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- Vince Fakhoury Horn lays out three ways to prepare a dharma talk for teachers-in-training, exploring how detailed notes can polish a talk into dead words, why speaking with no preparation depends on being prepared not to be prepared, and whether minimal preparation is really the middle way between the previous two, or just the approach he happens to prefer.
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Vince: The dharma talk. Itâs a public talk in a way, but itâs a unique kind of public talk, because youâre talking about something of such deep importance and intimacy, and yet something that can be easily misunderstood or misconstrued.
So thereâs some need to be precise at times in the dharma talk, right, to say things in a way that are easily understood and not easily misconstrued. And at the same time, thereâs, I think, a recognition, right, as dharma students, that sometimes, like after youâve heard the same story 10,000 times from your favorite teacher, or whatever, it starts to sound kind of like dull, or like it lacks the same kind of aliveness that it used to have.
Part of the reason could be because it is actually in fact dull and just kind of like old hat and rehearsed to death. And so as a dharma teacher, we want to talk in a way thatâs alive and fresh and relevant to the moment and to who weâre speaking with, that is enacting that ideal of skillful means thatâs so important here in the Second Turning. How do we do that in reality? And here I want to present a model of preparation for the dharma talk in which there are three positions that Iâll throw out there. One is the detailed preparation approach. This is the position in which you spend a good amount of time preparing your dharma talk.
And you get whatâs basically like a close to script level detail. You almost could read the dharma talk from your notes. Itâs that detailed. It may not be completely script, but itâs close enough that you can gather all of the relevant information directly from your notes. And it has a very clear and planned out structure, and logical flow from one thing to another, perhaps building on a point, or presenting a list and going very methodically from one point to another subpoint of the list, the overall list youâre teaching, or whatever it might be. Thereâs some very clear and planned out structure. So thatâs the detailed preparation.
On the other end, the other side here is no preparation. So this is where you do little to no upfront preparation, aside from trusting your practice and trusting all the preparation youâve already done. Youâre really responding to the moment as itâs arising and changing, whoâs present. Maybe you have kind of a theme or title to work with, or maybe youâre just responding to questions in the moment. Maybe thereâs some very minimal structure, but thereâs within that a lot of formlessness in terms of your preparation. So thatâs the no-prep dharma talk. And then if you imagine these as two existing on a spectrum, right? Detailed preparation, no preparation. Then I want to present an apex position here called minimal preparation.
In the minimal preparation mode, there is a core structure, that you can see an overall flow or logic to the talk, but there are as few bullet points needed as possible to describe and detail out the subject matter that youâre getting into. In fact, within minimal preparation notes, for me, I wouldnât expect to see any quotes. I would have a separate page, maybe just one page for quotes, if I have stuff I want to share that I canât, you know, remember all the specifics from. But within my actual just minimal prep thing, itâs just bullet points, some basic subject headlines and some basic points.
Just something to remind me of what it is Iâm talking about. And then within that minimal structure, thereâs a lot of space for improvisation and for flow. So I want to talk about each of these a little bit more, and the relative upsides and downsides, and then just open it up for conversation.
So in terms of the detailed preparation mode, this is kind of how I started teaching, in which you spend a lot of time, painstaking effort, in getting your presentation prepared. And so thereâs a lot of upside to this.
You have a lot of control over what you end up saying. And if you get good at using these detailed notes, youâre not going to make a lot of flubs, verbally, linguistically. Youâre not going to sound like youâre all over the place. Itâll actually sound pretty logical, and itâll be easier to follow, more cognitively coherent.
Thereâs a way in which over time, youâre constantly editing your notes from dharma talk to dharma talk. So you give the same dharma talk over and over again, and you kind of get to perfect it.
Thatâs one thing I really noticed at IMS and Spirit Rock. The Insight Meditation tradition teachers is like, some of them had these dharma talks that theyâd been perfecting for decades, and like, they were brilliant. Like, they were like a really well-performed comedy act that had been refined to the nth degree. And the only reason it would be no longer relevant anymore is it just has been around long enough that culture changes and times change. You know, in terms of the form of it, itâs perfect, perfect as you can get for the relative world. But there are downsides to this approach, and Iâm sure youâre aware of at least some of them just thinking about them now, right? I mean, for one thing, itâs hard to change that much. You know, you could change things, but if you change things a lot, itâs a lot of work. So this kind of form of really detailed notes are kind of hard to adapt. They can be a little rigid. Can be hard to edit, since everything is so detailed and refers to everything else.
You know, if you change one thing, you have to change five, 10 other things. Whereas with, you know, the minimal preparation approach, for instance, you might just change one bullet point, and then over here, another bullet point. Because of the increased detail, thereâs more maintenance to maintain the style of notes.
The other thing, I think the main downside with these kind of notes, is if we get disconnected from the deeper spirit of what weâre saying and we start to just sound rehearsed, then this comes across asâin the Zen tradition, they call this dead words. We start sounding like weâre just saying some dead words.
And I shared this experience with many of you before, but I had the ultimate detailed-note, dead-word teaching experience with Kenneth Folk one day on retreat, when I was teaching on Dongshanâs Five Ranks. And it was so sad to me too, because I had taught on this in a previous retreat, and had really been alive and very much live words.
And so because I was trying to look good in front of my teacher and be, you know, I guess like, validated, I ended up making the mistake of just too much reliance on the words, and got lost in words. And I think thatâs what can happen. We get lost in these kind of concepts, and weâre just throwing around words and trying to make this beautiful word salad. And itâs like, no, itâs a salad. Itâs a word salad. Thereâs something missing underneath it. You know, thereâs some sustenance and some substance thatâs lacking. So thatâs the dead word challenge. Now, no preparation can respond to that challenge, right? If you come in without any preparation, if you come in and youâre just like, âOkay, here we go. Uh, whatâs the topic? Whatâs the question? Go.â Then there is this potential for more flow and more spontaneity. And if you really have done some training, and youâve learned some stuff, and you have access to it, then itâll comeâat least some of it will. And so you can kind of trust that these words will be alive.
