Self Obsessed

hi girlies! guess what... it’s my 400th video! 🎉 i’m so grateful for your continued support and love through the years ❤️ and since you have also come a long way in your self-love journey, give yourself a pat on the back for your consistency because that’s a big deal.

to celebrate my 400th video, we’re talking fake friends and why they’re not always obvious. i’m breaking down the signs of toxic friendships and jealous friends like constant comparison, “i could never” comments, disrespect disguised as jokes, gossip, and the weird energy when you’re winning. if you’re outgrowing friends or going through a friendship breakup, i’ll share how to protect your peace with self-love, boundaries, self-respect, aligned values, and slowing down who you trust because you deserve friendships that feel safe, supportive, and aligned with the woman you’re becoming.

♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO:
00:00 Introduction
01:48 Chapter 1: Signs You Have a Fake Friend
09:23 Chapter 2: Getting the F*ck Over It
14:04 Chapter 3: Protecting Yourself
20:12 Final Reminders

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if you’ve been feeling stuck, here are 8 harsh truths i wish someone told me sooner. in today’s video, we’re breaking down mindset, limiting beliefs, and why the version of “reality” you’re living in is often shaped by old stories and identity patterns. i’m also sharing why discomfort, embarrassment, and imposter syndrome are actually signs you’re growing, and how choosing self-respect over people-pleasing and family expectations is what builds real confidence and higher standards. if your glow up or personal growth feels stagnant, this video is for you 🤍

♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO:
00:00 Introduction
01:37 Harsh Truth #1: Dating Is On You
03:54 Harsh Truth #2: Reality Is A Choice
05:58 Harsh Truth #3: Run Toward Fear
07:52 Harsh Truth #4: Alignment Over Popularity
11:53 Harsh Truth #5: Adversity Has Purpose
13:42 Harsh Truth #6: Pick Your Struggle
16:20 Harsh Truth #7: Self-Love Sets Limits
18:20 Harsh Truth #8: Stop Living For Others
22:14 Final Encouragement

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it’s that time again, girlies!!! 💌✨ girl talk: valentine’s edition!!! in today’s episode, we’re having a cozy one-on-one bestie chat where i’m answering your juiciest dating questions, relationship dilemmas, situationship scenarios, and more. plus, i’m sharing self-love tips, confidence mindset shifts, and actionable steps you can actually apply to your self-love journey all year round. so grab your favorite beverage, a little snack, get comfy and let’s get into it. 🤍

♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO:
00:00 Introduction: Happy Valentine's!
00:55 Relationship & Dating
19:46 Self-Love
28:52 Final Thoughts

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WTS | AMZ

dating gets easier when you’re already anchored in self-love ✨ in this video, we’re talking about healing old patterns, rewiring your beliefs about love, and dating from confidence — not craving. we’ll cover high standards, staying loyal to your solo life, and the shift from auditioning to observing (because you’re not here to convince anyone to choose you) 💐

♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO:
00:00 Introduction to Self-Love Journey
03:44 Step 1: Learning that Love is Safe
06:17 Step 2: Condition Your Mind
08:44 Step 3: Rewiring Your Belief
12:38 Step 4: Self-love Is an Ongoing Process
14:53 Step 5: Revisit Your Expectations and Standards
18:44 Step 6: Find the Balance With Your Independence
20:07 Step 7: Be Prepared to be Disappointed
24:15 Step 8: Observe Instead of Auditioning for Love
26:03 Conclusion

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Epidemic Sound
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WTS | AMZ

self-obsession isn’t selfish— it’s the foundation of confidence, self-love, and emotional discipline ✨ in this video, we’re talking about what it really means to be healthily self-obsessed and how embracing this energy can help you stop people pleasing, build self-trust, and finally raise your standards. i’m sharing the mindset shifts that helped me protect my peace, regulate my emotions, and glow up from the inside out, along with daily habits for self-love, tips to romanticize your life, and how to set boundaries without guilt. if you’ve been craving feminine energy routines, a confidence reset, or practical personal growth advice, this is your guide to becoming your most magnetic, self-assured self. whether you’ve been feeling disconnected or overstimulated, this episode will help you reclaim your energy, realign with your future self, and step fully into your glow-up era 💌

♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO:
01:17 Introduction: Are You Self-Obsessed?
02:54 Chapter 1: Redefining Self-Obsession
18:12 Chapter 2: Practical Ways to Be Self-Obsessed in Your Daily Life
27:11 Chapter 3: Homework

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SHOP MY ABBOTT LYON COLLECTION
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STAY CONNECTED:
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For business enquiries please contact: [email protected]

Music Used:
Epidemic Sound

*my intro and outro music was made by the incredible @raaginder!