177. How to Spot Real Compatibility in Early Dating w/ Danny Goldstein
In this episode, I’m joined by Danny Goldstein, founder of the Austin-based matchmaking company Crux Compatible, to talk all things compatibility, chemistry, and intentional dating. Danny has a fascinating journey, from practicing law to running a matchmaking business rooted in a deep understanding of what actually makes two people a good fit. We dive into his unique process, including the extensive questionnaire he uses with clients, and break down the qualities that truly matter in early dating versus the ones we tend to over-prioritize. Danny shares how to plan dates that reveal real compatibility, what he sees daters get wrong most often, and his personal playbook for making early connections feel both fun and meaningful. If you’ve ever felt unsure how to spot real compatibility, this episode is for you!
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176. The Attachment Cycle Explained (Why We're Attracted to People Who End Up Hurting Us)
In this episode, I’m diving into why we keep getting drawn to the same types of partners, even when those relationships don't work out or we keep getting hurt. I’ll break down the psychology behind attraction, how our early experiences and attachment styles play a huge role, and why it’s so damn hard to break those familiar patterns. I’m also sharing my own journey of recognizing these dynamics in my life and what it took to finally shift from toxic cycles to healthier, more fulfilling connections. Plus, I’ve got some practical tips to help you do the same.
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175. How Writing a Manifest Can Help You Find "The One" w/ Maria Avgitidis
According to Matchmaker Maria, you're not as picky as you think. In this episode, Maria Avgitidis (@matchmakermaria) is back on the pod to talk all things dating, relationships, and her brand-new book, Ask A Matchmaker. We get into the nitty-gritty of what it really takes to find (and keep) the right person. We also dive deep into the power of writing a manifest (NOT to be confused with manifestation) about what you want in a partner and how creating a clear vision focused on positivity can shift your entire dating experience. At the end, we talk about Dr. Helen Fisher's Temperament Inventory (a method of personality typing) and how Maria uses it in her work.
Here's our first episode together!
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174. Navigating Relationship "Firsts" (Meeting Friends, Parents, First Sleepover etc)
In this episode, you’ll learn how to navigating the milestones you’ll hit in a new relationship. All of these “firsts” can be both exciting and nerve-wracking! From the first sleepover to meeting each other's friends and family, these "firsts" often come with their own set of challenges and considerations. I want you to approach these significant moments with intention and authenticity. I’m discussing timing, boundaries, and communication strategies for various relationship milestones, including weekend getaways, deeper conversations, and holiday celebrations. Whether you're currently dating or preparing for future relationships, this episode offers practical advice on handling these important transitions while staying true to yourself.
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173. Tips For Managing Your Mind Drama & Anxiety While Dating w/ Britt Frank
In this episode, I’m sitting down with Britt Frank to dig into the messy, complicated world of the inner critics, especially how it shows up in dating. We talk about recognizing the nature of our inner dialogue and why it’s so important to validate our feelings instead of brushing them off.
Throughout our conversation, we explore how to move from letting our inner critic take the lead to guiding it into a more supportive role. We get into why self-leadership matters, how anxiety plays into our lives, and why being kind to ourselves makes all the difference in relationships. This episode is all about shifting from self-judgment to self-acceptance and building the kind of inner dialogue that helps us thrive.
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Dating Intentionally will help you navigate modern dating with clarity, confidence, and purpose. Whether you're dating after a big break up, trying to avoid past mistakes, or just tired of swiping aimlessly, this show will guide you to make decisions that align with your values while actually enjoying the dating process.
Hosted by Talia Koren, this show dives into real, practical strategies to help you attract the right matches, build connection, and move toward your dream relationship. Talia shares advice based on her real-life experience of going on 150ish dates with over 60 people in under a year until she met her husband (on Hinge)! You'll hear no-nonsense advice from her and guest experts, therapists, and authors to implement into your dating life today.
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