I have some notes here. Iâm using the minimal preparation method for this presentation. Here, the upside of the no preparation is you can learn how to trust your intuitive wisdom. You can start to kind of get a sense for what you need to say, whatâs appropriate.
You might also find that you need less words to do that in than you did before with the detailed mode. This is one of the potential upsides, is you can be more succinct, if you learn how to express the essence of what needs to be said. And obviously it takes less time to prepare. Thatâs a huge upside.
You can come in completely just ready to go.
Now, the downsides are also pretty epic. Epic upside and downsides here, because for those who are really not getting it right and are just babbling, you end up getting this kind of sloppy, circular, hard to understand, self-referential, baloney kind of performative thing that can happen, you know, where someone is just kind of like bullshitting, you know?
And itâs like, thereâs a fine line between intuitive wisdom flowing from the source and bullshit flowing out someoneâs pie hole. It can be easy to fall into bullshitting, because when we donât have a structure, something to fall back onto, we can suddenly get scared because we donât know, and then instead of just resting or being in the not knowing as part of our presentation, we start to grasp onto concepts and use them to try to stabilize ourselves. So we can do that in the no preparation mode. If weâre not prepared to not be prepared, we can start to grasp onto concepts, onto rafts.
It can become, as I said, performative and kind of egocentric.
Itâs hard to also know, if youâre very rationally oriented or you tend to be more thinking type person, sometimes itâs hard to notice the difference between a wise, intuitive, no-preparation dharma talk and just some nonsensical BS. And I remember being confused about this when I first started working with Trudy Goodman, my teacher, because on the one hand, I couldnât understand anything she was saying, and it sounded like kind of nonsense. And on the other hand, it left me feeling like a good movie would, or something, where I was inspired and kind of questioning and considering the nonsense that I couldnât understand.
And I was like, wow, this is really weird. And it took years, but over some years I realized just how much wisdom there was in the way that she was communicating. It was very off the cuff, very Zen, as was her training. And she would make points and then circle around and then circle back in ways that were kind of shocking.
You know, and it was like all this sort of thing that I didnât understand, a dance that I hadnât learned the choreography for. It was very fascinating.
Zulu: Mm-hmm.
Vince: Okay, now Iâm presenting the apex position, whichâI know in framing this, I said these are just a few different positions, but now actually Iâm presenting this as a superior one. Why? Because this is the way that I do it. More like, this is something that Iâve learned through doing it the other two ways and found to be a nice middle way, between and beyond them.
But itâs not that it doesnât have upsides and downsides. So the upsides and downsides are in relation to the other extremes. So here, with minimal preparation, there is less prep time than the detailed preparation. So thatâs an upside. But thereâs more than the no prep. So thatâs a downside.
Thereâs more structure and logic to the minimal preparation approach than the no preparation, which can really save your ass at times. But on the other hand, thereâs less structure and logic than the detailed prep. Thereâs less detailed content to pull from. So that can sometimes also be challenging.
You gotta trust yourâwhat you know.
I think one of the upsides of this approach is itâs easier to evolve your notes with each iteration than it is with the detailed notes. It should be mentioned, with no preparation you canât evolve your notes if you donât have any. It doesnât require any, but you donât have any either.
What I love about the minimal preparation approach is it includes both space for rational and intuitive elements. You can both have a structure and some points and details that you can be reminded of and help you stay on track, and you have lots of space, if you keep those to a minimum, to really improvise and to share around, to be kind of in a natural flow for the words to be alive.
I think one downside Iâve noticed of the minimal preparation approach is that it can easily devolve into the no preparation approach, or it canâevolve is not whereâlike, it can kind of tighten itself into a more detailed preparation than is necessary.
So finding that real fine balance, where youâre really only doing the minimum amount of preparationâto me, thatâs like bullet points, like nested bullets. Itâs pretty simple.
Get full access to Buddhist Geeks at www.buddhistgeeks.org/subscribe - Vince Fakhoury Horn introduces the Buddhist Wisdom Chords, which is both a teaching model, and a live training in the Pragmatic Dharma app, that looks at each Buddhist lineage as a chord made up of seven meditative notes, played across the Four Turnings of Buddhismâs evolution, looking at what each tradition emphasizes, what it leaves out, and why being able to strum a simple chord is not the same as playing a beautiful piece of music.
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Vince Horn: Okay, I want to give you a little introduction to the Buddhist Wisdom Chords. This is both a schema and model that Iâm presenting to help understand the practice orientations of different Buddhist wisdom traditions, presented within a larger framework of the Four Turnings, which is a evolutionary framework for understanding the way that Buddhadharma has evolved and is currently evolving in todayâs world.
Itâs also a training that Iâm leading in the Pragmatic Dharma app, and itâs a live twelve-week training, and let me just give you a sense for what this model is. In this training, over twelve weeks, weâll be exploring each of twelve different wisdom chords.
These chords are made up of different notes, you could say, using the metaphor here in music, of notes making up a chord. The notes here are concentration, mindfulness, heartfulness, inquiry, awareness, embodiment, and finally, imaginal meditation.
No tradition in this model plays just one note. Each tradition is made up of and uses multiple techniques, and weaves them together into a larger whole.
But that said, no lineage is also completely comprehensive or does not have a shadow side, blind spots, et cetera. So this model helps us to understand lineage in terms of the practice focus, and also to see what some of the blind spots might be so we can address them in our practice. Hereâs the basic model:
If you visualize it as a cone or triangle, awareness sits at the top. Itâs at the apex of this model. Itâs a special way of meditating in that you donât do anything. Thereâs no doing in awareness. As you go up this model, you go toward non-doing. As you go down, you work toward more effortful practice. Embodiment, thereâs some amount of effort involved in becoming embodied, but really when youâre in the body, it just takes care of itself. Mindfulness, thereâs even more effort. With inquiry and imaginal, a similar amount. Concentration and heartfulness, the most effortful practices. Here, if you look from the left to right, you also see another axis of difference that divides and describes the distinctions between these ways of meditating, which is apophatic, or subtraction, on the one side, on the left side, and kataphatic on the right.
