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Doing It Together: Making Sense of Low Libido, Sex, and Intimacy in Marriage.

Janna Denton-Howes: Marriage Coach | Sex Educator | Low Libido Expert
Doing It Together: Making Sense of Low Libido, Sex, and Intimacy in Marriage.
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  • Doing It Together: Making Sense of Low Libido, Sex, and Intimacy in Marriage.

    Why Trying Harder Is Making Your Sex Life Worse | Ep. 179

    21/1/2026 | 20 mins.
    There is no shortcut to heal from a toxic world that has tricked us into thinking sex is just a series of acts designed to physically stimulate us. The only way through is to slow down, unlearn and heal- not just for your marriage but for your well-being.

    It’s understanding safety, not just physically, but emotionally.
    It’s questioning the model of sex you were handed, instead of trying to perform it better.
    It’s rebuilding trust with your own body.

    And, when you’re doing this together, it’s learning how to create a sexual environment that doesn’t require forcing, convincing, or enduring.
    This is exactly what I talk about in the podcast episode today- why trying harder is often the very thing that makes sex feel worse, not better.

    Registration is open for the Doing It Together program. Next round runs Feb./Mar. 2026. Registration deadline is Jan. 27.

    Janna's Wanting It More Foundations self-paced course for women is always open for registration. Learn more and join here.

    Leave a podcast review: We'd so appreciate your ​rating and review​ to help the podcast reach more couples.
  • Doing It Together: Making Sense of Low Libido, Sex, and Intimacy in Marriage.

    For Men: How to Reduce Pressure for Better Sex - with Justin | Ep. 178

    13/1/2026 | 1h
    Justin joins me for a foundational episode in which we zoom out and discuss the role that men play when their wives have “low libido”.

    He starts off by sharing how he felt when his wife stopped wanting to have sex with him- the feelings of confusion and worrying if he had done something wrong.

    Then we take a journey through the unique ways men can contribute to a great sex life, how to create a comfortable, pressure-free environment and the work they can do outside of the bedroom.

    I’m so grateful to work alongside Justin in supporting men and if you’d like to hear more of his story, you can listen to Episode 82 as well as Episode 148 with his wife, Sandra.

    Registration is open for the Doing It Together program. Next round runs Feb./Mar. 2026. Registration deadline is Jan. 27.

    Janna's Wanting It More Foundations self-paced course for women is always open for registration. Learn more and join here.

    Leave a podcast review: We'd so appreciate your ​rating and review​ to help the podcast reach more couples.
  • Doing It Together: Making Sense of Low Libido, Sex, and Intimacy in Marriage.

    Low Libido & Bad Sex- What Women Don't Say | Ep. 177

    06/1/2026 | 49 mins.
    Many women I talk to struggle enjoying physical touch during sex. They don’t know their experience can be any other way so they continue trying to enjoy things they don’t like and then label themselves as “non-sexual”.

    In our conversation, my husband and I discuss:
    • why so many women push themselves to initiate or say yes even when their body is clearly uncomfortable
    • why discomfort is so often normalized through culture, media, and silence
    • the real fears women carry about speaking up and the consequences they’re trying to avoid
    • why this can feel shocking or confusing for men when the truth finally comes out

    If having a closer, more connected and joyful sex life is something you want in your relationship, this episode is an important one to listen to.

    Registration is open for the Doing It Together program. Next round runs Feb./Mar. 2026. Registration deadline is Jan. 27.

    Janna's Wanting It More Foundations self-paced course for women is always open for registration. Learn more and join here.

    Leave a podcast review: We'd so appreciate your ​rating and review​ to help the podcast reach more couples.
  • Doing It Together: Making Sense of Low Libido, Sex, and Intimacy in Marriage.

    The Power of a Sex Reset | Ep. 176

    30/12/2025 | 46 mins.
    In today’s episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on one of the most important elements of moving towards freedom in your relationship and that is…a reset from sex.

    It’s something that you may have heard many times on the podcast in interviews with alumni of Doing It Together but it’s the first time I’ve addressed it directly.

    If you are tired of the mental energy sex is taking up in your life right now, I highly encourage you to listen to this conversation.

    Registration is open for the Doing It Together program. Next round runs Feb./Mar. 2026. Registration deadline is Jan. 27.

    Janna's Wanting It More Foundations self-paced course for women is always open for registration. Learn more and join here.

    Leave a podcast review: We'd so appreciate your ​rating and review​ to help the podcast reach more couples.
  • Doing It Together: Making Sense of Low Libido, Sex, and Intimacy in Marriage.

    When Your Husband Wants Sex and You Feel Anxious | Ep. 175

    23/12/2025 | 25 mins.
    Today on the podcast I recorded a short and sweet solo episode for you but really it’s a love-letter to my former self.

    Anxiety (just a different term for “fear”) is telling you something and if you are feeling it around sex, there is something to learn. And I promise you, it’s not that you are broken and that nothing will ever work. I used to believe that too but that thought will only keep you stuck.

    Listen and trust yourself and please, please, please get some support for this. It’s not going to change on it’s own.

    Registration is open for the Doing It Together program. Next round runs Feb./Mar. 2026. Registration deadline is Jan. 27.

    Janna's Wanting It More Foundations self-paced course for women is always open for registration. Learn more and join here.

    Leave a podcast review: We'd so appreciate your ​rating and review​ to help the podcast reach more couples.

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About Doing It Together: Making Sense of Low Libido, Sex, and Intimacy in Marriage.

Doing It Together is about empowering women and men to heal from cultural messages so that they can discover true pleasure and connection in their sexual relationship and marriage. This podcast addresses the common dynamic in a heterosexual relationship in which the wife doesn’t want and enjoy sex and the husband does.Too often, the focus is placed on labels like “low libido” and “low sex drive” without addressing the root issues including physical and emotional safety, shame, porn use, unintentional pressure, lack of emotional awareness, and many others.I’m Janna Denton-Howes, a Relationship Coach and Sex Educator who has specialized in this one area for the last 7 years, helping thousands of couples create a sex life that both partners can look forward to and genuinely enjoy. I’ve developed Doing It Together (formally known as “Wanting It More”), a unique program offering both men and women the tools, skills, and support to do the work required for a healthy and sustainable intimate life.If you’re looking for a fresh perspective on how to have a great sex life that is truly nourishing, connecting, and fulfilling without any feelings of obligation, duty, or guilt, this is the podcast for you!
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