement from her father Finding a supportive community Her first experience in specialised wheelchair basketball Enjoying the physical and social aspects of the sport Explaining the rules of wheelchair basketball The classifications for disability levels The importance of team strategy with point-based player selection Starting wheelchair basketball at age 12-13 Being invited to a senior national team camp at 15 Youngest player for GB at the 2014 Women's World Wheelchair Basketball Championships in Toronto Reflecting on the honour and excitement of representing her country at such a young age Beginning to see the possibility of playing at a higher level, aiming for the Rio Paralympics Moving to Worcester for a centralised programme with the GB team Receiving sponsorship from the National Lottery The hectic schedule of training five days a week and managing school Joy's experience of the Rio Paralympics Recalling her parents attending the games, which was a significant moment for her The multi-sport event experience and the impact of being part of such a large event Impact of COVID-19 on Tokyo Paralympics The increased focus on mental well-being and support from sports psychologists Her personal experiences and strategies for managing stress and resilience Pursuing a PhD in health, education, and promotion at The University of Alabama Balancing her PhD studies with playing basketball The challenges of managing both academic and athletic responsibilities Team dynamics and roles The Tokyo Paralympics atmosphere Deciding to move to Alabama for PhD and basketball Collegiate wheelchair basketball in the US Cultural adjustments and international friendships How their PhD programme allows them to balance their academic and athletic pursuits The challenges of managing her PhD and being part of the GB team The need for careful time management due to frequent GB team events The difficulties she faced travelling as a disabled person Managing to balance her commitments and participate in international tournaments despite challenges Reflecting on their experience at the Paris Games, where they finished 4th Feeling disappointed at not winning a medal The team's performance as the second-best in women's wheelchair basketball history Undecided on the 2028 LA Games, but evaluating performance and team dynamics Dealing with disappointment and moving forward Final words of advice   Social Media Instagram: @haizsee   

Frankie is a Women's Endurance Coach and Nutritionist, helping busy women achieve their endurance goals in the most holistic way possible. From severe mental health struggles in her early twenties, to being hit by a car in 2020, Frankie is now a Norseman Xtreme Triathlon finisher and 4 x Marathon runner. Founded in 2016, Pretty Strong Coaching was created to support and coach women struggling with their mental wellbeing. Having faced depression, chronic pain, and panic attacks, Frankie understands the struggles of mental health firsthand. After trying therapy, sleeping pills, and anti-depressants, she found healing through movement, nature, and nutrition. Frankie provides a space where women can reconnect with their bodies, achieve their running and triathlon goals, and embrace a balanced, healthy lifestyle within a supportive community. Through her coaching, Frankie empowers women to overcome mental barriers, conquer self-doubt, and tackle burnout, helping them become their strongest, healthiest selves. This episode is a must-listen for those seeking motivation, practical insights into holistic health, and a reminder that with the right support and determination, it's possible to transform adversity into triumph. Tune in and be inspired to embrace your own journey toward strength and wellness! *** Don't miss out on the latest episodes of the Tough Girl Podcast, released every Tuesday at 7am UK time! Be sure to hit the subscribe button to stay updated on the incredible journeys and stories of strong women.  By supporting the Tough Girl Podcast on Patreon, you can make a difference in increasing the representation of female role models in the media, particularly in the world of adventure and physical challenges. Your contribution helps empower and inspire others. Visit www.patreon.com/toughgirlpodcast to be a part of this important movement.  Thank you for your invaluable support! *** Show notes Who is Frankie Growing up with an active childhood in London Doing dance lessons and tennis with her sister Going into university in Leeds to study graphic design Stopping fitness, focusing on a busy social life Experiencing poor mental health at 24 Signing off work due to stress Exploring ways to improve her wellbeing Studying happiness and health Recovering through moving the body and nourishing it Signing up for the London Marathon despite not being a runner Taking on the London Marathon after being told she couldn't do it Following a book to guide her training Meeting friends, seeing family, and enjoying the event How running has helped with her mental health Believing small victories help manage mental wellbeing The importance of consistency, endorphins, and alone time during runs for mental clarity and self-discovery Moving to Singapore for work Obtaining personal training qualification Growth of Frankie's coaching career Helping others achieve fitness