So you see imaginal practice being an example of a very kataphatic practice, where youâre adding something to your experience. With inquiry, weâre taking it away by using a question. What is this? Weâre taking away all of our knowing, our answers. Thatâs apophatic practice. Some of these practices are more in the middle or slightly lean, like heartfulness toward the kataphatic, concentration toward the apophatic.
Thereâs some more detail here about the notes. You can visit this at pragmaticdharma.com/chords if you want to see the full detail. I do want to just give you an overview of the chords themselves, because this is what weâll cover from week to week. Weâre going to begin in the First Turning and work our way through each of the turnings.
Weâll start with my favorite, which was also my own path: the Power Chord. The Power Chord is when youâre strumming both concentration and mindfulness and youâre hitting those two really hard. You see this in the Mahasi Sayadaw tradition of mental noting, in the early Pragmatic Dharma lineage of Daniel Ingram.
This is how I practiced coming up in the dharma, and it can lead to fast results, big insight, movement across the maps, progress of insight, etc., stages of enlightenment. And yet, notice how it leaves out the heart, leaves out the body, leaves out awareness. A lot is left out here in order to make this rapid progress, and the downside of this approach is you have to loop back around, in my experience, and fill in your understanding of the dharma.
A little bit more filled-in model here, or chord, is the Insight Chord. This is something you see across many of the early Buddhist traditions, in the modern TheravÄda lineages. Concentration here is the telescope we use to focus. Mindfulness is what weâre looking through, and heartfulness keeps our looking warm, keeps it from turning cold and icy.
So these three together form the Insight Chord. Notice how different lineages in the TheravÄda tradition emphasize one of these different notes more than the other while still strumming all three. Like the Pa-Auk Sayadaw lineage of Burma really emphasizes concentration. Or the tradition I trained in, the Mahasi lineage, really emphasizes [mindfulness], while you see a modern lineage like the TWIM lineage of Bhante Vimalaramsi really doing the same thing but using heartfulness as its main note. So here weâll begin to explore, in this training, the way that different notes can be strummed or emphasized, and how that changes the wisdom chord that weâre playing or practicing.
Finally, in the First Turning, weâll cover the Forest Chord. Also a really nice one in terms of getting the body involved, seeing an embodied lineage that also touches on awareness as one of its notes. Notice the Insight Chord and the Power Chord before didnât emphasize the always-already nature of awareness.
But here, this lineage, which is also part of my training background and my lineage through Ajahn Chah, emphasizes awareness and leads with embodiment. We can and will explore the Second Turning, for instance, the classic tension between the Rinzai and SĆtĆ schools of Zen. And weâll look at it from this point of view: how the Rinzai emphasizes a very apophatic approach, which is inquiry-dominant.
It includes awareness, but awareness isnât the main note, whereas in the SĆtĆ school of DĆgen, awareness is the lead. âZazen is enlightenment.â Youâre just sitting as awareness. Now, it is embodied as well. Both Rinzai and SĆtĆ have the body involved, and both have concentration, but SĆtĆ is less inquiry-based and more awareness-driven.
So you have to see some differences here in the traditions, and weâll practice some practices in this training that emphasize, and hopefully will give us a felt sense for, each of these harmonics. The Pure Land Chord and the Daimoku Chord: very kataphatic expressions in the Second Turning, compared to the more apophatic, awareness-driven.
These are more gradual-path approaches. Interestingly, they also present as a kind of chord with different notes being strummed. So weâll explore those together. The Third Turning, we get into the Vajra Chord. Very different, very kataphatic, very relational. And then we can see within this larger chord, you can break it down.
You know, you can dissect it into these different sublineages. The Dzogchen Chord, for instance, and the MahÄmudrÄ Chord. Very interestingly, the MahÄmudrÄ Chord and later the Western Insight Chord share a basic same shape. Weâll look at that. The Lamrim Chord, the Gelug tradition in Tibetan Buddhism, playing a very different strum and bringing in inquiry as a kind of counterbalance to the lack of inquiry in the Vajra Chord.
So weâll understand the evolution of the tradition through this chord lens as well, seeing how the focus on practices, it is contextual. It arises within a cultural context.
Weâll look at the Fourth Turning also. This is probably the most exciting part of this training for me, looking at my own tradition of the Western Insight Chord, which gave birth to the Secular Mindfulness Chord, the Soulmaking Chord of Rob Burbeaâs Soulmaking Dharma, the EcoDharma Chord through teachers like David Loy and others, the Integral Chord of Ken Wilber, the Pragmatic Chord of my own lineage.
Weâll explore the differences and distinctions here with these other Fourth Turning chords. And weâll go into deep mastery in this training. Weâll look at what it takes to achieve real mastery, recognizing the difference between being able to strum a simple chord and know the sound it makes, and being able to really play a beautiful piece of music. This is a different thing. So weâll explore that together as we go deeper into this model, and what this model points to in terms of our potential to be a full-spectrum Dharma practitioner.
Get full access to Buddhist Geeks at www.buddhistgeeks.org/subscribe - Vince Fakhoury Horn describes the insight meditation tradition as a chord in which concentration, mindfulness and heartfulness sound together, with concentration giving mindfulness its depth and heartfulness keeping the whole enterprise from turning dry and frightening.
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Vince Horn: Practically speaking, weâve been focused on kind of three different forms of practice over our time together.
We started with concentration practice, which is related to the training in concentration. We talked about mindfulness practice, which is often associated with the training in wisdom. And then last week we started to get into the heartfulness-style practice, or metta practice as itâs known in the early Buddhist tradition. Or brahmavihÄra practice, another term thatâs used to describe some of the heart qualities that early Buddhism is really interested in cultivating, developing. And you could say for sure that you can get into concentration states with heartfulness.
