Why I Can Only Orgasm Alone (But Not With Partners)
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Dr. Emily answers the questions keeping you up at night: Can bodies be trained to orgasm only one way? When does a kink cross from preference to problem? Is interactive masturbation cheating?
Someone orgasms easily alone but never with partners in her open marriage—the neural pathway explanation might surprise you. A husband discovered a humiliation kink after 20 years and his wife doesn't understand why degradation equals arousal—learn what core erotic desires reveal about childhood and why shame keeps most people silent.
A woman caught her boyfriend on interactive sex sites after they'd set boundaries—discover when getting curious works better than getting angry, and whether online encounters count as infidelity. Someone raised in sexual repression feels guilty choosing masturbation over partner sex—hear why solo pleasure threatens no one and why that guilt isn't really yours.
Then there's the couple having sex twice daily but she rarely orgasms—find out why more isn't better and how to ask for what you need without killing desire.
The episode tackles when preference becomes selfishness, why communication about kinks matters more than understanding them, and how bodies get wired to expect certain pleasure patterns. If you've been wondering whether your desires are normal or your boundaries are valid, this gives you permission to stop wondering.
Timestamps:
0:00 - Intro
1:15 - Charlie's Question: How to Orgasm with a Partner
2:34 - Understanding Your Body's Neural Pathways
4:08 - Teaching Multiple Partners Your Pleasure
6:32 - The Value of Mutual Masturbation
7:56 - Ricky's Question: Small Penis Humiliation Kink
10:32 - Understanding Core Erotic Desires
13:33 - Erica's Question: Partner Using Chatterbait
16:24 - Setting Boundaries Around Interactive Sex Sites
20:40 - Rachel's Question: Guilt About Masturbating in Relationships
23:35 - Why Solo Sex Matters Even When Partnered
25:05 - Giovani's Question: Sex Twice Daily But Not Orgasming
27:11 - Quality Over Quantity: Prioritizing Foreplay
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She Only Wants to Be Serviced in Bed (Is That Fair?)
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Dr. Emily and producer Erica judge whether you're the asshole when sex drives don't match, and the verdicts might surprise you.
A woman daydreams about affairs while her older husband's libido fades—but is desire actually the problem? A man's wife refuses both sex and therapy because he doesn't earn enough—discover why money complaints are never really about money. Someone only wants to receive pleasure, never give it—where's the line between preference and selfishness?
Then the hardest question: what do you do when you've tried everything for a decade and still have sex twice a year with someone who recoils at your touch but swears you're their person?
Dr. Emily delivers tough love about the "everything but sex" trap, why refusing therapy while refusing intimacy is relationship sabotage, and the brutal truth about waiting for people to change. She breaks down the progression from frustration to resentment to contempt, and issues a wake-up call about the information you're ignoring right now in your own relationship.
If you're walking on eggshells, wondering if your needs are unreasonable, or waiting for things to magically improve, this tells you what you need to hear.
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The Heart Tongue Technique That Changes Everything"
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Sex educator Susan Bratton reveals why the #1 complaint in heterosexual relationships—"she can't orgasm during intercourse"—isn't about broken bodies, but broken information. With techniques that have her inbox flooded with exclamation points, Susan dismantles everything you thought you knew about penetrative sex.
Discover why rushing is killing your pleasure, what ancient Daoists knew about rhythm that porn never taught you, and the counterintuitive move that makes orgasm easier (hint: it's not what you're doing now). Susan explains the arousal gap nobody talks about, reframes the vagina in a way that will change how you touch it, and teaches the "Heart Tongue" approach that transforms mechanical sex into connection.
A 50-year-old man asks why his girlfriend can't climax during sex despite trying everything. A 25-year-old wonders if she's ever actually had an orgasm and why "squirting" feels like nothing. Susan guides both through tissue activation, sacred self-pleasure, and why the entrance to the vagina needs to be courted, not conquered.
Susan claims her best sex ever and credits specific practices for looking a decade younger than her peers. She shares the "Lips-Nips-Clit Axis," why opening matters more than tightening, and her most-thanked technique involving a 10-count that toggles the nervous system.
If you've been chasing sensation instead of connection, this episode rewrites the playbook.
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The Most Common Fantasy in America (You'd Be Surprised)
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In this Sex with Emily Q&A episode, Dr. Emily and producer Erica tackle listener questions about fantasies, relationships, and navigating sexual compatibility.
They explore cuckolding—one of America's most common fantasies—discussing why partners want to watch their significant other with someone else, the importance of comprehensive pre-negotiation, and why "one and done" promises rarely hold true. A listener living with his ex-boyfriend learns why moving on sexually is so difficult when you're still sharing space, and gets permission to stop pressuring himself during the healing process.
The conversation addresses adult baby/diaper fetishes, distinguishing between core erotic desires that are requirements versus nice-to-have fantasies, and explores creative solutions like working with specialized sex workers when partners aren't compatible. Finally, they dissect a toxic relationship pattern where one partner constantly shifts between attraction and rejection, helping a listener recognize when it's time to walk away.
Throughout, Dr. Emily emphasizes that early relationship sex fueled by new relationship energy doesn't last forever, the importance of understanding your own pleasure rather than just servicing a partner's wants, and why we need to stop dating people based on their potential to change.
Timestamps:
0:00 - Intro
1:25 - My Boyfriend Wants to Watch Me Have Sex with Another Man
6:02 - Why Cuckolding is One of America's Most Common Fantasies
8:55 - How Do I Move On When I'm Still Living with My Ex?
14:59 - My Wife Thinks My Fetish is Demonic - Is This Marriage Over?
20:53 - He Says I'm Not Attractive Enough Anymore - What Do I Do?
23:29 - Red Flags: When Your Partner Wants You to Change Your Body
26:10 - Closing Thoughts: Stop Fighting for Approval, Start Honoring Your Needs
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Why You're Addicted to Drama (And How It's Hurting You)
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In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily's first guest in the new studio is psychologist Dr. Scott Lyons, author of Addicted to Drama: Healing Dependency on Crisis and Chaos in Yourself and Others.
Dr. Lyons reveals how drama addiction isn't just obvious chaos—it's overscheduling, inability to tolerate stillness, and sabotaging intimacy when vulnerability feels threatening. He explains the biology: drama provides energy, numbs pain, and creates sensation that makes us feel alive.
Listener questions address a 21-year-old spiraling after her boyfriend called an actress sexy, and a 30-year-old wanting kinkier sex but getting triggered.
Dr. Lyons and Dr. Emily emphasize distinguishing sensation-seeking from authentic connection, coming back to the body when triggered, and recognizing how childhood patterns shape adult sexuality and relationships.
Timestamps:
0:00 - Intro
3:32 - The Hidden Signs of Drama Addiction You Might Be Missing
9:24 - How Trauma Lives in Your Body and Shapes Your Behavior
13:36 - Why Drama Shows Up in Your Relationships and Sex Life
15:37 - Why Do I Feel Terrible When My Partner Comments on Other People?
27:35 - The Currency of Love: How Childhood Chaos Affects Adult Relationships
33:48 - I Want Freaky Sex But My Body Keeps Freezing Up
42:52 - Understanding Dissociation and Finding Your Way Back Home
50:00 - How Drama Addiction Blocks True Sexual Pleasure and Intimacy
52:32 - Five Quickie Questions with Dr. Scott Lyons
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