Doing It Together: Making Sense of Low Libido, Sex, and Intimacy in Marriage.

Chloe and her husband, married for 12 years, struggled with their intimate relationship from the very beginning. However, they found it difficult to have honest conversations with each other. Both raised in Britain with the belief in keeping a “stiff upper lip,” discussing emotions or sensitive topics didn’t come naturally to them. Her husband’s moods often turned dark and tense, and Chloe learned to tread carefully, trying to manage his unspoken feelings. Instead of confronting the issues, they both silently stewed in frustration for years.Five years ago, Chloe came across Janna’s program but never mentioned it to her husband, fearing it might hurt his feelings. Eventually, after reaching a breaking point, they had an honest conversation and decided to try the Doing It Together program. Chloe shares how surprised she was by what she discovered about herself, especially the depth of certain issues she hadn’t fully recognized before.The next round of Doing It Together runs in Feb./Mar. 2025 and is now open for registration until Jan. 29, 2025.Learn about the Doing It Together program details, schedules, testimonials, and Q&A. ​Visit now.Janna's new Wanting It More Foundations course for women is open for registration. Leave a podcast review: We'd so appreciate your ​rating and review​ to help the podcast reach more couples.

Tim and his wife have been married for 30 years. Their initial connection was deep and fulfilling, but once they got married, something changed. His wife began to touch him less and less, and Tim felt rejected and confused. This led to frequent arguments. After their three kids moved out, Tim hoped things would improve, but they didn’t. He fell into an emotional spiral, convincing himself that the only explanation was that his wife no longer loved him.Thankfully, Tim’s wife discovered Janna’s podcast. After listening to just half an episode, Tim immediately recognized their own experience in what was being shared, and they decided to sign up for the program. In the men’s group, Tim was able to open up honestly with other men for the first time and realize he wasn’t alone. Meanwhile, in the women’s program, his wife discovered she wasn’t broken either.For the first time in years, they felt like they were on the same team, working together to find a solution. Listen to why Tim now feels free from the emotional turmoil that sex had caused in his life, and why he and his wife have never been closer.Episode References: Zoe’s Episode 121: https://jannadentonhowes.com/121-breaking-the-cycle-zoes-30-year-journey-to-reclaim-intimacy/Ep. 79: https://jannadentonhowes.com/79-is-wanting-it-more-the-right-program-to-solve-my-low-libido-problem/The next round of Doing It Together runs in Feb./Mar. 2025 and is now open for registration until Jan. 29, 2025.Learn about the Doing It Together program details, schedules, testimonials, and Q&A. ​Visit now.Janna's new Wanting It More Foundations course for women is open for registration. Leave a podcast review: We'd so appreciate your ​rating and review​ to help the podcast reach more couples.

33-year-old Bri was convinced something was wrong with her. She hadn't been intimate with her husband in over two years, and their once passionate relationship had dwindled to a series of weekly arguments and frustrations on both sides. She was convinced she had low libido because she was too young to have lost interest in sex—what else could it be?After following Janna for several years, Bri and her husband decided to enroll in Doing It Together to finally understand what had gone wrong with their sexual relationship. Through the program, they learned how to break old patterns and replace them with healthier ways of connecting and expressing themselves. Bri shares what she discovered about effective communication, compassion, and empowerment—along with the importance of putting her needs first and speaking her mind.The next round of Doing It Together runs in Feb./Mar. 2025 and is now open for registration until Jan. 29, 2025.Learn about the Doing It Together program details, schedules, testimonials, and Q&A. ​Visit now.Janna's new Wanting It More Foundations course for women is open for registration. Leave a podcast review: We'd so appreciate your ​rating and review​ to help the podcast reach more couples.

Jason describes himself as an adventurous thrill-seeker, always in search of a rush. When he discovered the internet in college and the types of images and videos that could be accessed secretly and anonymously, it led him down a dark path marked by decades of manipulation, lying, and gaslighting as he tried to protect his secret behaviours.His marriage suffered as a result, but he was unable to recognize the damage his actions were causing to his wife. He believed he knew the "right way" for intimacy to look, so that became the path they tried to follow. This only left him feeling more frustrated and her feeling more broken.It wasn't until they discovered Doing It Together that they both realized this wasn't just a "her" problem to fix. Once they understood the root issues, they were able to address them together and begin healing.The next round of Doing It Together runs in Feb./Mar. 2025 and is now open for registration until Jan. 29, 2025.Learn about the Doing It Together program details, schedules, testimonials, and Q&A. ​Visit now.Janna's new Wanting It More Foundations course for women is open for registration. Leave a podcast review: We'd so appreciate your ​rating and review​ to help the podcast reach more couples.