And they also can be very helpful in terms of the first training of morality and ethics. They can come in very handy there, as in all the meditation practices.
I remember when I was on a two-month retreat with Emily at Spirit Rock, someone asked during one of the Q&As with Jack Kornfield, they said, âIâve heard that metta practice, heartfulness practice, is a relative practice, that you canât actually get to the absolute, the universal goal of emptiness through metta, that you have to do vipassanÄ. Is that true?â To which Jack responded something like, âIf you canât awaken through the heart, I donât know how else you can do it.â
âIf you canât awaken through love, what are we even talking about?â And I thought that was a nice response, because it challenged that notion in the early Buddhist tradition â it does creep up, actually, a lot â that heartfulness is a relative practice. Well, maybe not. Maybe it could actually lead to ultimate wisdom. Or maybe it is an expression of ultimate wisdom. Thatâs my view.
So weâve looked at these three forms of practice, all of which are, in the broader sense, meditation practice, but they all connect to these three trainings, and are useful and skillful things to do.
So I want to explore how these three come together. Itâs something that I noticed as Emily and I started to come up with this framework of the different ways to meditate, to try to describe our own experience. I noticed that when I looked back at my training in the early Buddhist tradition, these three forms of practice were the ones that predominated. I didnât really experience a tremendous amount of focus on inquiry practice in the early tradition. It does pop up from time to time. You do get an occasional question or occasional inquiry. You might find some Theravada teachers that have an interest in that, but itâs not predominant. Nor is the sort of awareness-style practice that you then find in a more mature form later in the Tibetan Buddhist tradition, in MahÄmudrÄ, or in Zen and Shikantaza, or Dzogchen â these practices where youâre just being, thereâs no technique, no form, just awareness. Again, you can find examples of it in early Buddhism for sure, but it just doesnât seem to be emphasized in the same way.
Likewise with embodiment practices, thereâs just not a whole lot of emphasis on inhabiting or being in the body. More about mindfulness of the bodyâlike the bodyâs an object that youâre being mindful of, rather than something that youâre learning to inhabit the mystery of. And so for me, these threeâand likewise with the imaginal practice tooâitâs these other styles of meditation that weâve touched on that just donât seem to be as predominant as concentration, mindfulness, and heartfulness. And so I started thinking of that. Itâs, in a way, what makes the insight meditation traditionâwhich comes out of the early Buddhist tradition, is in a way like a modern lineage of that, which is also a little confusing, because itâs not completely that, because itâs also interfacing with all these other traditions and teachers and has incorporated elements from them. So in that sense itâs more like really a fourth-turning tradition. But nonetheless, if we take the emphasis to be on these three, then we have a kind ofâyou could imagine, from a musical perspective, thinking of this as like a chord.
If youâve ever played a guitar, you know that you have a few different notes that you strum together at once. Those can, in certain circumstances, work together to form whatâs called a chord. That chord is a harmony of different things that come together to form something more than the sum of their parts.
And this is in some ways how I think about traditions: that theyâve hit on these really interesting combinations of different ideas and practices to form something thatâs very unique and seems to be pretty anti-fragile. It can continue delivering value and being useful over time for many people. So they hit on something deep here.
Likewise, if you think about food, I think this is another way itâs obvious. You think about cuisine, and you think about the kind of traditions of cuisine that emerge in different areas. Think about Thai cuisine or French cuisine or whatever type of cuisine you like. There are certain ingredients that are endemic to those areas where the cuisine developed. And over many hundreds, thousands of years, these ingredients were cultivated, combined, experimented with, until certain kinds of combinations, flavor combinations, start to emerge as being particularly powerful. Why is it that every Thai dish I learn how to cook, it all calls for curry and it calls for fish sauce? Thereâs certain things that you just tend to find. These ingredients end up working together in harmony, balancing each other, providing different elements. I think here too with the early Buddhist tradition, weâve got these kind of ingredients, these basic meditation ingredients, that come together to form something more.
Itâs like something thatâs so good that we want to pass it on, and we donât want to see it die, because it really works. And the insight chordâone thing Iâll point out about this is, if you look at each of these forms of practice, all of them can be seen from, and are often seen from, a gradual cultivation point of view. Like, we gradually cultivate our concentration and develop our concentration. We develop our mindfulness, cultivate mindfulness; we develop our heartfulness, we cultivate heartfulness.
All of these practices in the insight chord are really usually held in that way, that this is a gradual practice. This is something weâre gonna cultivate gradually over time, sometimes step by step or stage by stage. And so one of the unique things about the insight chord is that itâs a gradual progression. You could say itâs a progressive tradition, in that itâs interested in, focused on progress, on the progress of meditation, development, cultivation of these qualities.
Another thing to say about the insight chord, I think, is the non-duality of mind and heart. You could say thereâs an emphasis on both mindfulness and heartfulness together. And if you look back at the term citta, the way that itâs often translated as âmindâ in Western cultures, because we like minds so muchâbut often people will have to correct that translation, as actually it means something like mind and heart. Itâs understood traditionally more broadly than that. And in the early Buddhist traditionâyeah, heart and mindâthese ideas, these notions werenât so different from each other. There wasnât such a sharp and clean distinction drawn between them. So the citta is not something that we would think of as just existing up here in the head or being associated with the brain, but rather citta is something that is more inclusive than that.
The other thing Iâd say about the insight chord is that concentration practice, because thatâs part of the chordâwhen you are deepening your concentration practice, if youâre exploring jhÄnas, for instance, or cultivating really deep samÄdhi and stillness, that can then be brought back into the other notes, into mindfulness practice, into heartfulness practice. And thatâs, I think, a unique characteristic of this tradition that focuses on really concentrated mindfulness and concentrated heartfulness. Itâs heavy-duty, industrial-strength mindfulness & heartfulness.