goals and mental resilience Enjoying living in Singapore, having access to pools and sunshine Facing the challenge of extreme heat Having an air-conditioned indoor gym setup to handle the heat Participating in the annual event, The Standard Chartered Singapore Marathon Coaching 30 clients through the 2018 Singapore Marathon Designing the "Mind Over Marathon" programme to help women with mental health struggles prepare for the race Offering a safe space for women dealing with various issues Her challenging recovery process after being hit by a car in Singapore How cycling and swimming aid her healing Regaining her physical strength over a four-year period Applying for The Norseman Xtreme Triathlon Weighing the challenge of competing in the extreme triathlon in Norway while living in Singapore Partnering with Performance Bike Fitter for altitude training equipment Working with Trapeze Recovery Centre, providing ice baths, to acclimate to cold temperatures Travelling to Australia to train on actual hills Training on the Sunshine Coast with her support team and triathlete friends Growing anxiety and self-doubt as race day approaches The importance of her support crew to her success Finding peace and determination, pushing forward despite fears Driving the Norseman route backwards to familiarise themselves with the course Observing other experienced athletes, feeling a mix of intimidation and inspiration What was her race day morning like Swimming conservatively, following the coastline Swelling and loss of dexterity due to cold Transition from swim to bike (T1) Frankie's climbing challenges Facing a gruelling 35-kilometre climb with steep gradients Mental and physical strain on the bike Alone, battling wind, hail, and fatigue Pushing through some of the darkest moments of her race Transition from bike to run (T2) From flat to "Zombie Hill" Being joined by her support crew on the hill for safety Continuing to walk despite torrential thunderstorms Nutrition and hydration on the run Final words of advice   Social Media Website: www.prettystrongcoaching.com  Instagram: @prettystrongcoaching  Facebook: @prettystrongcoaching   

Jane Kanizay is an adventurer, educator, activist, speaker, artist and mother of four who on 14 May 2022 successfully climbed Mt. Everest with her 19-year-old daughter. Jane enjoys sharing the highs and lows of her Everest experience and the journey of resilience required to take on such an immense challenge as a survivor. Jane climbed with the message of @teachusconsent to campaign for holistic consent education in school education curriculum and to advocate for the prevention of violence against women. To have a message to take to the summit provided additional strength on the days Jane had reached her physical or emotional limits. High altitude mountaineering is one of the deadliest sports in the world. Jane successfully summited mountains above 6000m plus an 8000m summit of Cho Oyu, Tibet, to prepare her for the extreme environment of Everest, considered to be in the ‘death zone’ above 8000m where oxygen content is only 34% compared with sea level. Listening to Jane on the Tough Girl Podcast offers a rare insight into the mental and physical fortitude it takes to summit Everest, but also the deeper purpose behind her journey.  Through her incredible story, Jane not only inspires adventurers but also advocates for change, sharing how carrying a message of consent and empowerment gave her the strength to push through her limits.  Her story will resonate with anyone looking to overcome challenges, build resilience, and find purpose in their own lives.   Don't miss out on the latest episodes of the Tough Girl Podcast, released every Tuesday at 7am UK time! Be sure to hit the subscribe button to stay updated on the incredible journeys and stories of strong women.  By supporting the Tough Girl Podcast on Patreon, you can make a difference in increasing the representation of female role models in the media, particularly in the world of adventure and physical challenges. Your contribution helps empower and inspire others. Visit www.patreon.com/toughgirlpodcast to be a part of this important movement.  Thank you for your invaluable support!   Show notes Who is Jane Mother of four, living with one child Mountain climbing with her eldest daughter, Gabby Being motivated by Gabby's dream to climb Completing several trips to the Himalayas Reaching Everest's summit together on 14 May 2022 Becoming the second mother-daughter pair to summit Everest Growing up in an athletic family Having siblings achieving high levels in sports Discussing her childhood experiences with athletics Her belief in ordinary people achieving extraordinary things The importance of family support in sports and life Starting running marathons at 33 after having four children Transitioning from marathon running to trekking and climbing in her late 40s Remembering her 40s as an empowering period, winning races in her age group When Gabby's interest in climbing started The mother-daughter duo's plans evolved into larger climbing goals over time Gabby reflecting on her experience, appreciating the timing of climbing at age 19 Climbing experience which fostered a unique friendship They relate differently outside of typical family roles Maintaining their bond while balancing