Breathe: The Stress Less Podcast

Have you ever thought about reaching out to someone—but then talked yourself out of it?

In today’s episode of Breathe, Bonnie explores the science of friendship and why emotional wellness may be supported by more than just our closest relationships. She shares what happened when one inspired idea led her to finally drive 4 hours to meet a friend in person—and what it revealed about the power of connection.

You’ll discover why acquaintances, coworkers, growing friendships, and other everyday connections can matter for your well-being too—and how following a simple spark to reach out may open the door to encouragement, belonging, and deeper connection.

In this episode, you’ll learn:
- Why emotional wellness is supported by more than just one best friend
- What research says about the surprising value of everyday relational connections
- How social connection can support your body’s response to stress
- How Jesus modeled different circles of relationship—and what that can teach us about relational wellness
- One simple way to practice relational soul care this week through connection-

Scripture
“Therefore encourage one another and build one another up, just as you are doing.” — 1 Thessalonians 5:11

Breath Prayer
Inhale: Encourage one another
Exhale: Build one another up

Resources & Studies Mentioned

"Everyday Social Connections & Well-Being:
Social Interactions and Well-Being: The Surprising Power of Weak Ties"
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/24769739/?utm_source=chatgpt.com

"Relational Diversity & Well-Being:
Relational Diversity in Social Portfolios Predicts Well-Being"
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/36252003/?utm_source=chatgpt.com

"Social Relationships & Physical Well-Being:
Social Relationships and Physiological Determinants of Longevity Across the Human Life Span"
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/26729882/?utm_source=chatgpt.com
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Have you ever thought, I’ll feel more joy when life finally calms down? What if joy isn’t something you have to wait for?

In today’s episode of Breathe: The Stress Less Podcast, Bonnie explores the science of joy—and how choosing joy can actually lift your own well-being too. Bonnie shares a personal story about following a gentle prompting she really resisted initially — and the surprising joy she experienced in her own life after taking action.

You’ll also discover how knowing you are deeply seen and known by God can become a source of joy—and how the joy and love you’ve received from Him can overflow into someone else’s life.

In this episode, you’ll learn:
- Why joy doesn’t have to wait until your stressful circumstances change
- How knowing you are seen, known, and heard by God can lift your heart
- What Hannah’s story teaches us about joy in times of suffering
- What research says about helping positive emotions multiply
- Two simple ways to choose joy to reap the wellness benefits and grow closer to God

Scripture
“In your presence there is fullness of joy.” Psalm 16:11
“You formed my inward parts; you knitted me together in my mother’s womb.” Psalm 139:13

Breath Prayer
Inhale: In Your presence…
Exhale: There is fullness of joy.

Resources & Studies Mentioned
"Acts of Kindness & Well-Being" https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0022103117303451

"Sharing Positive Experiences & Well-Being"
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/15301629
Henri Nouwen on Choosing Joy:
“Joy does not simply happen to us. We have to choose joy and keep choosing it every day.” by Henri Nouwen in his book "Here and Now: Living in the Spirit"
https://link.amazon/B07FPEBYr

→ Read Whispers of Rest: 40 Days to Revitalize Your Soul with God's Love, by Bonnie:
https://amzn.to/3NpVYQd
→ Join Bonnie on Instagram @thebonniegray
→ Eucalyptus Shower Steamers for instant calm at Bonnie's Soul Care Store
Watch YouTube Devotionals:
https://youtube.com/thebonniegray
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Have you ever made a gratitude list—but still felt stressed afterward?
Gratitude is powerful for our emotional wellness—but what if there’s a simple way to experience it more deeply?

In today’s episode of Breathe, Bonnie explores the science of gratitude and a simple “story twist” that can help lift your mood, calm stress, and help you notice God’s goodness in a more personal way. Instead of only naming what you’re grateful for, you’ll learn how vividly remembering the story around your gratitude helps reframes your day and boosts your mood with thanksgiving to God.

Bonnie also shares a personal story from her recent trip to North Carolina, where an unexpected encounter reminded them that gratitude is not just about good things, but the giver God was present in their stories.