Thereâs some deep kind of recognition about the value of concentration, or of samÄdhi, as a kind of preliminary or preparatory practice. That without cultivating that, we can have insights and we can cultivate these different qualities of heart, but in a way, the understanding is weâre doing it at a kind of shallow level. And so if you want to really go deep, concentration is the part of the chord that allows the depth factor to really shine through.
Thatâs why thereâs such an emphasis in the early Buddhist tradition on monasticism, and in modern times on retreat practice. This emphasis on depth is present. It ties back to the whole thing of seeing it as a progressive tradition as well. If itâs progressive, then you want to make a lot of progress.
Itâs like, okay, how do you make the most progress? Well, you get really concentrated and then do mindfulness practice and watch your whole universe get shredded? Thatâd be one way of saying itâhave a cosmic experience of impermanence, in which thereâs no doubt left in your mind that this is the way it is. And for me, these practices have worked really well together when Iâve gone too far down one path without checking in on the others.
I think early on in my practice I needed to do some heartfulness practice to even begin being able to have a stable attention. I needed to start by actually feeling some remorse and grief, and forgiving myself and others. That was, for me, the preparatory practice. I was doing that before I really started to be able to settle into deep stillness and feel safe enough to investigate reality and allow it to dissolve.
I think when people donât have a sense of heart thatâs available for them, these insights can be very scary and dry, and itâs often called dry insight. The dryness comes not just from not having enough concentration, but I think also from not having enough heart.
Where we start to see, âOh yeah, this is the nature of reality â ah!â Theyâre like Macaulay Culkin in Home Alone, where itâs just, âAh!â Freak out. But if youâre being held by love, youâve got some love, some loving-kindness and compassion present, and then youâre like, âOh yeah, everythingâs changing. Itâs okay. Yeah, thatâs true. And itâs okay.â
Thereâs some sense of okayness, even if the okayness isnât permanent. I notice the state of okayness is a state too. Itâs nice that itâs present a lot of the time; I can fall back on that, and I can get a sense for, itâs okay.
Even if itâs not okay, thatâs okay.
And here, the emphasis in the early Buddhist tradition on equanimity is really striking to me. This is, in so many ways, a type of experience: upekkhÄ, or equanimity. I like the translation that comes later from Thich Nhat Hanh â this is more of a second-turning translation â inclusion.
But the goal of being able to be okay with whatever comes seems to be one of the bigger goals of the tradition. Equanimity. You find it in so many of the different early Buddhist lists; it keeps popping up over and over again. So just from that standpoint, youâd say, âWow, this thing is important.â
Itâs the last stage of the progress of insight in the Visuddhimagga, the stage of equanimity. Itâs part of the brahmavihÄras. Itâs one of the qualities that pervades the jhÄnas. Itâs â you just find it over and over again. So I wanted to highlight that thatâs, in some sense, what seems to be part of the goal of the early Buddhist tradition. One of the goals is the cultivation of this quality of equanimity, of being okay even when things are not okay.
So this is the insight chord. You have each of these notes you can draw on, and the claim here is that together these three enable the arising and deepening of insight.
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Get full access to Buddhist Geeks at www.buddhistgeeks.org/subscribe - In âImaginal Meditation,â Emily West Horn introduces an approach to imaginal practiceâdrawing on Vajrayana deity yoga, Jack Kornfield, Chögyam Trungpa, and Dzongsar Khyentse Rinpocheâto show how invoking, dissolving, and embodying the image of the Buddha can loosen the boundary between self & world, inclining the mind toward non-duality.
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Emily Horn: So I want to explore imaginal meditation with you all today. And I want to start just simply with the Buddhist Geeks definition of it, and then Iâm going to unpack what imaginal meditation means in the context of the third turning, and in particular Vajrayana practice. Iâm not going to unpack what Vajrayana is or some of these terms that weâve already previously unpacked.
So if you have questions about Vajrayana and Buddhism, things like that, you can watch the other recordings with these sessions. Iâm also going to talk about a few of the challenges that Iâve seen and that Iâve experienced with imaginal meditation. And then, of course, weâll actually practice it after this concludes.
So, the general definition that Buddhist Geeks offers and proposes for you all is: imaginal meditation is the practice of incorporating subtle imagery and energy, the result of which is fullness. So weâre moving into a somewhat â for some people â challenging practice, because itâs really asking us to move beyond our ordinary way of perceiving.
Itâs asking us to shift outside of whatever framework you might be entering through. Imaginal meditation asks us to actually sense into the possibilities. Itâs a creative practice. And it also challenges the rational mind a little bit, because weâre moving from perceiving to imagining what you might not have even perceived or recognized before.
And itâs also aiming at incorporating subtle vibes. I think âvibeâ is the new word, not âenergyâ necessarily, so we can go with that. If you have these kinds of experiences where itâs like, âHuh, Iâm not sure exactly what that is, but I felt itâ â Iâve had a lot of those experiences around people. Itâs like I can feel this certain kind of energy, vibe, and Iâm like, what is that? Well, imaginal meditation is asking us to actually say, okay, there is something beyond our ordinary perception that we can actually get more and more attuned to, and then start to embody.
For example, in the meditation, in the way that Iâm going to zoom in today with you all, weâre going to be working with the image of the Buddha. So that image in itself has a certain kind of vibe, and it invokes a certain kind of experience. Iâll give you more information about that in a moment. But I want to also offer you a little bit about what it is from the Vajrayana perspective.
He says, âThe technique of visualizationâ â and I want to highlight and bold âvisualization,â and Iâm going to honor his way of talking about things, but then Iâm also going to tell you all why Buddhist Geeks has changed that to âimaginal.â So âvisualizationâ isnât the way weâre going to be talking about it. However, I do want to honor where this is coming from and the way that itâs spoken about typically. So: âThe technique of visualization is employed throughout the Vajrayana practices of Tibetan Buddhism. Its use of our imagination makes it quite different from other meditations such as shamatha, which is concentration or calm abiding. Imagination also plays a major part in our deluded experience of life. Everything we encounter and perceive in our daily life is a product of our imagination, but because we believe in the illusions we create, they become such deeply rooted mental habits that we completely forget that theyâre little more than fantasy. The imagination is therefore one of our most powerful tools, and working with it by changing the ways we look at our world is what we call the practice of visualization.â
So itâs really aimed at starting to sense into: okay, wait, maybe we are creative beings. Maybe there is more here than we actually can recognize. And whatâs it like to imagine a different way of living, of being? In some ways, what would it be like to imagine that human beings could all live together and thrive? It can go into that way of looking at it.
