Sex With Emily

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If you’re in a relationship where sex has quietly disappeared, you already know it’s not just about the lack of sex. It’s the questions that start creeping in—is she still attracted to me? Did I do something wrong? Why does every touch now feel loaded?

Let’s talk about what actually happens to men emotionally and relationally when a marriage goes sexless, and what you can do to start changing things without making it worse.

ABOUT EMILY:

Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.

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Chapters:

0:00 – Intro0:40 – What a mismatched-desire marriage feels like1:15 – Listener question: no sex in almost a year2:35 – Effect 1: You start taking it personally3:35 – Why this hits men especially hard5:00 – Effect 2: You pull away, even from affection6:35 – Taking sex off the table to rebuild touch7:35 – Effect 3: You feel disconnected and lonely8:10 – Seeking outside validation9:15 – What do you actually know vs. what are you assuming10:20 – Mismatched desire is common: building a growth mindset around sex

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What if the secret to getting turned on has nothing to do with what happens in the bedroom?

Sometimes the best foreplay starts hours earlier, with the right kind of adventure, connection, or touch that works with your brain chemistry instead of against it. Let’s talk about the trust, titillate, and touch framework for bonding activities that actually prime your nervous system for desire — plus I’m answering your questions on sexual incompatibility, rebuilding your sex drive after having a baby, reigniting a stalled marriage, and reclaiming your sexuality after a relationship that made you feel unseen.

ABOUT EMILY:

Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.

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Let’s talk about the questions men are too embarrassed to ask about sex… because most of what men learn about sex comes from porn, from friends who are also just figuring it out, or from nothing at all. And then they spend years wondering if they’re broken, performing wrong, or missing something everyone else seems to already know. In this episode I’m answering seven of the most common questions I get from men, and I promise you are not the only one who has been too embarrassed to ask.

ABOUT EMILY:

Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.

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Chapters:

0:00 – Intro: the questions men are too embarrassed to ask0:55 – Is it bad to masturbate every day?2:39 – How long is sex actually supposed to last?3:53 – Why most women don’t orgasm from penetration alone4:46 – Why you can lose your erection even when you’re attracted to her6:55 – Should you worry if you don’t wake up with an erection?8:11 – Why you can orgasm alone but not with a partner10:34 – If you finish before your partner, is sex over?12:45 – Send in the questions you’ve been too embarrassed to ask13:19 – How to tell your partner you’re anxious about sex15:10 – Why perfect sex isn’t the goal: presence, communication, and patience
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Let's talk about 69… because whether you love it, hate it, or have been too intimidated to try it, chances are nobody ever actually taught you how to do it well. In this episode I'm breaking down everything you need to know about giving and receiving oral sex simultaneously, including the modifications that turned me from a 69 skeptic into someone who actually gets it. I'm also answering your oral sex questions, from what to do when size makes a blowjob feel impossible to the listener who discovered the most unexpected erogenous zone of her life mid-session. If you've ever written off 69 or felt like you were doing oral sex wrong, this one is going to change some things for you.

ABOUT EMILY:

Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.

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Chapters:

00:00 Introduction

01:37 Why People Love and Hate 69

03:30 What Research Says About Giving Oral Sex and Happiness

05:00 How to Be a Better Giver in the 69 Position

07:30 Your Hands Are Your Best Friend in 69

09:00 How to Actually Receive Pleasure While Giving

11:00 Mindful Masturbation as a Tool for Better Receiving

13:00 The Sideways 69 and the Power 69

15:30 How to Stop Getting in Your Own Head During Oral

18:00 Question 1: I Discovered My Ear Is an Erogenous Zone Mid Session

21:00 The Science Behind Extra Genital Erogenous Zones

23:00 Question 2: How Do I Give Oral to a Much Larger Penis

25:00 Hands Lube and Permission to Mix It Up

27:00 The Only Rule That Actually Matters in Oral Sex
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Great oral sex isn’t about mastering a technique, memorizing tutorials, or finding one magic trick. It’s about being present enough to listen to your partner’s body.

In this episode, I’m sharing how to build a sexual language with your partner through attention, communication, and responsiveness. We’re talking about why starting slow matters, how to read the signals your partner is giving you, what it means to follow the “yes,” and why feedback like “don’t stop” or “softer” is an invitation—not a critique.

If you want oral sex to feel more connected, more pleasurable, and less like a performance, this episode is for you.

ABOUT EMILY:

Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.

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Chapters:

0:00 – Intro: what this episode covers1:24 – The oral sex skill nobody teaches: no secret move, just paying attention2:49 – Step one: start way slower than you think you need to4:29 – Why arousal needs a runway5:52 – Step two: read the body and be a detective7:35 – Step three: follow the yes9:29 – What to do when the yes goes away10:32 – Step four: talk about it11:22 – Why feedback is direction, not criticism12:36 – The question to ask: "What was your favorite part?"14:08 – The real skill: attunement and the full feedback loop
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