But You Look So Good

• Preparing for Medical Appointments

  Ever left a medical appointment and thought, “Wait… what just happened?” You’re not alone. Research shows we forget up to 80% of what doctors tell us (so it’s not just the brain fog talking). In this episode, we’re diving into the art of preparing for medical appointments when you live with a chronic health condition.From writing down your three most important questions, to remembering that yes, you are allowed to bring a support person (or at least a notebook), we’ll share practical tips to make your appointments less stressful and more productive.We’ll also cover some psychological tricks – like reframing “I’m being difficult” into “I’m advocating for myself” – and why self-compassion belongs in your medical folder, right alongside your test results.Think of this episode as the pep talk your future self will thank you for.⁠⁠Livology (Psychology - Private Practice)⁠⁠⁠⁠MS: Get Your Head Around It! (Online Course)⁠⁠If you need any support after listening to our podcast, you can contact Lifeline in Australia at 13 11 14, available 24/7. For support in other locations, please visit ⁠Befrienders Worldwide⁠.⁠Instagram @butyoulooksogoodpodcast⁠

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• Resilience: Not about Bouncing Back!

  We hear the word resilience everywhere—but what does it really mean? In this episode, Sally and Seona unpack the myths around resilience and explore how we can actively build it in everyday life, especially when things don’t go to plan.Resilience isn’t about being tough all the time, ignoring pain, or forcing positivity. Instead, it’s about flexibility, connection, and the “ordinary magic” of small daily practices that keep us steady. Drawing on research, lived experience, and practical psychology, we share five key ingredients that help strengthen resilience: connection, meaning-making, values-driven action, self-compassion, and flexibility.For those living with chronic illness, resilience isn’t about snapping back to the old version of yourself—it’s about adapting, finding purpose, and building a meaningful life alongside the challenges. Tune in for practical tips, gentle reflections, and a reminder that resilience is something we can all grow, one thread at a time.⁠⁠Livology (Psychology - Private Practice)⁠⁠⁠⁠MS: Get Your Head Around It! (Online Course)⁠⁠If you need any support after listening to our podcast, you can contact Lifeline in Australia at 13 11 14, available 24/7. For support in other locations, please visit ⁠Befrienders Worldwide⁠.⁠Instagram @butyoulooksogoodpodcast⁠

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• Optimistic Realism - Let’s Go!

  Living with a chronic health condition means facing a whole mix of emotions - from hope and positivity to worry and “what ifs.” In this episode of But You Look So Good, psychologists Sally and Seona dive into optimism, pessimism, and the middle ground we like to call optimistic realism. We explore what the research says about how mindset shapes our health, why a little pessimism isn’t always a bad thing, how blind optimism can be a bit dicey, and how optimistic realism is the place to aim for. Most importantly, we share practical tips for building “learned optimism” - simple strategies to bring more balanced hope into everyday life. Whether you tend to expect the best, brace for the worst, or swing between the two, this episode is for you. Join us for a grounded, lighthearted chat about finding hope without losing sight of reality. ⁠⁠Livology (Psychology - Private Practice)⁠⁠⁠⁠MS: Get Your Head Around It! (Online Course)⁠⁠If you need any support after listening to our podcast, you can contact Lifeline in Australia at 13 11 14, available 24/7. For support in other locations, please visit ⁠Befrienders Worldwide⁠.⁠Instagram @butyoulooksogoodpodcast⁠

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• Music as a Mood Medicine

  In this episode of But You Look So Good, psychologists Sally and Seona (who both live with chronic health conditions) explore how music can be a powerful tool for mood regulation and emotional support. From the stadium anthems that give you goosebumps to the songs that make you cry in the car park, we unpack how music affects the brain and why it can be more effective than you might think in shifting how we feel. We’ll dive into research around music as a coping strategy for chronic illness, and share simple, fun strategies you can try — like giving yourself a "playlist prescription." Bonus: no side effects! (except possibly dancing in your kitchen).This episode is informative, practical, and filled with heart (and a few laughs). Please note: we are not saying for a second that some banging 90s tunes are a substitute for clinical treatment of mental health conditions.  But You'll Be OK (Online Course)⁠⁠ - a live, supportive, six-week experience designed specifically for people living with chronic illness. ⁠⁠Livology (Psychology - Private Practice)⁠⁠⁠⁠MS: Get Your Head Around It! (Online Course)⁠⁠If you need any support after listening to our podcast, you can contact Lifeline in Australia at 13 11 14, available 24/7. For support in other locations, please visit ⁠Befrienders Worldwide⁠.⁠Instagram @butyoulooksogoodpodcast⁠

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• Who Am I Now - Re-Release

  Sally and Seona are having a week off to put the finishing touches on the new course ‘But You’ll Be OK’ (starting on August 22nd - enrol now!), so in this episode of But You Look So Good, we revisit the episode exploring the question we ask ourselves after receiving a chronic illness diagnosis, “Who am I now?”. They share personal experiences, answer listener questions, and provide practical insights on how to navigate the shifts in identity that come with health challenges. From societal expectations to the internal process of self-acceptance, this episode takes a thoughtful look at how chronic illness reshapes who we are. Join the conversation and discover ways to find clarity and empowerment on this complex journey.But You'll Be OK (Online Course)⁠ - a live, supportive, six-week experience designed specifically for people living with chronic illness. ⁠⁠Livology (Psychology - Private Practice)⁠⁠⁠⁠MS: Get Your Head Around It! (Online Course)⁠⁠If you need any support after listening to our podcast, you can contact Lifeline in Australia at 13 11 14, available 24/7. For support in other locations, please visit ⁠Befrienders Worldwide⁠.⁠Instagram @butyoulooksogoodpodcast⁠

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