How to Truly “See” Neurodivergent Families ft. Carlos Whittaker
What if one small moment of compassion could change an entire day for a neurodivergent child—or their parent? So many ND families live with daily overwhelm, meltdowns in public, invisible disabilities, and the feeling of not being understood. In today’s episode, we ask: What does it really look like to “see” neurodivergent families in a world that often doesn’t?
I’m joined by Carlos Whittaker—author, speaker, storyteller, and champion of walking with people instead of standing on issues. Carlos shares how choosing compassion over judgement builds bridges and creates true community, especially for neurodivergent families.
Together, we talk about:
The power of being seen and why ND families need it most
How to support a parent during a public meltdown (what to do + what NOT to say)
What small actions look like when you want to “walk with people”
Parenting differently, shrinking social circles, and finding your village
Hope, healing, and why we don’t need to be “fixed” to move forward
Simple ways anyone can make the world more inclusive for ND kids and parents
Connect with Carlos Whittaker on Instagram: @loswhit
Check out Carlos’s books, courses & community
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Navigating school struggles and finding your people as Autism Mums with Natalie & Victoria
What happens when the people around you don’t have honest conversations about your child’s needs — and what happens when they do?
In this fun, real, and deeply relatable episode, Greer is joined by Natalie and Victoria, hosts of The Autism Mums Podcast, for a conversation packed with humour, lived experience, and practical wisdom.
Both raising autistic children with unique needs, Natalie and Victoria share their perspectives on navigating school systems, managing family dynamics, and celebrating the special interests that bring their children joy.
From school struggles and support gaps to honest conversations with educators and family members, this episode will resonate with every parent navigating autism parenting in a world that isn’t always built for their children.
In This Episode, We Talk About:
Navigating school challenges — routines, support gaps, and trust issues
Joys of seeing children thrive through special interests and routine
Meeting “your people” and finding community
Honest conversations with schools and family members
Hacks for family gatherings that actually work
Embracing differences and recognizing autistic strengths
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Supporting Autistic Adults in Everyday Life: Transition, Skills & Community with Sandra Worth
What happens when the school supports disappear after graduation?
For many autistic adults, the transition to adulthood brings new challenges — independence, employment, and identity — often without the same guidance schools once provided. But it doesn’t have to be that way.
In this inspiring and practical episode, Greer sits down with Sandra Worth, mom of an autistic adult and leader at My Autism Connection (MAC) in Florida. Sandra shares how her organization empowers autistic adults through skill-building programs, community partnerships, and innovative initiatives that bridge the gap between school and real life.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
How MAC supports autistic adults through community and connection
Real-world programs that teach driving, job, and life skills
How partnerships with law enforcement are creating safer interactions
The impact of autism ID cards and statewide officer training
What late-diagnosed adults can gain from peer support networks
Whether you’re a parent, professional, or autistic adult yourself, this episode offers hope, direction, and practical examples of what true inclusion looks like beyond the school years.
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Neurodivergent Couples & Communication: ADHD, Autism & Real Relationship Strategies with Avy
What happens when two people love each other deeply — but speak completely different communication languages?
For many neurodivergent couples, especially those navigating ADHD and Autism dynamics, communication can be both a struggle and a source of deep connection.
In this honest and practical episode, Greer sits down with Avy — a communication coach and neurodivergent advocate who helps neurodivergent and mixed ND–NT couples build authentic, sustainable ways of connecting.
Together, they unpack real-life communication strategies, mindset shifts, and honest moments that help couples bridge differences, reduce misunderstandings, and create emotional safety — even on the hard days.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
How ADHD and Autism shape communication styles in relationships
What spoon theory teaches us about energy and conflict
Why specificity is key when asking for help or support
How “reflecting tone” can transform emotional understanding
How curiosity and authenticity foster lasting connection
Whether you’re in a neurodivergent relationship or simply want to communicate with more empathy, this episode is full of actionable tools and hope-filled insight.
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ADHD in Women, Masking & Late Diagnosis: Dr. Janina Maschke’s Story + Practical Strategies
What happens when the professional helping others with ADHD realizes… she has it too?
After years of supporting ADHDers as a psychologist, Dr. Janina Maschke experienced her own “aha” moment — a late ADHD diagnosis that changed everything.
In this powerful and eye-opening episode, Greer sits down with Dr. Janina Maschke — psychologist, ADHD coach, researcher, and author of A Feminist Guide to ADHD. Together, they unpack how ADHD often looks different in women, the role of hormones and masking, and why so many women don’t get diagnosed until adulthood.
Blending clinical insight with lived experience, Dr. Maschke shares practical tools for managing overwhelm, setting boundaries, and reframing ADHD as a different way of thinking — not a broken one.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
How ADHD presents differently in women
Why masking and hormones delay diagnosis
Real-life strategies for preventing burnout and emotional overload
How to set boundaries and respond with intention
Why reframing ADHD can transform how you see yourself and others
Whether you’re newly diagnosed or supporting someone who is, this episode offers compassion, validation, and practical next steps for thriving with ADHD.
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About The Unfinished Idea | Autism Spectrum, ADHD, AUDHD, Neurodiverse parent
What’s it really like parenting a child with ADHD and autism? How can parents, teachers, and communities better support neurodivergent children? How do autistic and ADHD individuals experience the world? Each week, we explore these questions with practical strategies, emotional insight, and real stories.
I’m Greer — a mum of two boys (and two dogs!) raising a child with special educational needs (SEN) alongside my husband. Our daily life looks different from the norm, but it’s full of love, advocacy, and growth. I started this podcast to create a space for parents of neurodivergent kids, educators, and allies to learn, connect, and build understanding together.
You’ll hear parenting tips, advocacy guidance, sensory strategies, and personal reflections that shine a light on both the joys and challenges of neurodivergent parenting. Through heartfelt solo episodes and guest interviews, we’ll talk about EHCP or IEP processes, school support, emotional regulation, and the big feelings that come with raising ND kids.
Whether you’re here as a parent of an autistic or ADHD child, a late-diagnosed adult, a teacher seeking insight, or someone wanting to understand the neurodivergent world, this podcast is your space to grow, connect, and know you’re not alone.
Welcome to The Unfinished Idea — a podcast all about parenting, autism, ADHD, and life in a neurodivergent family. Here, we open up honest conversations about neurodiversity, raising neurodivergent children, and navigating the everyday realities of SEN parenting.
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