Sex With Emily

Let's talk about why you don't want sex with your husband anymore… and why the answer probably has nothing to do with your libido. If you've been lying next to him quietly hoping he doesn't reach for you, and then hating yourself for feeling that way, this episode is going to change the way you see what's actually happening in your body and your relationship. Because the story most women tell themselves at this moment is the wrong one entirely. I'm walking you through a four part desire check in that will help you stop asking the question that keeps you stuck and start asking the one that can actually lead you somewhere.

If desire has gone quiet in your marriage, this one is for you.

ABOUT EMILY:

Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.

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Chapters:
00:00 Introduction
01:23 You Are Not Broken
02:24 The Four Part Desire Check In
02:53 Step 1: Is Your Body Pulling Away From Everyone or Just Him
03:51 What the Pattern Is Actually Telling You
04:26 Step 2: What Is Your Body Protecting You From
04:42 Emotional Safety and Unresolved Conflict
05:37 Burnout and the Mental Load
06:25 Unresolved Hurt and Resentment
08:12 Step 3: Rule Out Physical and Mental Health Factors
08:31 Hormones, Medications, and Your Nervous System
09:13 Step 4: Rebuild Safety Before You Rebuild Desire
09:34 Affection Without Expectation
10:56 The One Sentence to Start the Conversation
11:37 What Your Body Has Been Trying to Tell You
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Can you love one person and still want someone else? Are you and your partner actually on the same page about your relationship rules, or just assuming you are? And is porn really the problem it gets blamed for? In this episode, we’re getting into the conversations couples rarely have out loud, because there’s no single “right” way to do a relationship. The goal is getting honest about your desires, your boundaries, and what you’ve actually agreed to together. If you’ve been assuming your partner agrees with you on things you’ve never actually talked about, or wondering whether porn is really the issue in your relationship, this one’s for you.

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ABOUT EMILY:
Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.

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Chapters:
00:00 Introduction
00:24 Why Non-Monogamy Is Everywhere Right Now
02:30 How Normal Is Non-Monogamy
04:15 I Crave Sex With Other Women When I Travel for Work
06:30 We've Been Together 20 Years and Want to Open Up
08:45 What to Talk About Before You Open Your Relationship
10:30 First Time Having Sex With a Woman
13:00 Go Slow, Stay Curious, Let Her Teach You
15:00 Why Do Women Get Mad When Men Watch Porn
17:30 When Porn Becomes a Relationship Problem
19:45 What Porn Really Brings Up and How to Talk About It
21:00 The Conversation You've Been Meaning to Have
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Let's talk about the five lies about men and sex that might be quietly destroying your marriage… because most couples aren't fighting about sex. They're fighting about connection, rejection, and feeling unseen, and nobody ever gave them the language to say that out loud. In this episode I'm breaking down the five most harmful myths about male sexuality that I see playing out in long term relationships over and over again, from "he just wants sex" to "men don't take rejection personally." Once you see these lies for what they are, the dynamic between you can start to shift. I'm also giving you one conversation to have this week that can completely change how you and your partner understand each other. And the best part? You don't have to do a single thing you don't want to do to get there.

ABOUT EMILY:

Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.

CONNECT WITH EMILY:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/

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WANT MORE?

Visit the Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ which includes FREE guides.

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Chapters:

00:00 Introduction

01:21 Lie 1: His Whole Agenda Is Sex

02:45 Lie 2: Men Don't Need Emotional Intimacy

04:10 Lie 3: Men Are Always Ready for Sex

05:20 Lie 4: Sex Is Just Physical for Men

06:15 Lie 5: Men Don't Take Rejection Personally

07:45 The Cycle Nobody Talks About

08:30 Two Different Languages of Connection

09:00 Try This: Notice How He Reaches for Connection

10:05 Responsive Desire Explained

12:00 The One Conversation to Have This Week

13:30 Questions to Ask Each Other

14:30 What Couples Are Really Fighting About
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Chicago and Philadelphia showed up big for the Best Sex Ever tour, and I couldn't get to every question live. So here's the rest.

We're getting into the real first move before opening up a marriage, what alcohol actually does to your libido, and why your body tightening up mid-sex is information, not a red flag. Plus how to ask for foreplay in a way that actually lands, the cuddle trap where touch always seems to lead to sex whether you want it to or not, and a low-pressure way into kink and BDSM if you're curious but nervous.

Save sex with me, one city at a time.

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ABOUT EMILY:

Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.

CONNECT:

Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/⁠

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Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily⁠

TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily⁠

Threads: ⁠https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily⁠

WANT MORE?

Visit the Website: ⁠https://sexwithemily.com/⁠ which includes FREE guides.

Free Downloadable Guides: ⁠https://sexwithemily.com/guides/⁠

Text With Me: ⁠https://sexwithemily.com/text⁠

Receive Sex Tips On The Regular: ⁠https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe⁠

Interested in 1:1 Coaching with Emily? Go to ⁠http://sexwithemily.com/coaching⁠ to apply!

This episode is sponsored by:

Bellesa: EVERYONE who signs up wins a FREE Rose suction toy with their order! https://www.bboutique.co/vibe/emilymorse-podcast

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Chapters:

00:00 Tour promo + coming up preview

00:54 Welcome back + tour recap

03:15 Opening up a marriage: where to start

07:38 Alcohol as an aphrodisiac

10:08 When your body tightens up during sex

12:18 Cuddling without it leading to sex

14:10 Building confidence to approach someone

16:57 How to actually ask for foreplay

19:17 Perineum & prostate pleasure explained

21:17 Getting into kink & BDSM safely

24:04 Closing + Nashville tour date

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Let's talk about what actually happens when desire disappears in a long term relationship… because most people assume their libido is just gone, or something is broken in their relationship, when the truth is usually something completely different. In this episode I'm breaking down how desire actually works, why spontaneous desire is mostly a myth for couples past the honeymoon phase, and the one simple 20 minute practice you can try this week to start feeling connected again without forcing anything. I'm also getting into the difference between duty sex and responsive desire, because those are not the same thing and confusing them is making a lot of people miserable. If you've ever thought something is wrong with you because you don't want sex the way you used to, this episode is for you.

Spoiler: nothing is wrong with you. Your desire just works differently now.

#SexWithEmily #EmilyMorse #Cheating #Wisdom #Desire

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ABOUT EMILY:

Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.

CONNECT:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/

X: https://twitter.com/sexwithemily

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily

Threads: https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily

WANT MORE?

Visit the Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ which includes FREE guides.

Free Downloadable Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/

Text With Me: https://sexwithemily.com/text

Receive Sex Tips On The Regular: https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe

Interested in 1:1 Coaching with Emily? Go to http://sexwithemily.com/coaching to apply!



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Chapters:

00:00 Intro

01:06 The Honeymoon Phase & Why It Naturally Fades

02:09 Desire Isn't Gone — It's Changed Shape

03:35 Who This Episode Is For (And Who It's Not For)

04:47 Duty Sex vs. Responsive Desire

06:07 Reading Your Body's Real "Yes"

06:49 How Couples Quietly Drift Into "Roommates"

07:46 What the Research Says About Sex & Satisfaction

10:32 Desire Isn't a Light Switch (The Date Night Example)

12:12 Why Responsive Desire Isn't "Lesser" Desire

12:53 What's Actually Blocking Your Desire

15:15 The 20-Minute No-Sex Connection Challenge

16:16 The Makeout Challenge & Closing Thoughts

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