Send us a textWhat happens when your birthday brings up more than cake and candles?In this raw and personal episode, Harley opens up about what it’s like to navigate aging as a sexual woman in a culture obsessed with youth. From noticing lines in the mirror to feeling like time is running out for certain fantasies, this episode is a vulnerable look at the internal stories we carry—and how kink can help us rewrite them.You’ll hear:Why the sex Harley has now is so much better than what she had in her twentiesHow fantasy, age play, and Core Desires can help you stay connected to the younger part of yourselfWhat men can do to genuinely support and desire women as they ageThe powerful role kink plays in transcending physical age and reconnecting with play, innocence, and turn-onWhether you're in your 20s or your 60s, this episode is a celebration of growing into your sexuality—not out of it.🔗 Links + Resources✨ Vote for Turns Out I’m Into It in the Australian Adult Industry AwardsRecommended listening: #83 What if you Could be Anyone? The Magic of Kink PersonasRecommended listening: #47 Australia's First Age Play Convention Kangacon! Interview with DaddaGJournaling / Discussion PromptsWhat age do I feel when I’m having sex?How has my sex life changed in the last 5–10-20 years?What do you, or could you find attractive about older women, if you look beyond the cultural lens?🌟 If you loved this episode, don’t forget to rate, review, and share it with someone who needs to hear this today.Your Invited to the Aftershow! Join my SubscribeStar to get a backstage pass to exclusive content!xx Harley 🐰 Follow me: Fetlife Instagram SubscribeStar Visit my website harleyrabbit.com
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#85: I’m Not Ashamed to Love Masculine Men
Send us a textIn this episode, I explore the difference between masculinity and toxic masculinity—and why I’m tired of pretending that being attracted to masculine men is something to be ashamed of.Inspired by a scene in Beastars (an anime on Netflix), I unpack what it means to celebrate masculine power without excusing harm. We talk about violence, tenderness, emotional maturity, and why the sexiest men are often the ones who could fight—but don’t need to.From MMA rings to Formula One tracks, this is a heartfelt and primal love letter to healthy masculinity—and an invitation to let men be tigers again!📚 Resources Mentioned:Beastars – anime series on Netflix (Season 1)Men, Women & Worthiness by Brené Brown (short audiobook on Audible)@harley_rabbit on Instagram – DM TIGERBITE to join my close friends circleSubscribeStar After Show – for bonus reflections and behind-the-scenes thoughtsYour Invited to the Aftershow! Join my SubscribeStar to get a backstage pass to exclusive content!xx Harley 🐰 Follow me: Fetlife Instagram SubscribeStar Visit my website harleyrabbit.com
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#84: What Turns You On—and What Turns You Off! Understanding Your Sexual Brakes and Accelerators
Send us a textDo you ever feel like your body just isn’t showing up for sex—even when your mind is totally on board? Maybe you want to feel turned on, but nothing’s happening down there. Or maybe you feel ashamed, confused, or frustrated when your desire doesn’t match what your partner (or you!) expect.In this episode, Harley Rabbit introduces the dual control model, a powerful framework from the world of sexology that could change the way you think about arousal forever.You’ll learn how your sexual accelerator and brakes work, and how understanding these systems can help you navigate issues like low desire, erectile difficulties, body shame, and performance anxiety with more compassion, clarity, and confidence.Journaling Prompts:📝 Do I know what my core desires are? Am I getting them met in my sex life? 📝 Are there any external or internal threats pressing on my brakes right now? Can I do anything about them?Resources Mentioned:Emily Nagoski’s Book: Come As You ArePrevious Episode: #83: What If You Could Be Anyone? The Magic of Kink Personas🫖 Access the Aftershow! Subscribe to my SubscribeStar to get access to bonus content. 🏆 Vote for Turns Out I’m Into It in the Australian Adult Industry Awards. Your Invited to the Aftershow! Join my SubscribeStar to get a backstage pass to exclusive content!xx Harley 🐰 Follow me: Fetlife Instagram SubscribeStar Visit my website harleyrabbit.com
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#83: What If You Could Be Anyone? The Magic of Kink Personas
Send us a textEver felt too self-conscious to fully enjoy sex? Maybe you struggle to switch off from life stress, or you find yourself stuck in your head during intimate moments.In this episode, Harley Rabbit shares a powerful technique for breaking free from insecurity and fully immersing yourself in pleasure—by stepping into a kink persona.A kink persona isn’t just roleplay—it’s a way to tap into different aspects of yourself, experiment with new fantasies, and unleash parts of your sexuality you may never have explored before. Whether you're a creative storyteller, a fantasy-driven thinker, or just someone who struggles to stay present in sex, this episode will help you unlock new ways to play.Journaling / Discussion PromptsIf I could be anyone in a fantasy, who would I be?What kind of personality excites me in a sexual scenario? Am I dominant, submissive, playful, shy, aggressive?Write a short erotic fantasy from the perspective of your characterResources Mentioned:Join me in the Aftershow on my Subscriberstar. Visit: https://subscribestar.adult/harley-rabbit Support the Show:If you enjoyed this episode, consider:Sharing it with a friendLeaving a 5-star rating or reviewYour Invited to the Aftershow! Join my SubscribeStar to get a backstage pass to exclusive content!xx Harley 🐰 Follow me: Fetlife Instagram SubscribeStar Visit my website harleyrabbit.com
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#82: Sub or Bottom? Exploring the Many Flavours of Submission
Send us a textWhen you first explore submission, it’s easy to get caught up in labels and stereotypes—but what if those don’t quite fit? Do you have to love obedience, service, or degradation to be a sub? Or maybe you’re drawn to pain or bondage, but don’t feel like surrendering control?In this episode, Harley Rabbit helps you untangle your submissive identity, exploring the many ways submission can look. Whether you’re a good sub, brat, masochist, or rope bunny, this episode will guide you in discovering what truly excites you—without forcing yourself into a box that doesn’t fit.This one is for both subs and dominants, as we’ll also discuss how to recognise different submissive styles and find play partners who are the right match.Journaling / Discussion Prompts:Do I crave giving up control, or am I more drawn to sensory experiences?Do I get turned on by praise, punishment, resistance, or being cared for?How can I communicate my unique submission style with my partner(s)?Resources Mentioned:Previous Episode: #81: Am I Kinky Enough? Breaking Free from the StereotypesJoin my Close Friends circle on Instagram @harley_rabbit. Password: Sleepybunny 🤫Support the Show:If you enjoyed this episode, consider:Sharing it with a friendLeaving a 5-star rating or reviewYour Invited to the Aftershow! Join my SubscribeStar to get a backstage pass to exclusive content!xx Harley 🐰 Follow me: Fetlife Instagram SubscribeStar Visit my website harleyrabbit.com
Turns Out I’m Into It is your backstage pass to the world of kink—where curiosity is queen, shame is stripped away, and nothing is off-limits. Hosted by somatic sexologist Harley Rabbit, this podcast delves into the psychology of desire, exploring how BDSM, power dynamics, and play can unlock self-discovery, intimacy, and even healing.From abduction fantasies to shibari, age play to non-monogamy, Harley serves up candid personal stories and juicy interviews with kink experts from around the globe. Whether you're a seasoned kinkster, a wide-eyed newbie, or just here for the naughty stories, this show will indulge your imagination, tickle your curiosity, and maybe—just maybe—have you whispering, turns out, I’m into it too!
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