Doing It Together: Making Sense of Low Libido, Sex, and Intimacy in Marriage.

Janna sits down with 27-year-old Carrie to discuss her journey with low sexual desire, sexual trauma, religious shame, and years of struggling to enjoy sex in her marriage. After trying therapy, supplements, and countless conversations with her husband, Carrie began to wonder if she was simply broken or if a satisfying sex life just wasn't in the cards for her.

Through the Doing It Together program, Carrie discovered that the missing piece wasn't necessarily her libido or sex drive, but safety. She shares how understanding the impact of cultural messages about sex, removing pressure, and bringing her husband into the conversation transformed their relationship.

I am re-working my offerings and will have some very exciting things coming in the new year. If you’ve been thinking about taking my programs on your own or with your partner, please make sure that you are on my email list to get all the updates. Go to www.jannadentonhowes.com/email to sign up.

After decades of marriage, motherhood, and putting everyone else’s needs first, Katie found herself struggling with desire and feeling increasingly disconnected from her husband. She had learned to people-please, avoid conflict, and say yes even when she didn’t really want to—until intimacy began to feel more like an obligation than connection.

Katie shares how Doing It Together helped her understand the impact of shame, resentment, social conditioning, and self-silencing on her intimate life. She talks about learning to speak up about what she wants, practice self-compassion, and create a marriage where both partners’ needs matter.

I am re-working my offerings and will have some very exciting things coming in the new year. If you’ve been thinking about taking my programs on your own or with your partner, please make sure that you are on my email list to get all the updates. Go to www.jannadentonhowes.com/email to sign up.

After his wife’s cancer treatment and early menopause changed their intimate relationship, James felt lonely, rejected, and increasingly hopeless. They loved each other deeply and had a great marriage in so many ways—but mismatched desire and physical intimacy remained the one problem they couldn’t seem to solve.

In this episode, James shares what changed through Doing It Together, including what he learned about pressure, social conditioning, and his own need to feel connected through physical intimacy. Most importantly, he discovered that moving forward wasn’t about fixing his wife—it was about understanding himself, taking responsibility for how he showed up, and creating space for connection without expectation.

I am re-working my offerings and will have some very exciting things coming in the new year. If you’ve been thinking about taking my programs on your own or with your partner, please make sure that you are on my email list to get all the updates. Go to www.jannadentonhowes.com/email to sign up.

What really happens when couples commit to eight weeks of Doing It Together?

At the end of every round, Janna brings the couples together for a farewell call and asks one simple but powerful question: What surprised you most about your journey?

In this episode, you’ll hear directly from couples who just completed the program. They share what they discovered about themselves, their partners, and their relationships—including the things they didn’t expect to uncover along the way. Their honest stories offer a glimpse into what can happen when couples get curious, challenge old patterns, and learn new ways of connecting.

I am re-working my offerings and will have some very exciting things coming in the new year. If you’ve been thinking about taking my programs on your own or with your partner, please make sure that you are on my email list to get all the updates. Go to www.jannadentonhowes.com/email to sign up.

On today’s podcast episode I’m offering the audio version of my popular free class, "The Truth About Women’s Libido: Why Everything You’ve Tried Hasn’t Worked and What To Do Instead." Listen to understand the steps required to co-create a sex life that both partners can look forward to.

I am re-working my offerings and will have some very exciting things coming in the new year. If you’ve been thinking about taking my programs on your own or with your partner, please make sure that you are on my email list to get all the updates. Go to www.jannadentonhowes.com/email to sign up.