Doctor Carlton, The internet's favorite gay, Mayo Clinic trained board certified gastroenterologist and mouthy yet sensitive gay guy, Dangilo Brian Bonilla tack...
This week, Dr. Carlton and Dangilo welcome a special guest—one of San Diego’s most sought-after personal trainers and wellness coaches, Grant Foreman. Grant specializes in both in-person and online coaching, and you may have seen all of him as he has traveled the world as one of the Naked Trainers. He has also led naked wellness retreats for men and women in Northern California. More recently, he has branched out into meditative and sexual shamanic training.The guys chat with Grant about his experience as a naked trainer, his time as a go-go boy, and the wild shenanigans he’s encountered while living overseas in Germany. They also dive into the world of shamanic training and answer the burning question: What exactly is jelqing?Dr. Carlton and Dangilo, with Grant’s help, tackle some “Hit It or Quit It” questions, including:How do you make sure you’re actively clean?Can I take my one-day PrEP on demand since I’m not very active?Can I cut PrEP in half to avoid bonus issues?Does using big toys prevent the anus from returning to its original size?Does fisting or playing with big toys weaken the sphincter muscles?The guys also answer some listener questions. One listener asks about the norovirus and gay sex, while another wants to know about acoustic wave therapy.Tune in for a mix of education, entertainment, and butt stuff.https://linktr.ee/grantforemanfitness?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaaSUgXldUF8v-UNvXweEAXj4NrF18KkBUEwXlmklhaUJtYUMvuyNofPOc4_aem_6youpHC2tc_u0LLKIEonagAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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Holding Hands in Palm Springs- 29
This week, Dr. Carlton talks about his Exxxcapades in Palm Springs—let’s just say there was a whole lot of "hand-holding" happening, and not in the PG-rated sense. Meanwhile, Dangilo found himself in the smoky, theatrical embrace of Benihana for a birthday celebrationThe guys dive into some listener reviews and tackle some feedback. Dr C and Dangilo do a round of "Hit It or Quit It." Is anal numbing cream a friend or foe? Disco dosing before, during or after a sex trip? And when it comes to fisting, what are the actual dangers? Oh, and hemorrhoidsThe questions don’t stop there. One listener asks for advice on life after a colon resection, while another has a burning query about the proper use of a penis pump. The guys dish out thoughtful, practical advice with their some humor because who says educational can’t be entertaining?And there’s a Trampage update, because what would an episode be without checking in on our favorite long-distance love drama? The gays wrap it all up with this week’s “What’s Your Love Language?” segment,Grab your headphones and prepare to laugh, learn, and maybe squirm a little—it’s another unforgettable episode of Butt Honestly!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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Fires, Fetishes, and Feels-28
This week, Dr. Carlton and Dangilo bring the heat—literally and figuratively. They dive into the LA wildfires, sharing thoughtful ways to donate and support those affected. Dr. Carlton gives us a steamy rundown of his trip to Maui’s Little Beach, where—spoiler alert—things are far from "little." Meanwhile, Dangilo wrestles with the details of his Orlando event, and let’s just say this wrestling fetish conversation puts a whole new spin on body slams.In the midst of the heat, Dr. Carlton drops a surprise announcement that’ll leave you curious, and the guys wade into the drama of the International Mr. Leather situation.Listener questions this week bring it all: post-bottoming aftercare tips, navigating life after a prostate cancer diagnosis, and a heartfelt inquiry from someone in a seven-year marriage grappling with their partner’s HIV status. The guys tackle each one with a mix of empathy, insight, and just the right amount of cheek.They wrap it all up with their “What’s Your Love Language?” segment, leaving you with warm fuzzies (and maybe a raised eyebrow or two). Tune in for laughs, wisdom, and the perfect balance of naughty and nice.LA disaster recovery Handbook. https://ladisasterrecoveryhandbook.org/LAist Article: https://laist.com/news/climate-environment/how-to-help-la-fire-victims TIME Mag article, What to say: https://time.com/7206518/los-angeles-california-wildfires-what-to-say/ Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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Granola, Mecca of Dick-27
Dr. Carlton and Dangilo are back to kick off the year with a bang—pun intended. This week, the guys dive into their recent travels, some hot takes on Squid Game Season 2 (yes, they’re already obsessed), and the buzzworthy new app Dick Explorer. Who’s swiping? Who’s diving deep? You’ll have to listen to find out!But it’s not all TV and tech—things heat up as they tackle your burning questions. One listener is allergic to doxy—so now what? Another is curious (and maybe a little concerned) about a mysterious clear jelly post-anal session. And if you’ve ever wondered whether some guys are just “not built” to bottom, the guys don’t hold back.As always, the episode wraps with the warm fuzzies as Dr. Carlton and Dangilo share their Love Languages of the Week. Start your year off right with laughs, wisdom, and a little cheeky inspiration!Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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New Year, Same Kinks-26
It’s 2025, baby, and Dr. Carlton and Dangilo are here to pop some champagne and kick off the new year right! This week, the guys dive into a juicy listener question about navigating feelings for another man while in a monogamous relationship. Is it just a passing crush, or is it time for “the talk”? Get ready for some real talk with zero judgment—just like you’d expect.But wait, there’s more! The guys unwrap Grindr’s 2024 Wrapped, spilling all the dirt on the country with the most bottoms (yep, we’re naming names), the kink capitals of the world, and who snatched the title of Pop Star of the Year. It’s like Spotify Wrapped but way gayer and infinitely more entertaining.As the confetti settles, Dr. Carlton and Dangilo wrap up the year with a heartfelt (and slightly chaotic) holiday edition of their Love Language of the Week. Because nothing says “new year, new me” like love, laughter, and a little butt talk, right?Whether you’re recovering from the New Year’s Eve hangover or plotting your resolutions, this episode will have you laughing, blushing, and maybe even rethinking your Grindr bio. Cheers to a fabulous year ahead! 🥂🍑Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
About Butt Honestly with Doctor Carlton and Dangilo
Doctor Carlton, The internet's favorite gay, Mayo Clinic trained board certified gastroenterologist and mouthy yet sensitive gay guy, Dangilo Brian Bonilla tackle the messy life challenges that Sex, Socializing, Love and Buff Stuff present in the lives of LGBTQ+ men and their friends.
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