Sex With Emily

What if the key to more pleasure isn't doing more… it's slowing down? In this workshop, I walk you through a practice that can help you become more present in your body, reduce stress, deepen self-awareness, and discover what truly feels good to you. We talk about why mindfulness and pleasure go hand in hand, how to create a self-pleasure ritual focused on exploration rather than performance, and simple techniques to help you tune into sensation, quiet distractions, and build a stronger connection with your body. Whether you're looking to expand your pleasure, boost confidence, reduce anxiety, or simply learn more about yourself, this workshop offers practical tools you can start using today.

ABOUT EMILY:

Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex. 

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Chapters:

0:00 Welcome to Sex With Emily

0:54 Why People Masturbate

1:56 Understanding Mindfulness & Being Present

5:30 Maintenance vs. Mindful

9:51 How To Set The Mood For It

16:53 Mindful Self-Pleasure for Vulvas

18:53 Mindful Self-Pleasure for Penises

21:32 Step-by-Step Mindful Routine

26:20 Q&A: In the Shower or Bath?

27:07 Q&A: Making Meditation a Daily Routine

29:59 Q&A: Why Self-Pleasure May Feel Unexciting

31:02 Q&A: Favorite Meditation Styles & Apps

32:42 Q&A: How Often Should You Practice?

35:28 Q&A: Scheduling Time

36:59 Q&A: Can You Practice With a Partner?
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What if the key to a better sex life has nothing to do with sex itself? In this episode, I'm joined by my friend Jennifer Cohen to explore the powerful connection between wellness, confidence, fitness, and sexual health. We talk about overcoming performance anxiety, why exercise can improve desire and arousal, the role honesty plays in intimacy, and whether chemistry can actually grow over time. Plus, we answer audience questions about attraction, confidence, relationships, and the habits that help you feel your best both in and out of the bedroom.

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ABOUT EMILY:

Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex. 

CONNECT WITH EMILY:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/ 

X: https://twitter.com/sexwithemily 

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily 

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily 

Threads: https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily

CONNECT WITH JENNIFER COHEN:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealjencohen/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@therealjencohen

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@habitsandhustle

Website: https://www.jennifercohen.com/ 

WANT MORE?

Visit the Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ which includes FREE guides.

Free Downloadable Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/ 

Text With Me: https://sexwithemily.com/text 

Receive Sex Tips On The Regular: https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe 

Interested in 1:1 Coaching with Emily? Go to http://sexwithemily.com/coaching to apply! 

Chapters:

00:00 Why Sexual Health Changes Everything

01:14 The Link Between Feeling Good & Having Better Sex

03:12 Are Sex And Intimacy Actually The Same Thing?

04:47 Why Performance Anxiety Happens In Bed

06:10 The Trick To Stop Overthinking During Sex

10:00 Why Working Out Makes Sex Better

12:03 How We Became Friends & Started Talking About Sex Nonstop

13:44 How To Tell Your Partner About Your Insecurities

16:08 How To Actually Approach Someone Without Being Weird

18:43 Masculine Energy, Feminine Energy & Dating Drama

24:42 Biohacking, Wellness & Feeling Hot Again

27:38 Vaginal Dryness, Hormones & Things Nobody Talks About

31:55 Aminos, Creatine & The Confidence Glow Up

34:00 Why Chemistry Matters more Than You Think
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In this workshop, I'm answering your questions about desire, attraction, turn-ons, fantasies, and sexual connection. We explore why we're attracted to certain people and experiences, how to talk about sex with a partner without creating pressure, what to do when desire changes over time, and why feeling a spark for someone else doesn't necessarily mean something is wrong with your relationship. Whether you're curious about your own turn-ons, struggling to stay present during sex, or looking to deepen intimacy with a partner, this conversation will help you approach desire with more curiosity, confidence, and self-understanding.

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ABOUT EMILY:

Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex. 

CONNECT:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/ 

X: https://twitter.com/sexwithemily 

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily 

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily 

Threads: https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily

WANT MORE?

Visit the Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ which includes FREE guides.