Now, Iâve also done a lot of different kinds of visualization or imaginal practices. There are so many different kinds. When I studied with Jack Kornfield, he taught me and others how to guide people. Itâs kind of like a mix between a psychological framework and a Buddhist framework. He would offer ways to unlock different ways of knowing through symbols. There were healing journeys. There was a healing temple that we would imagine and venture into. There are time-travel visualizations, imaginal practices where you get on magic carpets and go exploring. And itâs really just a way of getting to know these parts of us that we donât typically recognize.
Thereâs also, in psychotherapy, if youâve done trauma work, which I have â there was a whole thing with my therapist before I could even do EMDR, which is an alleviation-of-trauma technique. And âresourcingâ: I had to visualize and imagine a place that brought me some nurturing and comfort. That was my go-to place when things got intense. I would go back to the beach in LA, or wherever. I think that was my safe spot at the time.
So there are all kinds of ways that this has been incorporated into meditation in the West. A lot of the teachers that Iâve studied with, I know, have drawn from Vajrayana and some of the imaginal practices in that tradition. Today, though, weâre going to zoom into a type of deity yoga â or deity imaginal practice. And weâre going to use the Buddha, and Iâll tell you a little bit more about that again in a minute.
So I also want to touch on this: when we sense into imaginal practice, Iâm not sure what your relationship to it is. So take a moment and just sense in â have you done this before? Do you feel a little reactive, like, âOh,â about this? Is it really intriguing, âOoh, whatâs going to happen?â So just sense into whatâs going on for you as we explore this, because it does ask us to engage a part of us that, for whatever reasons, is not very well known.
Iâm not sure how many people in the United States visualize Buddhas and then start to embody them, let alone Europe, and then as we expand. So I think some of you are there. One of the challenges that comes up with this practice is â again, I highlighted and bolded that word âvisualizationâ â that can be a challenge, with thinking that itâs only visual. So I want to see what we can do in the session to expand and imagine in so many different ways. It can be very unique to you how your imagination actually takes form and shape and senses in this practice.
To think of it as visualization â sometimes visualization gets equated, or thereâs this association, with images: like you think in pictures, you see pictures. And I just want to invite us to soften around that, because this practice â some people will see very clearly in images, and thatâs not the case for everyone. So just soften around what you might think this needs to look like. It might be kinesthetic. And for me, thought imprints are a way that, a lot of times, Iâve gotten really attuned to sensing the vibes behind thoughts and intuition in these imaginal practices. Sometimes it comes in the form of a thought. So just allow yourself to expand and include more and more and more when we go into the practice. Thatâs part of where imagination practices take us â to include more and more and more in our experience.
Another challenge â and this is pretty much for all practices, and in particular this one â in a lot of ways it can bring up these thoughts like, âAm I doing this right? Am I doing this right?â The important thing to keep in mind with this practice is that however you invoke the image â weâre going to be working, of course, with imagery and imagining â however that imagining process happens for you, see if you can, if that thought comes in, âAm I doing this right?â â itâs a creative process. Thereâs not really a right or wrong. The mind will come in to try to steal your experiences, like Trudy Goodman says. So just keep that with a little yellow sticky note on it. âDoing it right, doing it wrongâ â thatâs part of the imaginal process. It can be really creative, and it can be fun.
Another thing that comes up a lot when people begin to practice this â and of course we call it a practice for a reason â is trying to analyze whatâs happening. Trying to, like, âOh, I read that article and that article said I should do it this way, or that article said... and oh wait, what now? What is imaginal practice again? What does that really mean?â So youâre going to start to try to analyze the practice and the concepts and the theory. And if thatâs happening during the practice, I invite you to just be like, okay, not right now. Let me see if I can suspend that kind of cognitive knowing for just a moment here and sense into: okay, what is really being invoked in this practice? Or what are we really aiming to invoke?
And honestly, itâs really about how it comes alive for you. Thatâs the important part. If it feels alive, then youâre in the process of it. It can feel alive in one minute and then not another minute, but youâre still just trying to sense into that. What is the vibrancy of whatâs happening? Can I really be in the moment and sense into this life quality thatâs here? You may see something very clearly, or you may feel something very clearly, but sense into: okay, weâre aiming to bring this alive and then see it as clearly as possible, in whatever way that looks for you â whether itâs kinesthetic, thinking, sensing.
So another challenge that comes up in this practice is getting fixated. You may get fixated on seeing each and every detail of what weâre trying to invoke. Iâve done guided practices with this kind of imagery, like, âWeâre going to invoke the Buddha.â There are so many different images of the Buddha. Iâve done a lot with this Blue Medicine Buddha, and heâs got all kinds of accoutrements; he is very fancy-looking, in my opinion. And so for a while it was like, âOh gosh, I donât see it like that when I start to practice. I forgot that detail.â So if the details are inspiring to you, and youâre one of those people who really loves the details and they just come up â like, âOh, I can see the eyes, I can see the hairâ â thatâs great. And if thatâs not whatâs happening for you, thatâs not, in my experience, the most important part. Again, itâs that sense of aliveness. Itâs the sense of the clear knowing of it. And again, that can look a lot of different ways. So relax, if youâre one of the people who get hung up on details, as much as you can. Itâs okay not to see all the little pieces of it.
Iâve sort of alluded to this, but Iâll name it directly: in some ways a challenge is people who are unwilling to believe the unbelievable. So I want to challenge you to expand and be open to whatâs kind of unbelievable. Be open to experiences that you might not â that might not fit in your current framework. Because, again, weâre working with subtle vibes, and the more we sensitize to that and attune to that, the more you might notice that itâs always been here.
