Today I'm joined by Gill, who talks with me about a parents' worst nightmare - the loss of a child. Only in this instance, Catarina died In Utero at 40 weeks in avoidable circumstances.Gill talks openly about the initial feeling that something was not right, the pain of discovery while expecting to give birth and the subsequent emotional, social and domestic impacts upon her life. Talking through her story of initially trying to remain strong and convincing herself that she was coping fine, through to excessive alcohol consumption and the realisation that she was on the brink of falling apart, Gill shows incredible fortitude in how she has faced the lowest point a parent could endure and come back brighter.In memory of Catarina, who would have been 10 years old on 20th September.For further information, please click links below:Sands | Saving babies' lives. Supporting bereaved families.Sands New Zealand - Pregnancy, Baby and Infant Loss Support, New Zealand Baby Loss Awareness Week – Break the silence around baby lossWave of Light – Baby Loss Awareness WeekAvailable on Spotify and Apple Podcasts:https://open.spotify.com/show/4aAdbPrTjEEnwco5jII65U?si=cd86a02aa0f44f0fhttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/social-harmony-time-to-talk/id1792776061
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Episode 47 - Seeing Life Differently...
Today I'm joined by Roisin, another friend from home whose story will relate to many. Erin was born and things appeared to be well - she was a friendly, compliant child who was no trouble. Following some routine 'age and stage' assessments, Roisin began to feel that something was amiss, then at 3 years of age Erin was diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Condition.Like many, Roisin was unsure what this meant - primarily for Erin, but also for the rest of the family and so she set about educating herself while trying to understand her daughter's particular needs. There was also the realisation that this wasn't just a phase that would pass - it was a lifelong journey. There then followed struggles with funding for education and health provision, having to adapt her parenting styles following the birth of her second daughter and navigating daily challenges and successes.Roisin talks openly and honestly, sharing her experiences and thoughts in the hope of demystifying some of the stigma and untruths circulated around neurodivergence, while appreciating her own growth as both a parent and as a person.Available on Spotify and Apple Podcasts.For more information, please click below:(IPSEA) Independent Provider of Special Education AdviceNational Autistic Society
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Episode 46 - A Change is Gonna Come
Following on from the success of our conversation in Episode 38, I'm rejoined by my emotional support Canadian Chelsea Powell for another deep dive on personal growth - this time starting with a look at the relational grief that comes from stepping out of a relationship.As is often the case, the end of a relationship brings about intense feelings but as a society are we too quick to push forward without dealing with the underlying causes and emotions bubbling just beneath the surface? And if so, how will this impact us - in addition to how it will affect subsequent relationships?Speaking from a perspective of honesty and genuine curiosity, Chelsea and I talk about our own difficult situations, the feeling of not wanting to cause the inevitable hurt, how not knowing oneself inevitably attracts "the shit" and lessons leant from life, doing hard things and Tinder among other things...Available on Spotify and Apple Podcasts.Please like, follow, comment and share along with checking out my socials:https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61570245380684(1) InstagramSocialHarmonyTalk (@socialharmonytalk) | TikTokCheck out Chelsea's work on the links below:(1) Instagramhttps://open.spotify.com/show/0YhAbJpkjdQeaHQIQnco8I?si=d21ec1f5dd694eb4Breathe It In, Be Deliberate
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Episode 45 - Man On a Mission
I'm joined today by Johnathan to talk about his work with men who are struggling with chronic illnesses and compulsive behaviours - in particular addictions to porn, caffeine, binge eating and more.Johnathan was himself an addict and for many years continued to circle the drain of rehab, 12-step programmes and relapse until - while struggling through the break-up of his marriage and COVID lockdown - learning about the Medical Medium and then applying the protocols of this as the bedrock of holistic healing.We discuss healing the liver as a starting point for beginning the move towards improved inner health, grounding and the benefits of being in nature, erectile dysfunction and the mind/body connection, root causes of addiction and so much more.To check out Johnathan's work, click below:(2) InstagramJohnathan Richard - YouTubejohnathan_richard33 | Instagram | LinktreeAnd check out the Medical Medium below:Medical Medium - Home
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Episode 44 - Move Closer...
In today's episode I'm joined by Emily Wehrman, owner and CEO of Mastery in Love. Emily works with women to find or rediscover intimacy and create true, lasting love - starting with the self, in a holistic model that looks at the mind, body and central nervous system as a starting point.Emily looks to "meet you where your healing is at" and have the sometimes taboo conversations that peel back the layers of our inauthentic 'shell' that we use to face the world but which denies us the true intimacy and connection that we seek. In a polarised society that tends to equate intimacy predominantly with sex, Emily's work is so valuable as a conduit for getting in touch with one's inner drives as well as examining how we connect with those around us.Available on Spotify and Apple Podcasts.Check out Emily's work on the links below:Emily Wehrman Mastery In Love | Sensuality/Sexuality, Awakening & Relationships - St. Louis, MO(2) InstagramFacebook
Inspired by my own growth following a separation and subsequent look at my life. Coming from a male-centric point of view and hoping to encourage inner and outer harmony. Wellbeing, moving on, self-improvement and hopefully something that resonates with both men and women the world over.
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