In this episode, you’ll learn:
- Why our brains naturally pay more attention to stress and negative experiences—a tendency psychologists call negativity bias
- How gratitude can help redirect our attention toward something good that is also true
- What research on positive autobiographical memories tells us about why vividly remembering a positive experience can lift our mood
- Why savoring the story behind your gratitude may help you experience the positive emotions of that moment again
- How to bring your gratitude story into prayer and notice where God met you personally
- A simple Gratitude Story Twist you can practice when stress starts telling the story of your day

Scripture
“Oh give thanks to the Lord, for he is good; for his steadfast love endures forever!” — Psalm 118:1

“You will be enriched in every way to be generous in every way, which through us will produce thanksgiving to God… overflowing in many thanksgivings to God.” — 2 Corinthians 9:11–12

Breath Prayer
Inhale: I give thanks to You, Lord…
Exhale: Your steadfast love endures forever.

Resources & Studies Mentioned
Negativity Bias:
The Negativity Bias, Revisited: Evidence from Neuroscience Measures and an Individual Differences Approach
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/31750790/
Gratitude & Emotional Well-Being:
The Effects of Gratitude Interventions: A Systematic Review and Meta-Analysis
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/37585888/
Positive Autobiographical Memories & Mood:
Research examining how vividly reliving positive autobiographical memories is associated with improvements in mood.
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/31348599/
→ Read Whispers of Rest: 40 Days to Revitalize Your Soul with God's Love, by Bonnie:
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→ Join Bonnie on Instagram @thebonniegray
→ Eucalyptus Shower Steamers for instant calm at Bonnie's Soul Care Store
Watch YouTube Devotionals:
https://youtube.com/thebonniegray
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Have you ever noticed how your surroundings can change the way you feel?

Friend, beauty isn’t just decoration. The things we see around us can affect how we feel and even influence the rhythms and habits we create.

This week, Bonnie is kicking off a new "Science + Scripture of Wellness Series" on Breathe, exploring one question: What does science tell us about how God designed us, and how does Scripture help us live it?

In this episode, Bonnie shares a recent personal story that made her look at beauty—and the way she cares for her own environment—in a whole new way.

You’ll discover how small cues of beauty can invite you to slow down, create healthier rhythms, and notice more of the beauty God has already placed around you.

In This Episode
— Why your surroundings can affect how you feel and behave
— How visual cues can support healthier daily rhythms
— Why beauty doesn’t have to be frivolous or selfish
— What Jesus’ words teach us about beauty and God’s care
— One simple way to bring more beauty into your everyday space
— How to connect beauty with a soul care rhythm like prayer, journaling, nourishing meals, or rest

Breath Prayer:
Inhale: You make my life beautiful…
Exhale: You make everything beautiful in your time

Scripture:
“He has made everything beautiful in its time.” Ecclesiastes 3:11

“Consider how the lilies of the field grow. They do not labor or spin. Yet I tell you that not even Solomon in all his splendor was dressed like one of these.” — Matthew 6:28–29
→ Read Whispers of Rest: 40 Days to Revitalize Your Soul with God's Love, by Bonnie:
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→ Join Bonnie on Instagram @thebonniegray
→ Eucalyptus Shower Steamers for instant calm at Bonnie's Soul Care Store
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Are you standing at the edge of a life transition, wondering what’s next? Maybe something familiar is ending, but you still don’t know what God has for you in the season ahead.

In this week’s episode, Bonnie shares a tender personal story about losing something irreplaceable—and the surprising realization that changed the way she’s thinking about her own transition into an unknown season. Through Scripture, science, and soul care, you’ll discover how God may give you a direction before He gives you the destination—and how taking one small, meaningful step can help you feel more grounded when life feels uncertain.

Friend, you don’t need the whole map. You just need the next step with Jesus.

Key Takeaways
— Why life transitions can feel stressful—even when the change is good
— The Science: How uncertainty can activate your stress response and leave you feeling anxious, tired, or overwhelmed
— Why you don’t have to figure out your whole future to move forward
— How God may be showing you a direction before He shows you the destination
— A simple soul care practice to help you name the direction of your new season and take one meaningful next step

Breath Prayer
Inhale: You go ahead of me, Lord…

Exhale: I am never alone.

Scripture
“Be strong and courageous... for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.” — Joshua 1:9
→ Read Whispers of Rest: 40 Days to Revitalize Your Soul with God's Love, by Bonnie:
https://amzn.to/3NpVYQd
→ Join Bonnie on Instagram @thebonniegray
→ Eucalyptus Shower Steamers for instant calm at Bonnie's Soul Care Store
Watch YouTube Devotionals:
https://youtube.com/thebonniegray
Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.