For example, when I was doing a lot of meditation practice at one point â it was on a retreat we were doing â one of the instructions was to imagine, of course, the Buddha, and then, if weâre having a difficult moment, or even if not, one of the anchoring phrases was, âThis happy Buddha is like this, this calm Buddha is like this.â And I was doing that, and then I started feeling like these Buddhas were coming. I could feel the sense â perception just changes, especially with a lot of concentration. Itâs kind of like doing drugs or psychedelics, let me be specific. And so I just kept feeling â and imagining â all these different kinds of Buddhas. And I went to Jack and I was like, âAh, I donât know, it feels like all these Buddhas are coming.â And he was just like, âOkay, cool.â And I was like, âBut I donât even know if itâs me or them.â I started to lose the differentiation between the outside and the inside. It started to merge together in a way where I was not so sure who was who and what was what. It was all just kind of happening. But my mind was seeing Buddhas.
So part of what happens in this practice is we invoke the imagery, and then we start to actually become it and embody it. So it starts to break down the separation between all these different aspects of experience that we typically see as separate. So thatâll be part of what we do in the practice: weâll invoke the Buddha, and then weâll start to dissolve the Buddha and embody the Buddha. Aiming toward â sensing into what Iâm going to tell you about in a minute, which is non-duality.
Jack Kornfield says: you recognize that you can embody these energies. When you do that, then you can allow it to fill every cell of your being, every corner of your consciousness; see the world with the eyes of the Buddha or St. Francis; sense that you are holy. Practice this repeatedly until it becomes more natural to your heart than your ordinary identity. So in some ways our ordinary identity can become quite extraordinary, when we sense into: wait a second, there is more to this experience, to this human beingness, than sometimes Iâm attuned to. And this practice helps us incline to that, and then start to â okay, yeah, letâs see what this is like to be this Buddha.
Again and again, it stretches us. Imagination stretches us. Chögyam Trungpa, from Shambhala: The Sacred Path of the Warrior â Iâve already talked about Trungpa â says: âYou can experience a vast realm of perceptions unfolding. There is unlimited sound, unlimited sight, unlimited taste, unlimited feeling, and so on. The realm of perception is limitless â so limitless that perception itself is primordial, unthinkable, beyond thought. There are so many perceptions that are beyond imagination. There are a vast number of sounds. There are sounds that youâve never heard. There are sights and colors that youâve never seen. There are feelings that youâve never experienced before. There are endless fields of perception.â
Endless fields of perception. So just sense into what it would be like to start to unlock, and then become whole, by starting to imagine in a new way â to include more and more and more of those vast, limitless ways to perceive. So again, when we invoke it and then we dissolve it, weâre going to start to sense into what itâs like for the external and the internal to come together. And, as I mentioned before, non-duality.
So let me tell you a little bit about what I mean by that. I went to ask Jack one time, I was like, âSo what is this non-duality?â He still laughs at me. Heâs like, âThere are so many kinds of non-duality.â So it sounded nice to zoom in and say, okay, this is what weâre talking about with this particular practice that weâll be doing today. So, again, from Dzongsar Khyentse Rinpoche: âThe meaning of non-duality here is the absence of separation â the absence of separation, or the absence of difference, between appearance and emptiness. In other words, nothing we perceive â not the guru, the student, or anything else, not the Buddha â truly exists externally. And until we fully realize non-duality, the exercise of dissolving or merging the deity or guru with ourselves is an extremely useful tool.â
So itâs starting to incline us to imagining: okay, what would it be like if we really perceived in a way that we are interconnected, that we are not separate, that all this is happening within one field of experience? And of course there are different ways that we each experience it, but what would it be like if we started to imagine in a sense that, yes, we are individuals, but weâre also so connected that â wait, where does that line start and stop? So just something to imagine. Iâve had experiences where Iâve perceived reality in such a way that Iâm not quite so sure where my body stops and starts. You remember Vince talked about the subtle bodies and the different bodies. So in some ways, what if our body extended beyond what we typically think? What if?
So again, weâre going to be evoking and then dissolving. One more thing from Dzongsar Khyentse Rinpoche. He says: âEventually you will come to realize that dissolution happens in the same way that the space inside a container mixes with the sky and the whole atmosphere. And this is the part of the practice that many students misunderstand. Imagine a clay pot. It is both surrounded by and filled with space. When the pot breaks, the space that had been inside the pot mixes with the space that has been outside of it, and the two become inseparable. It is not possible to tell the inside space from the outside space. Space is just space, and thereâs no way of knowing where any part of it originated. This is how the practitioner and the guru-Buddha dissolve into each other to become inseparable.â
So itâs kind of a reorientation of thinking and sensing. Itâs like, okay, wait, what is this like, to actually sense into this sense of non-separation?
So I want to give you a little bit of a different take. I want a little bit of a Western view here. Thereâs an article â a New York Times article by David Brooks. He talks about Plato and Aristotle here for a minute. So: âPlato gives the impression that imagination is a somewhat airy-fairy luxury good. It deals with illusions and make-believe and distracts us from reality and our capacity to fully reason about it.â So Iâm not sure if thatâs in there somewhere, in some of your consciousness. I had a strong reaction, in some ways, to imaginal meditation at a certain point, because my parents were New Agey. So anyway, thatâs Plato. âAristotle, though, countered and said that imagination is one of the foundations of all knowledge.â So, interesting.
David Brooks goes on to say: âA person who feeds his or her imagination with a fuller repertoire of thoughts and experiences has the ability not only to see reality more richly, but also â even more rare â to imagine the world through the imaginations of others. This is the skill we see in Shakespeare to such a miraculous degree: his ability to disappear into his characters and inhabit their points of view without ever pretending to explain them. Imagination helps you perceive reality, try on other realities, predict possible futures, and experience other viewpoints.â
So just imagine what it would be like to be able to connect to people regardless of situations and circumstances and beliefs, you know what I mean? You could imagine a thriving world, where weâre all thriving.
