195. Stop Chasing + Start Attracting: The Confidence Hack That Creates Love and Success w/ Mimi Bouchard
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In this episode, I talk with Mimi Bouchard about confidence, self-image, and how to step into the version of yourself who gets what they want in life and love. Mimi is the founder of Activations, a new type of audio experience designed to rewire your brain and help you embody your future self.
We dive into how Activations were born, why confidence starts with self-image, and how to bounce back faster after rejection or setbacks. Mimi shares her personal story of transformation, meeting her husband just one day after recording a partner manifestation activation, and why the secret to dating well is becoming magnetic from the inside out.
I also share my experience with Activations and how it's impacted my life so far! This conversation will leave you feeling inspired to raise your standards, build unshakeable self-worth, and take back control of your energy in dating and beyond.
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Comparing Notes Pt. 2: Milestones at 6 Months in a New Relationship w/ Ali Jackson
In this second installment of Comparing Notes, I sit down with Ali Jackson, host of Finding Mr. Height, to talk about what often comes up around the six-month mark in a relationship. We get into the real stuff: when to start having check-ins, how to tell if someone could be marriage material, and what it means to settle into comfort and routine without losing the spark. We also explore deal breakers, financial conversations, traveling together, navigating family dynamics, and handling your first conflicts. You'll also hear both of our experiences with this milestone!
Listen to Comparing Notes Pt 1 - all about the first 3 months of a relationship!
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Ok, but what does ENM really mean? In this episode, I talk with Claire Perelman, a sex therapist, about what ethical non-monogamy (ENM) actually is (and isn't). We talk about different types of ENM (polyamory, swinging, open relationships, solo poly etc), “ethical” matters (consent, clarity, agreements), and how jealousy, anxiety, and attachment styles show up in real life. Claire shares her path to ENM, why opening a relationship won’t save a broken one, and the difference between adding sexual variety vs. building additional romantic bonds. Claire shares tips on what to ask on first dates to vet for real ENM (vs. cheaters), sexual health norms, pacing to avoid emotional whiplash, and how to decide if this lifestyle fits your values and nervous system.
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193. Are You Ready for a Relationship Or Just Ready to Date?
In this episode, I delve into what it truly means to be “ready” to date vs ready for a relationship. There’s a big difference between, and most people confuse the two. I’ll share how to tell if you're ready to date or for a relationship (or both), what true dating readiness looks like, and why you don’t need to have every part of your life perfectly together before putting yourself out there. We’ll also talk about dating while still healing from a breakup, the myth of being “fully healed,” and the mindset shifts that make it easier to date with clarity and confidence. Plus, I’m sharing a practical checklist to help you gauge your own readiness and I answer listener questions about emotional availability and long-term intentions.
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Episodes mentioned:
Casual dating #178
Recovering from a break up #70
How to get closer to someone #189
QUESTIONS TO ASK YOURSELF
Do I have space in my life for someone?
Can I compromise and make decisions w/ someone else in mind?
Can I say what I want out loud?
When I picture a relationship, do I feel excited or dread?
Do I want one because it fits my life right now, or just because I feel lonely or behind?
Am I prepared to support someone else's goals, not just focus on myself?
Do I know what I need in a partner?
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192. Top 11 Red Flag Phrases In Early Dating (And What They Mean)
In this episode, I break down the top 11 red-flag phrases to never ignore in early dating, what they really mean, how to spot them even when attraction is loud, and exactly what to say or do in the moment. If you've ever heard the classics like “I’m bad at texting,” “I don’t like labels,” “you’re too good for me,” and “I’m not looking for anything serious right now,” this one is for you. At the end, I answer a Dating Dilemma about a long-distance “is it me or is it them?” situation and close with YOUR dating wins in a new segment.
Episode mentioned: #175 - How To Write A Manifest w/ Matchmaker Maria
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No outdated rules. Just honest, thoughtful advice to help you get what you're after in your dating life, and have fun along the way.
Dating Intentionally will help you navigate modern dating with clarity, confidence, and purpose. Whether you're dating after a big break up, trying to avoid past mistakes, or just tired of swiping aimlessly, this show will guide you to make decisions that align with your values while actually enjoying the dating process.
Hosted by Talia Koren, this show dives into real, practical strategies to help you attract the right matches, build connection, and move toward your dream relationship. Talia shares advice based on her real-life experience of going on 150ish dates with over 60 people in under a year until she met her husband (on Hinge)! You'll hear no-nonsense advice from her and guest experts, therapists, and authors to implement into your dating life today.
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