Free Downloadable Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/ 

Text With Me: https://sexwithemily.com/text 

Receive Sex Tips On The Regular: https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe 

Interested in 1:1 Coaching with Emily? Go to http://sexwithemily.com/coaching to apply!

Chapters:

0:00 Welcome to Sex With Emily

1:48 Understanding What Truly Turns You On

7:34 How to Talk About Sex Without Making It Awkward

12:09 How to Stay Present During Sex

18:01 Why Taking Longer Is Completely Normal

19:43 Taking a Break During Sex Without Killing the Mood

24:25 How Men Can Improve Ejaculation Control

28:31 Why Certain Things Turn You On

34:30 When Fantasy Doesn't Match Expectations

37:30 Different Turn-Ons in Relationships

41:50 Is It Normal to Feel Attraction to Someone Else?

45:54 How to Reignite Emotional Intimacy
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In this live episode recorded on May 21, 2026, I’m diving into how technology is reshaping our sex lives, relationships, dating habits, and emotional connection. From dating apps to social media, doomscrolling, and phone addiction, I unpack why so many of us feel more disconnected, overstimulated, anxious, and lonely despite being more digitally connected than ever. I also answer listener questions about insecurity, menopause and orgasms, remote-control toys, and how couples can rebuild intimacy through presence, communication, eye contact, flirtation, and intentional connection. If you’ve ever felt emotionally distant, distracted in bed, addicted to your phone, or unsure how to reconnect with your partner, this episode is for you.

ABOUT EMILY:

Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex. 

CONNECT:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/ 

X: https://twitter.com/sexwithemily 

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily 

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily 

Threads: https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily

WANT MORE?

Visit the Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ which includes FREE guides.

Free Downloadable Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/ 

Text With Me: https://sexwithemily.com/text 

Receive Sex Tips On The Regular: https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe 

Interested in 1:1 Coaching with Emily? Go to http://sexwithemily.com/coaching to apply! 

Chapters:

0:00 Welcome to Sex With Emily

1:09 How Technology Is Destroying Intimacy

2:33 The "Sex Recession"

5:24 The Death of Presence: Phones in Relationships

9:02 Dr. Emily's Tips

12:07 The Use of Dating Apps or Porn

15:44 Social Media, Performance Culture & Relationships

17:33 Listener Question: Do Women Prefer Bigger Penises?

26:02 The Positive Side of Technology & Sexual Wellness

26:59 Caller Kevin: Oral Sex After Menopause

37:52 Caller Mel: Using Remote-Control Vibrators
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In this livestream recorded on April 23, 2026, I’m diving into one of the most common and confusing issues in relationships: what happens when your sex life changes over time. We’re talking about desire mismatch, low libido, and why the “honeymoon phase” passion doesn’t stay the same forever(it’s completely normal). I also break down the real factors that impact sex drive, from stress and body image to emotional connection and communication, and how couples can start having honest conversations about intimacy again without blame or shame. This is about understanding your body, your partner, and how to rebuild connection in a more intentional way.

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ABOUT EMILY:

Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex. 

CONNECT:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/ 

X: https://twitter.com/sexwithemily 

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily 

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily 

Threads: https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily

WANT MORE?

Visit the Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ which includes FREE guides.

Free Downloadable Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/ 

Text With Me: https://sexwithemily.com/text 

Receive Sex Tips On The Regular: https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe 

Interested in 1:1 Coaching with Emily? Go to http://sexwithemily.com/coaching to apply! 

Chapters:

00:00 The Desire Discrepancy Nobody Talks About

01:19 Why Every Long-Term Relationship Hits This Wall

02:37 Why Stress, Body Image and Life Kill The Mood

04:29 Are People Actually Having the Sex They Want?

05:38 The Blood Flow Factor Nobody Talks About

07:12 Is Watching Romantic (Ethical) Porn Together Healthy?

10:44 The Case for Roleplay and Alter Egos

14:48 "My Wife Has Zero Sex Drive" The Most Common Question

17:55 Advice for a 35-Year-Old Starting Her Sexual Debut

19:24 Unlearning Shame from a Religious Background

22:02 Rewriting "Virginity" as Your Sexual Debut

23:30 Ask Yourself This Before Your Next Date Night
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