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    Savage Love Episode 1040

    13/10/2026 | 55 mins.
    A divorced father of adult children understood himself to be bisexual later in life. He digs men in an aromantic, casual sex kind of way. Is he obligated to tell his family? Does his connections with men fall under private sex life or public identity?

    A woman went to a sex party and met a hot female bouncer who throws out misbehaving guests. The caller wants to ask her to be her dom. Should she? How?

    On the Magnum, Dan and sex researcher Niki Davis-Fainbloom do a deep dive on fetishes. What's the difference between kinks and fetishes? What causes people to get into them- is it cultural or biological? Is the destigmatization of kink making it less hot? Listen in.

    And, a straight man matched with the woman who works at his local dry cleaners. He thinks she might be trouble- texting him from the bar at 1:30, maybe driving drunk. Should he avoid her or get a little hanky-panky from a hot, messy lady?

    Call us, text us, don't be afraid.

    206-302-2064

    Or record your question and send it to Q@Savage.Love

    Or just click ⁠HERE⁠.

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    After Action Report #50

    09/10/2026 | 16 mins.
    Imogen was a seasoned Burning Man pro. But she’d never done a threeway with whippets there before…

    Hear all about her dusty experience.

    What have YOU done lately? Hmmmm?Write up your experience (good or bad) and send it to Q@Savage.Love.

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  • Savage Lovecast

    Savage Love Episode 1039

    06/10/2026 | 59 mins.
    A gay man in his 60s is perplexed about foot fetishes, and what is so damn sexy about his feet.

    A man is frustrated by the concept of "false positives" when he tests for herpes. What on earth is going on here? Dan brings on the delightful and calming Dr. Ina Park to explain the whole testing situation.

    On the Magnum, it's a bisexuality brawl with sex therapist Claire Perelman! Dan and Claire talk about the bisexual's plight in dating, and how to overcome the stigma.

    And a gay man and his boyfriend are moving in together. The boyfriend owns his apartment and asks the caller to pitch in toward a vacation fund in lieu of paying rent. Is this equitable?

    Your question:

    Call or text to: 206-302-2064

    Record and send to: Q@Savage.Love

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  • Savage Lovecast

    After Action Report #49

    02/10/2026 | 20 mins.
    What's in the duffel bag?

    On her vacation to Bali, she hooked up with a hot, rich dude with a glass house in the jungle.

    But, what tricks did he have up his sleeve?

    After a bad experience at home, Julia had a re-discovery of her best sexual self.

    Have a listen.

    And then send us your story!

    Q@Savage.Love

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  • Savage Lovecast

    Savage Love Episode 1038

    29/09/2026 | 58 mins.
    We begin the show...drunkenly. A lit lady enjoys the sensation of touching ears. Room temperature, or slightly chilled. Not too cold. But "ear porn?" Is that a thing?

    A lucky fella won a three-month free entry to his local bathhouse. Whatever should he do when he's in there?

    Our guest this week is Allen Sulkin, creator of the new podcast "Gerbil." He and Dan analyze the persistence of the insane sex myth that you've probably heard about. Do people still believe it? They go into the dark motivations that allowed such a preposterous rumor to live on and on. Gerbil is out now, and you should drop everything to listen to it.

    And, should a woman demand her fiancé continue the painful, expensive tattoo removal from a previous marriage?

    People. Make good choices.

    Call or text your questions to: 206-302-2064

    Or send to Q@Savage.Love

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Dan Savage, America's only advice columnist, answers your sex and relationship questions and yaps about politics. To record a question for Dan to be answered in a later podcast, record your question and send it to Q@Savage.Love, or call 206-302-2064. For a much longer version of the show, with no ads, visit savage.love and get yourself a subscription.
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