Get full access to Buddhist Geeks at www.buddhistgeeks.org/subscribe - Vince Fakhoury Horn on the grammar of social mettaâwhy a metta phrase needs a wish and only optionally a subject, how Sharon Salzbergâs âpith mettaâ shortens the phrase once the wish starts coming true, and why open-heartedness is a byproduct of the practice rather than its purpose, so there is always more to aspire to.
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Vince Horn: Today as we continue to unfold the social metta instructions I wanted to talk a little bit about the grammar of social metta, meaning the linguistic structure of how this practice works at least as far as I understand, which is very much an emerging understanding. And I think talking about grammar with this stuff is really helpful, because as one of my mentors Ken Wilber often points out, you know, you can be a completely fluent speaker without having any understanding of the grammar of the language youâre speaking.
In fact thatâs how all of us learn language, unless you have like linguistic professor parents or something, who are teaching you grammar early. You know, we all learn to speak without knowing the rules of the language. And then later in school, you know, we go to school and still most of us donât learn the grammar of the language weâre speaking.
And so, to know the grammar, to know how something works is not required to do it. But itâs very much helpful if youâre going to try to help other people do it, or if you wanna have a deeper understanding of what youâre doing. So I wanted to just share a little bit of sort of the grammar here of what weâre working with.
At the heart of how weâre working with social metta, and I think this is because itâs an out-loud practice, and out-loud practices seem to really be aided by words. Weâre working with a phrase, this metta phrase, and we started with a very simple phrase: may it arise.
May loving awareness arise. May compassionate presence arise. May happiness arise. Whatever the it is, working with a quality of presence or of a dimension of the open heart and inviting it to arise. Thatâs a simple phrase and it has in that phrase a wish. This is the kind of one of the key parts of the metta phrase, is thereâs a wish embedded in the phrase.
Thereâs something that weâre wishing for, in this case, compassionate presence. Now Iâd say at the very minimum, a metta phrase has to have a wish. There has to be something that weâre wishing for. Thatâs kind of what makes it a metta phrase. Itâs a well wish. Itâs a prayer using other language.
Metta is Buddhist prayer in a way. And the other thing that often can show up in the basic structure grammar of social metta, but it doesnât have to, as you can see with the phrase âmay it arise,â is that there can often and is often a subject as well in the phrase. That is a person or group of people or category of beings that we are sharing that wish with.
So, instead of just âmay it arise,â where thereâs not a clear sense of the subject, it could be for everyone, it could just be for me. Who knows what is going on in the interiority of someone whoâs saying that phrase. Itâs kind of hard to tell. But when we actually include a subject, and we are using things like pronouns, or weâre coming up with particular categories.
For instance, you know, with the situation, the political unfolding in Russia, we could â âMay all Russian people be happy.â And really, you could call to mind a particular group or category of beings. âMay all animals be happy and healthy.â Thereâs really no limit there in terms of how we parse out who it is that weâre wishing this for.
But thatâs the subject, the who, in this practice. And so Iâd say that metta phrases have to at least have a wish in them, and then can also have a subject. In a sense, thatâs the elementary grammar of a social metta practice that include that as a kind of minimum.
Then you can build, you know, more complex structures and sentences and things. You can rotate through phrases. You can pick phrases. You can go through a sequence of different subjects with a particular intention in mind. You know, these practices are very versatile in terms of how you can apply them.
So thatâs why weâre focusing on the core grammar. If we understand the elemental aspect of this, it becomes easier to build. Once you understand how a sentence works, itâs much easier to write a paragraph and then a book, and so forth. So yeah, just a little bit about that.
And this is important, too, for our practice today. Weâre going to explore the practice of pith metta, which I first learned about this through Sharon Salzberg and working with her instructions on loving-kindness practice. And she would often share with people and suggest that say youâre on a deep metta retreat, and youâre doing a lot of metta practice. And here Iâd say, or if youâre doing social metta and it starts to happen, because social metta in some ways maybe can be like the equivalent of being on a retreat. You start to notice that you are actually feeling it. The wish becomes reality. You know, your wish comes true, and youâre suddenly not just wishing for compassionate presence to arise, but you are feeling compassionate presence, or you are being compassionate presence.
In that case, Sharon would suggest that having this whole phrase can become clunky and get in the way of the living experience of the practice. And in that case, she said, feel free to shorten the phrase down to its pith. Whatâs the essential wish, the one or two usually words that points to what youâre wishing for.
And you could just shorten it down to the pith in those cases, and just say happy or compassionate presence or just compassion, whatever feels the most pithy. The most kind of simple. And so in this practice too, in social metta, we found it really helpful to introduce the pith phrase. And that is essentially just working with the wish, just being with the wish.
Here whatâs important, I think, to highlight is that sometimes metta practice, we are aspiring, you know, weâre wishing, and sometimes we are realizing.
It moves from inclining the mind toward the open heart to being open-hearted. And important, I think, to recognize those two different possibilities because the purpose of the practice isnât to be open-hearted. It is actually to incline toward open-heartedness. And if it arises, great. Thatâs beautiful, and itâs a byproduct of doing the practice. But itâs not the purpose of the practice. Itâs a result that can happen from doing the practice. So, even if youâre using the full phrase or youâre just working with the pith, itâs always possible to share it in a way where itâs more of an aspiration.
Itâs like, may compassionate presence arise. Iâm not feeling it. I donât even know what it is. I sure wish it were here. Thatâs fine. Like, thatâs actually totally legit to practice metta in that way, to wish for it to arise. Itâs also totally legit if it arises to just say âcompassionate presence.â
Or even you can say, may compassionate presence arise, and you can feel it. It may have arisen here, but has it arisen everywhere for everyone throughout all space and time? Well, if not, thereâs more. Thereâs more to aspire to. And I think thatâs always the case with metta.
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