parenting responsibilities Initially planned to finance their climbs through a mortgage and potential scholarships Selling their house and funding the majority of the trip Adapting to unexpected financial changes Gabby's focus on balancing her love for climbing while pursuing an income in the industry Jane's reflections on the dynamics among her children regarding climbing adventures How she has navigated potential feelings of jealousy among her children Sharing her experience of climbing Everest with Gabby The dynamic of being both mother and climbing partner How they communicated effectively at base camp Gabby often acted as a mentor, helping Jane to regain confidence during tough moments A pivotal moment at Camp Four where she doubted her strength to continue Getting encouraged by Gabby to persevere Reflecting on precious time spent with her children Prioritising family over personal ambitions Societal concerns about young climbers tackling high peaks Jane's internal struggles regarding the ethics of taking Gabby on such a dangerous expedition Engaging with other young adventurers and parents The meticulous preparation and strategy leading up to their summit attempt The challenging conditions they encountered The summit push filled with historical significance and personal reflections Jane leading the ascent, following in the footsteps of climbing legends A heartwarming moment for Jane spotting Gabby approaching the summit The "Teach Us Consent" campaign Jane's desire for her sons to be good allies and her daughters to be safe The pyramid of abuse Advocating for calling out disrespectful behaviour Creating a safer environment for women Experiencing vision problems while descending Hallucinating due to altitude sickness Dealing with laryngitis and media attention after her climb Building a supportive network among women Final words of wisdom   Social Media Website: janekanizay.com  Instagram: @jane_kaniz   

After 20 years in a relationship that limited and stifled her, former advertising professional, turned fitness pioneer and award-winning entrepreneur, Vicki Anstey became (age 41) one of the first ever women to participate in Channel 4’s ‘SAS Who Dares Wins’, reaching the final stages after 11 days in extreme conditions at an altitude of 3,000ft in Chile. In 2021, she and 2 other women, the Girls Who Dare, set a new World Record for rowing unaided across the Pacific Ocean, confronting her fear of deep, open water to do so. It took 60 days, 17 hours and 6 minutes. Her latest endeavour (a second Guinness World Record) was to cycle 3,000 miles in the ‘World’s Toughest Bike Race’ as a team of four women from West to East coast America in just 6 days 19 hours and 38 minutes. Vicki has also completed ultra distance runs (covering 250kms and carrying everything she needed to survive) in some of the World’s most extreme environments – crossing the Arctic in temperatures of -35 degrees and the Savannnahs of Kenya in blistering 50 degree heat. *** Don't miss out on the latest episodes of the Tough Girl Podcast, released every Tuesday at 7am UK time! Be sure to hit the subscribe button to stay updated on the incredible journeys and stories of strong women.  By supporting the Tough Girl Podcast on Patreon, you can make a difference in increasing the representation of female role models in the media, particularly in the world of adventure and physical challenges. Your contribution helps empower and inspire others. Visit www.patreon.com/toughgirlpodcast to be a part of this important movement.  Thank you for your invaluable support!   Show Notes: Who is Vicki Vicki’s diverse career journey Emphasising her unique life experiences Overcoming a coercive relationship Leaving her long-term marriage Encouraged by friends, she applied for SAS: Who Dares Wins The beginning of her journey into adventure and self-discovery Reflecting on the rigorous training during SAS: Who Dares Wins Building self-belief and resilience The experiences that revealed her capabilities The importance of mental strength in overcoming obstacles Rowing across the Pacific Facing her fear of deep, open water by undertaking a rowing challenge Her preparation for the task to confront her anxieties Finding strength in vulnerability Embracing fears and seeing the opportunities that lie beyond them Developing resilience, managing self-doubt, and embracing challenges Emphasising reflection and learning from past experiences Transition from solo to team challenges How her experiences with solo challenges influenced her approach to teamwork The importance of clear communication and setting boundaries Being initially intimidated by her rowing teammates Learning to embrace tough conversations Unravelling tensions in team dynamics Vicki’s concept of “free speed” Understanding each team member's emotional responses under stress Advocating empathy and support in navigating team dynamics Training for Race Across America Her transition into cycling A rigorous training regime of up to 25 hours per week Having a supportive coaching network to enhance her skills Vicki’s memorable moments from RAAM The importance of supporting one another during challenging phases Production of a documentary covering her rowing and RAAM experiences   Social Media Website: vickianstey.co.uk  Instagram: @vickianstey